A fucked up situation...
 

okay, i have a situation and i need your help/advice.

here's the deal:

i've been with my girlfriend for about 2 years now; i lost my virginity to her at 23; we love each other; we're planning on getting married. about 4 months ago we decided to turn our relationship into an open relationship for a number of reasons (mainly so i could go out there an have sex with other girls - experience what i never got to experience) she has another secondary boyfriend in another city. i just met a girl in that same city. this girl was actually going out with my girlfriend's secondary boyfriend, but he is no longer interested in her. so i took over...

here's the problem:

i can't seem to maintain an erection with any other girl other than my girlfriend. it's a psychological issue; not a physical one. i can easily get hard, i just can't maintain that level of hardness for very long. it really fucking pisses me off.

this girl i just met is incredibly cute. she's 23 yet she looks like she's 16. she has an incredibly small frame; toothpick thin with tiny tits and and a tight ass. plus, she's a nympho.

we got together on saturday night; everything was going so well until i tried to put on the condom. immediatly after putting it on i went limp. and i couldn't get it back up again.

i really want to continue this relationship - not just for the sex; there is something about this girl that i really like. but i fear that i will not be able to overcome this problem i am currently having. i can most likely conquer the physical aspect of it with some kind of supplement/drug or device, but i don't think i'll be able to conquer the psychological aspect of it.

so...

any advice? what should i do? try to conquer this problem? or just give it all up and end the relationship i'm having with this girl and end the open relationship as well?

how can i conquer the physical aspect of this problem? are there any safe, natural supplements/enhancements/drugs that i can use to help me? or any devices that will help me?

how can i conquer the psychological aspect of this problem? or is this not even possible?

and does anybody know anything about the drug clialis?

Hey Limpdick, how's it hang'n? :1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

This sounds TOTALLY psychological to me. IMO open relationships never really work for very long. You may want to consider seeing a hypnotherapist to see if you are having a problem with the whole situation. I suspect that as much as you THINK that you are ok with the open relationship thing, that deep down inside, it is probably bothering you (perfectly natural), and is thus causing your problem.

Sounds psychological to me too. Try not looking at your secondary women as secondary. They should be referred to as your first priorities.

peace.. and good luck..

:winkwink:

Try thinking of soemthing else!! think of a porn movie which makes you hard!!!

Admitt it. You love cock.

dude, that was harsh!!! but i did about piss myself when i read it...:1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

too fuckin much:1orglaugh

By a Penis Implant. That way all you have to do is squeeze your balls to get an instant long lasting erection. Then when your done just squeeze them again to lose the erection. The wonders of cosmetic surgery :)

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh That's bad man, but still funny as hell!

jDoG

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh

lol