I'm thinking about ending a serious relationship
 

We've been together for over a year now, lately things have just not been the same. We've been fighting everyday and can't seem to get along. I'm feeling neglected and less and less important all the time. When it comes to our sex life, he's completely selfish and doesn't bother to satisfy me as long as he gets his rocks off. I've already talked to him about it, but that was months ago and things haven't changed. We both still care about each other, and I know he will promise to change things when I break the news to him, but I don't think it's going to work out. Should I stick around and try to make it work?

1 post, and this is the introduction? Welcome :) And, Gofuckyourself. :helpme

hm, aside from the topic...this is your first post here, so you registered especialy to ask this question ?

stay away from him for a time. it would make you good! let him being alone so that he can think and realise what hes doing...

show us your tits and I will tell you what to do :thumbsup

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he's cheating on you anyways! dump his sorry ass!

Thanks I thought this would be better than the typical "Hi I'm new here, just thought I'd let everyone know because they're too retarded to see that I only have one post" :321GFY

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I don't recommend posting personal business on GFY, especially when you're new, people can be really cruel here.....FYI

:2 cents:

Yes I absolutely had to let it out :Graucho

If a guy is that selfish in bed, then he needs to go, cuz you deserve better.

If he is under 20, give him a chance. If he is over 20, dump his sorry ass.

Thanks for the wisdom :thumbsup

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not mine but still fun to look at :glugglug

Thanks for the advise. I can't handle any cruelty right now as I am feeling rather sensitive. :BangBang:

Nice, another surfer at gfy :321GFY

at least a :girl

If you're hot, dump him. If you're hot, you can get someone better.

I'd say post some pics of yourself in a thong and we'll all let you know if you're hot or not, but that might be insensitive.

Agree with u,welcome :321GFY

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give urselves time to have space & think & realize if u still do care for each other!

I'll agree with that, haha.

Aries, in my opinion, if you still want him, I'd suggest a "break" for awhile, because if he was anything like me, he'll go running right back to you...just next time make sure you're in control.

I was the exact same way with my girlfriend, I took her for granted, and I miss her so much. I've come to realize that no one can fill the void she left in my heart. Some time alone will make him remember, and make him regret. If you choose to take him back at that point, just stay in charge and don't put up with any bullshit, or it'll happen again.

If you're hot, dump his ass and I'll give you the best fucking sex you've ever had.

give him a break like a month so you both can think what's good for both of ya... maybe he needs some space!

at that moment you may think what's best! ok?!

Hi and Welcome to the board!!!

thats the problem with todays relationships - if hes the guy you think you would want to spend the rest of your life with - then work out your problems - see a counsellor.

If hes just the latest fuck, then drop him for someone who is best suited for you. Remember there is probably a girl out there who is looking for his style of sex and romance, your not doing either one of you a favor by staying in the relationship if your not happy.

Why is always about me me me. You should be happy he's getting his rocks off. :Graucho

Why are you posting this here? It's a XXX forum!

how do you know? :1orglaugh

if you really love him and take care of him and feel that he is the guy you want spent your life with him, talk to him again and tell him that you are not happy anymore, show him what you feel and what you think about to do and give him time to realize that. take your time, don't meet each other for week and than get back together and you'll see if something change or not. If still he won't realized what he's loosing, let him go...........
I know that it can be really hard, but the time will show you...and remember everything wrong for some reason.....
good luck... and welcome to the board!:thumbsup

Interesting read.

It's pretty straight forward, just decide if you want to try and make it work, otherwise leave the sinking ship.

The only other piece of advice I will give you is make sure that you know what you are arguing or upset about. There may be some hidden shit beneath the surface thats actually causing all of the problems that you arent entirely aware of.

Relationships can be so difficult, that's why I'm single for the first time in my life, but by choice.... :thumbsup

I don't know about you, but always around the 1 year mark all hell breaks loose. I think if you can stick it through you might be surprised at the changes that may come.

Honesty is the best policy. Tell him how you feel and how you are thinking about ending it. If he doesn't care - then dump his ass and move on!


BG