Cocaine and painkillers...
 

someone I know is having a hard time with life... he is depressed and has lost hope of ever being happy again... everyone he has ever thought to be a friend.. everyone that he ever thought he could trust... sooner or later turned out to be just taking advantage of him...

he is on tilt... he wants to die... but is still afraid of death... he has started doing massive amounts of cocaine... about 3-6 grams a day... and taking painkillers... 2-3 demerol every couple hours or so...

he has problems breathing... sometimes its hard to breathe... and he can feel his heart pumping irratically... but he contines to mix the lethal combination... hoping to die... but doesn't have enough courage to just do it... will it hurt?

i want to help him but i don't know how...

Find him a shrink

before you can help others you must help yourself.

you want to help him die?? pethatic! :disgust

thats enough of coke to put down freaking 300 pound person. his liver can't last long on that, especially if he is drinking liquor too. he needs a good two week cleanse.

drugs are not for people with weakness. if you are going to do drugs you have to be stronger than the drugs. if you have no will, no desire, and no motivation to be more than the drugs, they will consume you.

its obviously not a money thing considering his habit is costing him upwards of 500+ dollars a week just for the coke. man, this guy needs help.

sometime he stays up for days at a time... 2-3... 4-5... he doesn't want to sleep... and when he does... he wants to never wake up... he has done a half oz of cocaine in one day on occasion... by himself...

my sixth sense is telling me your being stupid!

sometimes he gets headaches... really bad ones... it feels like is head is going to explode... he can feel his blood pumping a hundred miles per hour... he can feel the veins popping from his head... the pain is unbearable... he takes some pills and closes his eyes... but he still is alive... how much does it take to kill him? he is still afraid of death... but slowly the dosages keep increasing...

He is going to die from cardiac arrhythmia. If he is your friend, you will force him to get help before it's too late.

How old is he ??

If he is really your friend call 911 tell what is going on a maybe they will 302 him...you may not a friend after that but at least you tried. Good Luck :)

WTF?! Do you also give him glasses of water for his pills?

Call 911 ASAP.

how do i make him want to live?

He needs to be hospitalized immediately.

just let the mother fuckers do his thing

we are all going to die anyways

he is not a friend... just someone i know...

Can't help everyone

see post 11#


302 involuntary commitment (danger to one self or others)

Not sure anyone can convince a person using excessive drugs to live. Good luck.

he has lost trust in people... without friends... without a girlfriend... why should he want to live for?

thats a lot of coke. he needs to stop that, especially if depressed it wont help

Are you waiting for someone to give you an answer to this? Buy the guy a gun already.

Because you never know what's going to happen next. The only thing for sure is that you're going to die. Why not hang around and see what happens next instead of fast-forwarding to the end?

he needs a shrink badly.

he sells drugs... i buy pot from him... i cannot call 911... i need to know if anyone can suggest... or has been in this situation... broken hearted from someone they loved... fucked over by friends they trust... everyone... all his life...

they were his life... everything he lived for... everthing he did... he did for them... he does not have a life... he is dead but still breathing... how does someone start their own life and mend their heart?

So you are to lazy to find a pay phone and call 911 to report a 302 and maybe save a life? No wonder this person wants to die.

Demerol... ;\

if i call 911 he goes to jail for life... i'm sure anyone rather be dead...

You're forgetting if he did that then where would he get his pot from?

this thread smells of bullshit at this point. everyone read it all closely. i call bullshit.

Friend = You?

I notice that GFED has "So Fucking Banned" under his name now. Did he put that there or was he actually banned?

just too many things dont add up.

That's too bad...sounds like he wont be around too long

Why would he go to jail for life?

I doubt that unless you are saying my local drug dealer is trying to kill himself instead I am kind of concerned about a neighbor and that is why I am calling on a pay phone because I really don't want to get involved but I am worried.

Your drug dealer might get help without going to jail. Just a thought :Oh crap

GFED
So Fucking Banned

Interests:
Making Money, Playing Pool, Programming, and Bullshitting on GFY.

Hope you aren't serious
 

I hope you aren't serious. If you are and you really consider this guy a friend of any type I can HONESTLY tell you the best thing you can do for him is go to the local police station and speak with a detective. Simply calling the cops will not do you any good I am guessing, especially if you live in a big city. If you bring this to a detective's attention and he fails to act appropriately by following up quickly and thoroughly the city is just looking at a lawsuit - Hence my suggestion.

That being said I have unfortunately abused about everything you can in life short of heroin. I was doing an ounce every 5 days of blow - In a town of 30,000 I had the feds surveiling me (not it wasn't just the paranoia it was eventually confirmed through multiple sources), lost multiple friendships, came as close to loosing my mind as you can without actually loosing it. Coke is nothing to joke about, to those who can use recreationally by the real definition of recreationally.. I have no problems with the occasional user. But 98% of people who touch cocaine and use it more than once are not that type of user.. It is a powerful and life changing (NEVER in a good way) drug. That alone is reason enough to get thie guy some help.

The painkillers will do more damage to his liver than drinking a 12 pack a day would - he is taking roughly 10-15X the recommended dosage of aceitometaphene (sp?) daily at best not to mention I believe the drug itself can cause damage to the liver. Coming off of pain killers could be done without help, even a strong addict.. But the cocaine thing comined with this and the guy will either die very soon or hurt someone around him when he goes off his rocker.

Hope things work out well - and if this is you... Please get yourself some help right away, things get better no matter how bad they are right now things do get better.

okay fuck it... it's me... i don't want everyone thinking i'm fucking trash because i'm doing coke... and that's what most people think... i used to only smoke pot... told myself i would never do coke... lost some good friends to coke... what the fuck...

i don't sell drungs... i'm $30,000 in debt right now because as a final effort to get my life going right after breaking up with my girlfriend i tried to get some friends together to start something up...

everyone is all go at first... then after i spend thousands of dollars on hardware, software, etc to start our own porn sites everyone loses interest...

my photographer is too chickenshit to take pictures of girls... my talent agent doesn't have time anymore to find models... every model i find changed their mind... my partner, 50/50 investor can't come up with the money... (but can buy jordans once a week, $2500 rims, etc...)

so fuck it... i take $15000 out on my credit cards to get going myself... but i don't think it's enough to get started... so i ask my 50/50 investor if he's still interested and he says yes... okay... i tell him i will do all the work... just match me the money...

i wait... and wait... months and months... slowly having to payback my cards with the same money i borrowed...

interest starts killing me... so i decide i'm going to have to do everything myself... but i need more money... i get turned down for business loans...

i decide to start playing online poker... i start out winning at low stakes and tournaments... keep trying to double up... end up losing it all... again and again... now losing thousands in higher limits...

i start getting depressed... giving up... doing drugs... now i'm not even able to function most the time to even work on my fucking tgps... all the income i had is fucking going away... i'm losing everything...

i don't know anyone... i fucked up... i'm too far gone to ever come back... i'm paying back cards with cards... they lower my limits... i'm over my limits... they raise my rates... raise my payments... i'm on my last breath... i can't make my payments... and my bills are still coming in...

now i'm being sued for child support... i can't afford anything... i don't know what to do... but i keep spending... keep losing... keep using... the only thing to keep my from killing myself is drugs... now i'm killing myself with drugs...

i know staring at these four walls doing drugs isn't helping... i know lying in bed for days at a time isn't helping... but i don't see a way out...

i can't get a job... never had a job... no resume... but i've tried... never get past the interview... i'm highly skilled... i've pretty much done everything myself always... but that's not good enough to get hired by anyone...

please help me... give me some advice... please...

1st Step : STOP BULLSHITTING. Because we are G-FED UP of your lame ass fake stories.

firstly, if this is serious read on, if not you're a fuck for lying about serious shit. i'm still fishy about it, but please read on if you are in hardship.

damn yo.

well, coming from someone like me, you can take this advice. i have been in the nightclub business for 12 years plus at this point, successfully. i have witnessed more people crash and crash hard than i would like to admit, many for millions of dollars.

the first thing you need to do is get off the shit! theres no way around it. at all. zero.

clean yourself up and the financial stuff will sort itself out. you sound like a smart guy. smart people - drugs = eventual recovery. if you keep doing the shit, you are fucked for sure.

i have lost many friends to the chemicals that you speak of.

drugs are for recreational use only. if your shit is falling apart, all you are going to do with the drugs is make it worse.

alot of people here know that i have my fun in life, but my biz life comes first. i am running two companies and still find time to have some "fun" when it permits. you have to maintain a balance. you will not make solid decisions when you are consumed with you "situation".

everyone has a friend who will always listen to you. even if its someone who you feel you have let down so much that they would never want to see you again, chances are if you contact that person, even reluctantly, they will hear you out if you are sincere and honest about your rock bottom status.

shit you can even call me if you want and i dont even know you.

get some help. get of the shit immediately.

the toilet should be your first destination to helping yourself. dump the shit, and tomorrow seek some counseling. the gov will help you get off the shit and straighten you out.

A1R3K thank you for your reply...

NoCarrier i'm not bullshitting...

i've got a headache and need to go to bed.. really bad.. please... i will bump this tomorrow or when i wake up...

thank you gfy... i don't have anyone else to talk to... sorry...

peace...

Probably .. I would not ask for something similar here on GFY !

Dust yourself off and get back into the game. Everyone has fallen flat on their faces (even me) and you see how I've bounced back. Hell, GFED, I even met you for a brief time. You came by my shop and saw what I have. You saw my cars, my trucks, my equipment. I was in your shoes before and I can attest, it really does suck but I bouced back ans so can you. Just drop the drugs and get back into the game.

Have you ever thought that drugs may be holding you back? Maybe you can do bigger and better things but you will never know as long as you are using that chemical crutch. Bust your ass and get what you can out of life! The ride is short so enjoy it while you can!

put the coke down and hop on a plane to a warm city that you've never been before to calm the fuck down.

:thumbsup

I was in a similar situation a couple of years ago.
My very best friend was without a job and I hire him just for doing nothing and I pay him weekly. In a period of an year I received a citation from a judge for not paying him. I was so stupid ... and how I could not trust in my best friend? Well as he was not signing any receipt for my payments. The fucker demand me to pay for all over a year again.
Lesson number 1: Dont trust anybody

After that I begun just like your friend instead of 4-6 grams I was doing 10 per day, lost my girlfriend and my parents kick me out of the house so I was with no job, no friends, and no place to stay. However a good friend of mine took me to his place and take care of me. I realize that it wasnt the end of the world, and I have to restart everything again when I had it all.

Now Im better than ever living by myself earning good money, having lot of fun and with real friends and my family is pleased with me.

So stay in his world everything would be just fine.
Believe me!!!

Metalsound

BTW, If you are alive - You are never past the point of recovery, ask any former user... Scary times man, and i would highly suggest againt a 'flight to a tropical location to relax' - That is not a solution, period.

The first thing you need to do is check your self into a detox center.. You will do nothing but sleeo for 4-5 days if you are as bad as I was which it sounds like you are getting there. Also quittin painkillers leads to long lengths of sleep... Very long... I was ona prescribed does recently till my doctor found out about past abuse and when I quit that shit I felt like hell for days and didn't want to do anything but sleep...

I was so strungout by the time I hit detox I slept for 72 hours straight and felt like it was an 8 hour nap... no joke. I left immediately after as I couldn't take the xanax I was prescribed my a M.D. and believe me I needed it then.

You need to look into treatment centers, yeah it's going to break your bank and you'll be paying for years but it's better than where you are heading. I quit myself cold turkey after about 2 years of using as I mentioned above. I just decided I had enough - and after the detox the first couple days were goe throuh by sleeping which made it easier. Expect months of thinking about the drug... Years for many... for me is was 9 months roughly till it didn't even cross my mind.

Bottom Line : Detox and talk to the counselors there and make your decision, you are heading towards financial ruin and I know just a little bit about that as well ... Hit me up if you want to talk ryan1978 at isightbb dot com

- Ryan

The first step to solving your problem is realizing you have one-
There are plenty of webmasters here who go through the same stuff as you - many are sober here as well-
Know that you are not alone- I was once in a simlar situation- found myself sleeping on a friends couch with my car repo'd back in Cleveland-

I had my run ins with cocaine and know how hard that shit is to quit- After a while you won't even think about doing that drug and realize that it didn't make you feel better it only makes you feel worse. I'd get severe anxiety and depression after I used.

I got my ex some help detoxing off her 60 vicodin a day habit as well- Now that is a real bitch. It's not easy to kick- your body will react to withdrawals but in the end you will find that being alive and sober is the only way to live your life-.

morning gfy... getting up and feeling really dizzy... got something to eat and read your replies... gonna go back to bed now... i really appreciate everyones support... sorry i dont take the time to reply much... never been much of a talker... but you guys really made me feel better... really tired though... and my whole body is hurting... thanks again, i will be back...

Yo........