can all women orgasm?
 

whether it be penetration or clitoral?

No they fake everytime with me :(

It's kind hard in 10 seconds!

with me yes, but then again I've only been with one woman in my life. I think it's either the tongue ring, or the angle of the dangle which is proportionate to the length of the curve.
Cole

No it is usally 15 :glugglug

Physically if they have nerve endings and a brain, they are capable of having an orgasm. Mentally? Not all women are capable.

Oh lord. I think we all know what's coming, here. And it ain't a woman.

Both. Mine does :)

Never missed :thumbsup

where abouts in the rockies do you live? westminster here

2 fucking fingers.. thats all it takes.

If you are having problems, try anal.

No. That would be C batteries.

Steamboat. Ski Town USA. Powderslut Heaven. :)

my girlfriend calls me

the 1 minute man

not for all women.. thats the reason I ask... she is always so very close to climax but never quite enough to push her over the top. She says I am doing everything right, but what else could I do?

I am not really into the anal.

in my opinion, its all mental


i had a gf that wouldn't cum for shit and i tried everything.....till one day i talked dirty to her and she went nuts and loved it.

on the other hand i've had gfs that hate the dirty talk.

do your best and if you cant get her off, then fuck it. make sure you get off.

:)

I've got some enlargement pills I could sell ya. =)

But seriously, if you're having issues getting her off and you're not gonna go the anal route. Give her a hand. Literally.
Never stop touching woman. They love your hands all over their body. And use a free hand to play with her clit. Rub her just right while you're in the middle of it, and she'll have her O.

To quote my girlfriend:
"It's impossible my boyfriend to suck in bed when he looks at porn all day."

Some women just CAN'T have an orgasm, but typically this is due to amounts of sexual abuse. Time to run away.

Let her get on top. Let her be the one to do everything right. :thumbsup

Wash, dry, fold the clothes, and clean up 100% of the mess after dinner, also. That always helped me.

Two words... Rabbit Pearl!

Seriously, try the toys. I had a friend who confessed to me on her 30th birthday that she'd never had an orgasm. I bought the girl a vibrator the next day and she hasn't been the same since.

A lot of times women feel that "good girls don't" so they have a mental block against the orgasm. IMO, those barriers can be broken with a good vibrator. :) If you're going to go the dildo type vibrator route, get a good one with clitoral stimulation too like the rabbit pearl. If you just want one for the clit, get an electric/plug in model over one of those other ones. They're way better and not as noisy. It's easy to get distracted when your toys are as loud as a leaf blower. :1orglaugh

I don't know, can all men? :1orglaugh

I think the mental aspect was right on. She might be holding back for whatever reason and not even realize it or she may purposely hold herself back, because it embarrasses her in a way. It's hard for women to just let go and be sex maniacs when a lot of us worry about how fat we might look naked or how perky our breasts look lol.

I'm willing to bet, that even some of the guys who THINK their women are pleased, are being lied to by their women. Not a vicious lie, usually not intended to hurt anyone.

Trust is a big issue. She has to trust you completely. And I don't mean trust you with her life or trust you holding her checkbook. I mean, she has to trust that 1-) You aren't going to think less of her for whatever reason while having sex 2-) That you want her to have pleasure and not that you are just doing her a favor or being polite and 3-) That you are attracted to her body and reactions, no matter what they may be. Women have been preprogrammed with inhibitions since birth. The good girl thing, we don't want to seem like whores, even though a lot of us secretly love the idea of playing that character in bed.

You'd be surprised how many women have performance anxiety, even though they don't express it. A guy getting hard for you, isn't enough to know that he is really into being with you, because we all know some guys get hard when the wind blows. Make her feel as special and sexy as possible. I think talking dirty or things along that line during sex are a major turn on. She needs to get in the zone that men get in.

If all else fails, get her super drunk :winkwink: She will definitely let loose then! :1orglaugh

PS. Use lubrication. If she isn't... umm... moist enough, this could be a problem as well. I think the wetter the area, the better for a woman. Sometimes dry friction is like, ugh get it over with :Oh crap

The correct answer is... who cares.

I couldn't agree more. All women are nasty, nagging whores. You start lettin 'em think they're "entitled" to get off, and the next thing you know they'll wanna drive a car and vote.

Stupid hahahahas.


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yeah i just put my thingy in her thingy until im done

I'll keep it short, sweet and honest for ya

can they? - yes
do they? - no

getting a woman to have her first REAL orgasm is the biggest hurdle, they usually just don't know how.

Go buy a little device called an 'egg', its a small oval vibrator with varying speeds. Let her rub/press that on her clit while you're at the right angle inside and I think you'll both end up happy ;)


for any other sex tips, you guys will need to deposit to my paypal :) :Graucho

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