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TheLegacy 01-12-2023 03:47 PM

Would you perform CPR on your ex?
 
Give kudo's to the ex for saving her life but got me thinking if I would do the same to any of my ex's or just let nature takes it's course.


https://www.tmz.com/2023/01/12/lisa-...ardiac-arrest/

1:43 PM PT -- A source with direct knowledge tells us it was Lisa Marie's housekeeper who found her unresponsive in her bedroom. At about the same time, Lisa's ex-husband, Danny Keough, got home from taking the kids to school and performed CPR until paramedics arrived. Danny and Lisa have been living together for quite some time now.

Lisa Marie Presley has been rushed to a hospital after EMTs responded to her home for a possible cardiac arrest ... TMZ has learned.

Sources directly connected to Lisa Marie tell TMZ ... paramedics performed CPR Thursday at her house in Calabasas before rushing to a hospital. We're also told they were able to regain a pulse before she was transported.

It's unclear what her condition is at this point, but we know she's getting treatment in a hospital.

DVTimes 01-12-2023 04:30 PM

I was told years ago, that in the USA someone did CPR on a stranger, they recovered then sued the person for hurting them because the person was pushing on the persons chest to save there life.

Not sure if it was true or not, but I suspect people think walk away rather than get involved and end up with legal problems. Even if it was your ex.

Besides that, your ex may have left everything to you in there will and not got around to change it. So you may be best to not do anything.

redwhiteandblue 01-12-2023 04:49 PM

If CPR means "Cock Pussy Re-introduction" then yeah I probably still would.

Mr Pheer 01-12-2023 05:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DVTimes (Post 23083959)
I was told years ago, that in the USA someone did CPR on a stranger, they recovered then sued the person for hurting them because the person was pushing on the persons chest to save there life.

Not sure if it was true or not, but I suspect people think walk away rather than get involved and end up with legal problems. Even if it was your ex.

This is why a lot of states have "good samaritan" laws so that someone trying to render aid to another cannot be sued for it. Otherwise nobody would help anyone.

candyflip 01-12-2023 07:51 PM

I can't stand her 99% of the time, but my kids love her...so yeah, I'd make sure she lives if that was in my hands.

Look Chang 01-12-2023 08:36 PM

In some European countries, there are laws that punishes failure to assist a person in danger.

https://dailyamazingthings.com/wp-co...cpr.jpg?x19185

JesseQuinn 01-12-2023 08:57 PM

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Originally Posted by TheLegacy (Post 23083946)
got me thinking if I would do the same to any of my ex's

of course I would, in a motherfucking heartbeat (bad pun but all puns are deliciously bad so...). only have one 'ex' as I always liked being single (first real bf, first and last marriage). still like being single. if I want a ring I'll buy my own

can't fathom harboring hate for someone with whom I spent so many wicked years. granted, the separation was more a 'we want different things out of life' situ. no violence or abuse etc. even if that were the case, I'd hope I'd do the same. but if he had been abusive I wouldn't still have any contact with him anyway

first learned CPR when I was a teenager doing street outreach, that was a required aspect of training and glad I learned it. I performed it once, when a chica was OD'ing and non-responsive, breathing sips of air so just tried to keep her going til the ambulance arrived. that was at a club I worked at, not street-level. would she have lived if it was just me? prob not, but kept her going til the experts showed up (she lived and I didn't save her life-the medics, docs and nurses did)

would do that for anyone, except for Putin. maybe with that sociopath I'd offer a pillow for his face to help hasten the process :upsidedow

I'm guessing most peeps here aren't sadistic and bitter monsters so imagine the responses will be in the affirmative for human decency. but for the others, if they exist here, maybe a follow up question might be: could you (not 'you' OP, this is rhetorical) look yourself in the mirror the next day if you stood by and watched someone die? even writing that gave me shivers of the totally unfun sort

if Putin has trouble breathing I have a nice turquoise and purple pillow for over, I mean under, his head :upsidedow

for real tho CPR is a good skill to have. also proper positioning for people who have passed out after drinking too much

TheLegacy 01-13-2023 07:45 AM

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Originally Posted by JesseQuinn (Post 23084055)
of course I would, in a motherfucking heartbeat (bad pun but all puns are deliciously bad so...). only have one 'ex' as I always liked being single (first real bf, first and last marriage). still like being single. if I want a ring I'll buy my own

can't fathom harboring hate for someone with whom I spent so many wicked years. granted, the separation was more a 'we want different things out of life' situ. no violence or abuse etc. even if that were the case, I'd hope I'd do the same. but if he had been abusive I wouldn't still have any contact with him anyway

first learned CPR when I was a teenager doing street outreach, that was a required aspect of training and glad I learned it. I performed it once, when a chica was OD'ing and non-responsive, breathing sips of air so just tried to keep her going til the ambulance arrived. that was at a club I worked at, not street-level. would she have lived if it was just me? prob not, but kept her going til the experts showed up (she lived and I didn't save her life-the medics, docs and nurses did)

would do that for anyone, except for Putin. maybe with that sociopath I'd offer a pillow for his face to help hasten the process :upsidedow

I'm guessing most peeps here aren't sadistic and bitter monsters so imagine the responses will be in the affirmative for human decency. but for the others, if they exist here, maybe a follow up question might be: could you (not 'you' OP, this is rhetorical) look yourself in the mirror the next day if you stood by and watched someone die? even writing that gave me shivers of the totally unfun sort

if Putin has trouble breathing I have a nice turquoise and purple pillow for over, I mean under, his head :upsidedow

for real tho CPR is a good skill to have. also proper positioning for people who have passed out after drinking too much


I do agree that CPR is a good skill and also that a life is a life no matter who's it is in that you do not wish that weight on your conscience of having to had the ability but refuse - All 50 states and the District of Columbia have a good Samaritan law, in addition to Federal laws for specific circumstances. Many good Samaritan laws were initially written to protect physicians from liability when rendering care outside their usual clinical setting.

Even with my own ex who was not exactly a saint in any respect - I would likely start doing it for the sake of her kid then honestly move to her as a human being. I may flinch at first (likely a second) but would race to help despite person feelings. No one wants that karma nor the idea that I could have done more.

That being said I do understand those who say that if you're caught up in a legal matter where you're owing tons of money to that person greed would take over - others thinking that they could get in trouble (not the case) - human's have grown more self over the years to want to dive in much less risk their lives to help someone... even if it means no risk at all.

Am I lying or making it up? certainly not - case being how many see someone desperately in need of help and their first reaction is to pull out their phone to take a video. We rarely step in to help - even if it isn't life and death.

2MuchMark 01-13-2023 08:20 AM

I definately would. To an ex, to my wife's ex, to a stranger.

And if they sued me for saving their life? Well, let them I guess. There's no way I could ever live with the guilt of letting someone die.

Rochard 01-13-2023 12:01 PM

Without even thinking about it. If I had the chance to save someone's life I surely would. Don't care who it is.

JesseQuinn 01-13-2023 12:47 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TheLegacy (Post 23084185)
case being how many see someone desperately in need of help and their first reaction is to pull out their phone to take a video. We rarely step in to help - even if it isn't life and death.

there was a brutally fascinating episode of Black Mirror about that, White Bear

it really has become a real life 'thing' though, hasn't it? like "oh wow, this might go viral if I post it on tiktok/reddit/yt!!!"

creepy and callous as fuck to me EXCEPT for when peeps film police interactions with civilians. in those instances god bless the smartphone


you and your ex must have had a really bad break up. even if you hesitated for a moment (or two) I bet you'd still end up doing the right thing

CaptainHowdy 01-15-2023 05:47 PM

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Originally Posted by redwhiteandblue (Post 23083971)
If CPR means "Cock Pussy Re-introduction" then yeah I probably still would.

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh . . . Not a fan of making exes temporarily current.

Yanks_Todd 01-16-2023 05:04 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DVTimes (Post 23083959)
I was told years ago, that in the USA someone did CPR on a stranger, they recovered then sued the person for hurting them because the person was pushing on the persons chest to save there life.

Not sure if it was true or not, but I suspect people think walk away rather than get involved and end up with legal problems. Even if it was your ex.

Besides that, your ex may have left everything to you in there will and not got around to change it. So you may be best to not do anything.

There are very strong good Samaritan laws that protect you from this, so I am not sure if it is true. They may have tried to sue and just slammed into that wall. As a former certified EMT you almost break a rib or two doing CPR if you are doing it right.

sandman! 01-16-2023 02:14 PM

i cant think of any ex i hate enough to want to see dead.


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