Weddings = DRAMA
 

Why is it weddings bring out the true colors in ppl?

Someone who I thought was a friend of mine really insulted me last week. I had asked him to be an user/groomsman in my wedding party. His first response was "let me think about it" then "Ask Frank first, if he doesnt want to do it I will"...

Then get this shit... 2 days ago he calls me bitching me out about the way I asked him to be in the bridal party. I told him to go fuck himself and fuck off...

All I did when I asked him to be in the bridal party was... mind you in the middle of a convo already... say... "oh btw, I need another groomsman, would you like to be in my bridal party?"..

And he gets all pissy and turns to a shit about it...

Fuck him

It's a good thing to know who your friends really are..

That's for damn sure. It is still ticking me off about his responses. WTF is wrong with some people.

What did you do exactly to make him actually call you and bitch at you? The fact that you interupted him?

i had something similar happen to me like that;

i was in Cleveland for 7 days (just got back last week) and i was staying with my sister and her boyfriend. well, my sister got engaged on christmas eve and she asked me to be in the wedding, of course i said yes.

so the last night i was there, i went out and had a great time with friends (she was busy helpin her friends move anyways so we wouldnt get to spend time together before i left), so i stroll in her house at 7am and shes about to leave for work. she was pissed off at me for never comin back to her place that night but i called her twice and told her i wouldnt be back till really late and she was cool with it.

then all of a sudden, she got pissed & now im not in the wedding lol wtf is that shit?? felt like she was my mom and i missed curfew or something lol fuckin weddings!

No he called me up a week later after I first asked him to be in the bridal party because he wanted to know why I said...

"Oh btw, do you want to be in my bridal party"...

He didnt like the btw part... Said I was acting like he was filling in for someone or he was a last choice or something...

Fuck him... He was my first choice out of my pool of friends... He knows this...

My wife had two friends back out saying they didnt want to be a part of something that didnt last. Both friends ended up getting married then divorced after three years. Me and my wife however are still happily married after 19 years now.

well, have a happy wedding