so what is your opinion on this
 

say you're really in love with someone, and you basically see eye to eye on everything.. and you've been with this person for practically 2 years... but, the person you're with, has only been in 1 relationship, which is your current relationship...

do you think that girl should "experience" other people before getting a marriage? in which case, would mean she'd have to break off that current relationship (which is perfectly fine) just for the sake of "experience"..


if you're wondering if that is my situation... someone told that to my gf and we agree, but i'm just trying to wonder why people would think that, and if any of you do as well.

thanks.

I don't think it's a good idea.

why experiance when you're happy with what you got?

She needs to get fucked by more then 1 dick in her life. Have one of your buddies (with a smaller dick then yours) fuck her.

I don't think that you should break up with your gf for the sake of "experience". You have something great going on for both of you there. Why destroy it for that reason alone? Just be happy with what you have.

I wish you both the best.

I think people should fuck more than one person in their life or they will always think 'what if'

well when this person said "you should experience other people" she didn't mean necessarily sexually, this person was actually CHRISTIAN, lol.

and as far as what you said goes, that is true for most people but there are exceptions to everyone... some people's lifes don't revolve around sex and honestly don't feel the desire to have sex with anyone else but their spouse.. i know, in this day n' age its rare... but honestly, i'm so in love with this girl the thought of relating to another girl in any way other than friendship is sickening.

Depends on the person.

Okay, I've been thru this before - on more than one occasion...

Breakups are breakups, there is no return except in EXTREME situations.

I dated a gal for a year after her divorce and she basically had only "known" one man. She felt the need, and I agreed, to explore things and know for herself that I was the right guy. Six months later it became painfully obvious I wasn't. I'd fallen in love with her and her daughter and I thought she'd fallen in love with me, but it just wasn't true. It was a very painful time for me to even think that we could get back together. The sad fact is that once you break up it is over! If she wants to sow her oats then she needs to and you need to be receptive to that and realize that this is merely a transition in your lives. Will you get back together? Probably not, but it's remotely possible.

The best thing I could recommend is that you let her go and move on. Enjoy the memories of what you had together and build upon that in your next foray in a relationship.

I'm guessing that you are young, that isn't a bad thing just mean that when one is young you have so many oportunities available and you shouldn't focus on the "right now". Shit happens and everytime shit does happen you get another oportunity to learn.

JUst take care of each other and see
how far you two can go....
then you'll know.

I think thats true, its hard work to keep a relationship going

Definately not. If you're happy with each other, and found "true love," be grateful. It's a great thing to find love like that the first time around. :2 cents:

Don't fix what's not broken. If things are going fine between you 2, don't question it. Just keep it going and you'll know whether it's right or not. :thumbsup

LOL, I think that is probably the worse piece of advice I've ever heard. Let go of a girl I completely love who loves me as well, just because of the fact that we're young. !?

:winkwink:

Same thought. If you truly have LOVE, then why would you want to lose it. I have not been in love for many years, and I wish I had that funny gut feeling again. I fuck a lot, but it's not the same thing.