When female says ‘I need time to think’ that’s a bad thing, right?
 

…or it it?… I think it’s bad

80% bad 20% good

I can't think of a time it was good.

Goddamnit I knew I would fuck it up sooner or later :Oh crap

Depends. Which of the following did you ask:

What gets wetter as it's drying?
Can you please remove your hazmat suit, I'm 60% sure ladyboy clap is safe?

she wants you do do some special shit... cook,flowers, etc

haha :1orglaugh

that's what she wants....

but don't do it. she'll have the upper hand in the relationship forever.

you don't want to teach her that you'll shower her with affection when she pulls away from you. she'll just keep doing it.

The correct response is "so you don't mind if I go bang some other girls while you're thinking?" :thumbsup

This. Imagine the look on her face, when she finds that you have done a 'Special Shit', just for her, in her underwear drawer... :2 cents:

Don't fall for that trap...women always think...about everything...all the fucking time. :1orglaugh

Just up the cash reward :1orglaugh

#1 rule is to not say a word until she's done thinking

Agreed - it's a trap. Pressuring her into giving an answer will only push her away. Just saying, "I'll be here to listen when you're done thinking" is the best response then leave her alone. That will always be your best shot. Consider it a dominance thing - if you keep hounding her for an answer then she has the upper hand - you leave her alone then she has no alternative to come back and talk. If her goal is to leave you - then wait - when she finally says "I want to break up" she's already made her mind up and you begging is the wrong thing to do - just agree with her and say "okay thanks for letting me know". Then move on with your life.

When I was a single I always had a back up plan. I would have a girlfriend but I would have another chick I would be interested in dating. In fact, when I met my wife, she was the back up.

Seems like someone needs to have a back up plan.

Yup, they are more clever than men who are dominated by their dick. :stoned

As bad as it seems to suck for you, you are now at the point to where you gotta act like you don't give a shit. 1 of 2 things will happen:

1: she'll be like "oops, he has options, gotta reign him back in". That's a win for you

2: enough time will pass to where you won't be acting anymore. You really won't give a shit. At that point it's a win/win for both of you because she wasn't worth it and you can both live happily ever after.

Either way, you win. If you gonna play, play to win.

The moment you lose self control and start the whole "please don't distance yourself, I love you" and start pampering her for affection as a reward, that's the moment you become a degenerate simp and she will walk all over you like the little bitch you became. You have lost the game.

The flowers and cooking and all that fluff is stuff that you should be sparingly gifting her with before it gets to this point anyway. Reward her when everything is good. Always treat a good woman right. Don't just start doing it when she pulls the feminazi stunts and shit tests. That's corny and rewards her for simping you. This is when you're not supposed to be doing any of that and giving her the the time to think there's a 50/50 chance she's pretending she needs.

Easier said than done, but practice makes perfect.

Class dismissed.

I'm with the legacy on this - she asks for breathing room, give her breathing room.

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in the spirit off....

The husband asks the wife:"What would you do if I won a lottery?
The wife:" I would take my half and move out"
The husband: " Just won 12 bucks on Scratch and Win. Here is 6 bucks and fuck off".
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Start packing . . .

Start thinking yourself ...

about fucking some other chick

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What would you do if you told her that "you need time to think"? She's doing exactly the same thing.

Most likely you will break up, but according to research, there are several factors that can influence the likelihood of a relationship ending. These include age, living arrangements, financial responsibility and other factors. As such, it is not possible to accurately predict if a relationship will end or not.

Maybe she's a virgin and dreamed that her first lover would be younger and sexier than you. :uhoh

I've become a human ChatGPT spotter 🤣

:2 cents:

It's bad ..most of them known what they want upfront