I Had A Bit Of A Falling Out With A Friend Earlier, Evidently I am A..
 

'People Pleaser' and try too hard...

Am I?...

Is it a bad thing?..

This all because I met her mum and she liked me.....

I've noticed that and I think it has been pointed out before so the answer is yes.

It's not necessarily a bad thing, depends on the circumstances.

too much nice may feel like a fake

Being a people pleaser can get really annoying for the people you're trying to please. Some people want a "yes man", but not everyone does.

Personally I think it's better to have the balls to speak your mind, rather than nodding your head to keep people happy.

Takes all kinds of people to make up a world though :2 cents:

drama queen! :)

So your friend didn't expect or want her mom to like you?

They don't have a great relationship - Maybe it is her problem and not mine...

So she is pissed her mom liked you when she secretly wanted her to hate you because they don't get on..

Yeah, I think she has issues.

I know - lol - However, I give you a hard time when you piss me off - I do it with lots of others - That's not 'people pleasing'...

I can be a bastad when I need to be - Honest.....

Fixed it for you..

Eddy you Dog.

My favourite was when this chick in Denver bad mouthed me to a bunch of my mates, I concede maybe I am a dick. But opening weekend of the ski season she wanted to crash at my place in the mountains.

If I'm such a cunt why would you want to stay at my house?

Then I followed up with, Sarah... a person can be fat, a person can be mean. But you should be both.

She didn't bother me again.

Dave

Her problem. Like you said, they don't have a great relationship and she was expecting you to see how bad her mom is and side with the friend. This would have reaffirmed to the friend that her mom was the bad person and at fault

You can be whatever you want to be ...

Yup! Without thinking what kind shit other people would think

"a falling out because the chicks mom likes you"

Jesus dude. You're gay, if you want to you can live your life without the erratic, whining, illogical female species.

I don't have a choice, i have to interact with the species to have sex. You can completely avoid females and still have sex... that, my friend, is a luxury position :1orglaugh

nothing wrong with wanting to stay positive, pleasing people's a good thing.

Always with one truth, keep it real :thumbsup

People please = hard on you

I think it makes it harder to live when you go about it that way.

I have been called the same, but you know what I want people to get along. I give them a chance before saying fuck it.