single? hell yeah :)
 

i'm single, and finally, feeling really good about it. cheers to those not tied down...

:glugglug

Been over 2 years single for me too... not too sure if its a good or bad thing but nevertheless, options are open, so cheers :glugglug

WG

Its nice. For the first time in a few years my life is nag fucking free. And you cannot put a price on that peace of mind.

:thumbsup

:) Yep

Fuck being single, hopefully in a few days I won't be single :thumbsup

Hell yeah :) I love every aspect of being solo =) no wifeys no GFs none of that bullshit - just fuck and don't exchange numbers, once Im done with a hoe I never want to see her face again. :ak47:

Being single is fucking awesome....hookin up w/ random ass girls is great

been 18 months for me :glugglug

been single since '97.... plan on staying that way too.

sigh ;)

let me change the title to:

not living with, or seriously seeing anyone. in my case, for about 18 months.

:glugglug

:glugglug cheers

:glugglug

that's not single.... I'm single.... what you described is called "alone".

You can tie me up but you can't hold me down. :winkwink: I'm LOVIN' the single life. I'm not about to be anyone's wife.

So singles bars are for people with live in girlfriends?

i think you can be married and be very alone.

and, not see the same girl everyday, yet be very far from "alone".

anyone else agree?

well said :glugglug

Very true. One of the reasons married people get restless and start to have affairs.

Uh oh. I sense more drama on the horizon. :1orglaugh

Being "alone" beats being miserable, anyday. But being with someone you're happy with, is pretty good, too.

:thumbsup

Yup. Sure do.

I hardly ever feel "alone" in my own company. Even though I DO enjoy the company of others, I'm a loner at heart and always will be.

:glugglug

Yeah. Or they decide they wanna fuck some blond chick at the gym. Either, or. ;>)))

hey, i'd still like to meet someone. as in someone.

but life is good regardless :)

thats all that really matters though in the long run isn't it?

cheers to life being good even when you're "alone" :glugglug

I was "alone" for roughly 5 years straight once..... kept telling myself the whole time it was awesome, complete freedom, do what I want, when I want, where I want, it was great....

it sucked.

was marriage better?

nope... was during marriage actually.

part of it anyway

ive been "alone" for almost 3 years now.. honestly i dont miss having a nag, i mean girlfriend... i cant say that i'm overly joyous to be alone, but im not crying myself to sleep either. it has its advantages and disadvantages

That about sums it up. The 'company' is also very few and far between. Probably the same for some.
:glugglug

Same here, always looking, never finding.... one day :)
WG

I've been for 8 months now! Life couldn't be better!

jDoG

Yeah, but you have to take into account that lot of the people in this thread sound like they've just had big break-ups. It doesn't suck if you're coming off something like that. It's smart. I just got divorced last Dec/Jan, and I think it would have been really stupid to run out and jump into another relationship. The breaking up part sucked, but being "alone" has actually been nice.

that's very true.... and everyone needs a different length of time to regroup. I would have been good with about a year. After that it just started sucking. But I got five instead.

SIngle for..8 days now?

Still having troubles sleeping alone.

i've never been married.

however, since i was 19 yrs old, i've never been without a girlfriend. so basically, i've never been single in the past 10 years (except for a couple months here and there), until early 2002. 4 gf's over those 10 years.

anyway, i'm enjoying the change.

:( Yeah, the beginning is the worst. But it will either get better, or you'll get back together. Don't know which is better, though. ;>))

I haven't met a friend on over 2 months. Not even over the phone..5 years holy molly that's a long time.

:glugglug

i thought so as well. until month 4 came up. much, much worse lol.

:)

I think I'm kinda the opposite, only had two gf's and they both ended up cheating on me so I'm kinda hesitant to get back into something. Would like to be in a relationship again but those last 2 gf's left me really messed up...

WG

not sure exactly how we are opposite. since i have some serious trust issues myself ;)

Remember what I mentioned to you the other day, and you said you were being pressured about? Did you buckle, yet? Don't lie, either. :)

i feel ya there man... last g/f burnt my ass hard.. i almost considered turning gay but then i realized i really have no desire to love the cock

I was married nine years. From eighteen to twenty-seven.

Life is a trip.

lol. not yet, but i guess i should. i have the installer on my desktop now...

Do it. ;>)

Good point, we seem to have similiar ways of thinking about financial spending and security issues of women :)

WG

Yeah, I know, but itll get better. I was the one to end it, so it could have been worse.

I was in this last relationship for a year, and the guy before it for 3 years. Everything else doesnt really count.

I have trust issues as well. My un-protected cock will not get hard for any woman I don't trust. Seriously. Only when I wear condoms will it get hard for those women. If that isn't a good indicator of trust issues then I dunno what is?! My issues have probably saved my life a few times.:thumbsup

I've been married twice, with my last one being with her since 1988, 15 years.

So this is the first time I've been single for a long long time. I'm not really single and alone since I have a son so its always lively here and I get all the family kinds of sounds without the ones that drove me nuts from my ex. LOL

Now, I just like casual dating and going out with girl "friends" more than searching for that "someone" as Quiet mentioned above.

If that "someone" pops in great, but I've come to the conclusion this is the happiest I've been in my life and why go back to the grind of marriage again.

Aaaahhh, the good life, with no more bitchy wife . . .

:)

hrmmm to rain on this celebration, im getting married this summer (most likely) unless plans change