My problem with girls (serious post)
 

Okay, this is probably a thread a lot of you GFYers have been waiting for, and I will try not to disappoint.

I seem to have a problem with girls, and not just any problem, but a problem that is subconcious, that I cannot control, that is just inside of me.

The only girls I seem to truly be attracted to, and that I want to have a relationship with... they are all sluts.
Of course, I do not know this in the beginning, but for some reason, after I end up "settling down" with them, the truth comes out that they are banging dozens of guys behind my back.

For example, my first girlfriend was when i was 17, she was 16 at the time.
A cute armenian girl, short, good family values. However, there were rumors amungts my armenian friends that she was a slut, and when I confronted her with this, she assured me that its all rumors blah blah blah.
This girl had sex with one of my closest friends a few weeks before her and I went out. She also had sex with a bunch of other guys too before me.
Now this is where it gets interesting, I went out with this girl for 1 month, and she refused to have sex with me in order to make me believe that she is still a virgin. She constantly lied to me and cheated on me. I broke up with her simply because she was an annoying bitch, and I found out the real truth about all this a few months after...

My 2nd girlfriend, a russian jewish girl (the one I posted pictures of when she backstabbed me). I was 18 and so was she. We had sex 2 or so weeks into the relationship, and she was terrible at it. This one was a pathological liar, she would lie to me for the sake of lying. She had told me that she had only slept with 3 guys, 2 exs and 1 friend which she "Regretted". turns out it was more like 13 or so guys, out of which 2 were her ex's, (hey she was honest on that one!). This 25 year old guy would come pick her up every saturday to go to a motel and fuck, while she would tell me shes out clubbing with her friends. The way I found out about all this? her best friend had a crush on me and told me everything.

Now, through this same best friend I met another girl very recently which I had chemistry with. She seems so fucking innocent, told me she only had sex once, and she only fooled around with 3 ex's and that she doesnt like to fool around and what not with guys shes not going out with. So after a month of seeing eachother, we are still not going out, but things happen between us... and she is FUCKING good, I mean raelly fucking good, better than I have ever had. I talk to the same girl who told me about the other one, and she tells me to stay away, as she is as slutty as my other ex was... that she has been with her share of guys and that if I do not want to get hurt, to back off.
Oh, also, this 3rd girl, she refused to do "stuff" with me in the beginnings probably because, just like the 1st girl, wanted to keep the illusion of her being innocent.

wow... I don't even know what to say.
I even told the girl that I dont care how many guys a girl has been with, as long as she is honest with me.

all 3 of these girls, out of which are my 2 only girlfriends, and 1 Very close to be girlfriend, all 3 were sluts and I had no idea until I started getting very close to them. but I was for some reason REALLY interested in them to begin with!

what the hell is wrong with me? why is it that the only girls that seem to get me interested in a relationship are undercover sluts?

and not only that, I get my share of sex every once in a while from fuckfriends and what not, so I do not NEED a relationship for sex or anything, I just really liked these girls...


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He only dates sluts and is hung up on their past sexual experiences so it bothers him.

see it doesnt really bother me, what bothers me is the honesty issue that these girls have

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Almost every girl I've ever dated turned out to be a slut in one sense or another. My advice dude, is to only give your heart to a girl after she has proven to be tustworthy and loyal through thick and thin. Otherwise, you will get hurt, guaranteed. Fun party girls are usually sluts :2 cents: That seems like what you are attracted to.

Sorry man, but in one breath you say it's okay if they've been with other guys, "As long as they're honest." Then in the next breath, they're "Undercover sluts."

Maybe you're really not as secure as you think about your girlfriends having been with other guys?

Then again, most women don't want to let on that they've been around the block a few times, out of fear of being labeled a slut. You obviously have no aversion to using the word slut, so perhaps you have a reputation that you only like pristine girls, or have no respect for said sluts. So the girls that are attracted to you are instantly afraid that you won't like them because they ARE sluts, and they don't tell you the whole truth.

In the end, who really cares how many guys she fucked before she met you, so long as she comes home and fucks you every night.

Just some thoughts.

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yeah i hear you man.

that's where I think you're wrong dude

I mean if the girl had 10 serious relationships and fucked them all, perfect
but if she is seen going to parties getting hammered and sleeping with 10 guys, that's another story

in the first case, she will probably come home and fuck you every night
in the latter, she will probably be fucking some other guys dick while shes telling you that shes out with her girlfriends

On a related topic to those of you that would never marry a slut, or demand marrying virgins.

No matter how good you are in bed, her toes curling, screaming, squirting orgasms..you COULD in fact be the best lover in the world, but if your wife/girlfriend has never been with other guys, she's ALWAYS going to wonder, "Is there anything else out there that's better than this?"

THAT'S a recipe for infidelity.

Okay, I see what you're saying....Once a slut, always a slut.

I beg to differ. I'd rather my wife sow her wild oats BEFORE she meets me and have the memories of things she did when she was younger, as opposed to wanting to try them out later in life, when she's settled down with me.

My wife had her fun when she was younger, and I have NO fear of her EVER cheating on me. A lot of people don't have that security. But we've also talked extensively about both of our pasts, and that's something a lot of guys don't want to hear about.

I feel your pain. That's why LADYBOYS are better than women. You will never lose your ladyboy... you only lose you turn.

I am nothing but happy for you brother :thumbsup
if only I was so fortunate


see it is SOOO funny

the way I got along with this recent girl, it scared the shit out of me...

I told my friend "bro, things are going so good that I am afraid she is a slut. this situation is reminding me alot of my ex"
simply because of my past experiences

hehehe

damn guy

instead of dating girls, you should try dating a woman

He prefers the sluts because they take it up the ass, and we all know that it is what he prefers.

What the fuck man!

Jerk off with your new name-brand scarfs / sweaters / whatever.

I mean fuck, bdjuf, just get along and stop thinking you really love the cock. Fuck that whole metrosexual shit and just live your life as a young dude; however you want to live.

Beside that shit, good for you for hooking up with sluts.
They're good people too.

see for me there is a difference between hooking up with a slut and seriously dating one... lol

A "slut" is just your current definition for a woman you've been with / met.

It's all relative man.
Have fun.
Play.
If you start to like one, try it out and either get burned or be the burner.

That's it.

Other than that pain shit that happens when that whole emotional stuff is involved.

sluts are hot

Then the only advice I would offer you man, is to not go into any relationship thinking the worst of someone. Go in with an open mind. It should be that way with girlfriends, boyfriends, or people you just want to be friends with.

Everyone is different and you can't judge people you want to have a successful relationship with based on your own bad experiences.

You'll never be happy with anyone if that's the case imo. :2 cents:

But make no mistake, that's not easy to do either, so I do empathize.

P.S. That's not to say you won't get hurt again, because who among us hasn't been hurt? But at least when you do find someone, you'll be able to talk openly and develop some trust.

fuckin' A :thumbsup

thanx alot for your support Ron, I appreciate it! :thumbsup

where do you meet these girls? mabye thats your problem. try meeting girls other places than clubs or thru other sluts you know. birds of a feather flock together.

Like the library.

A nice girl with red hair.

Who lives with her grammy who likes........

Anytime.

If you decide you're going to Vegas, make sure to hit me up and I'll buy you a drink.

If not, good luck in school. :)

I just wanna say that you can turn even a slut to a good and loyal girlfriend. Sometimes it all depends on you.

i only date strippers and bartender girls.

they both love dollar bill tips.

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your gullible and hoes just see through you. Honest question, do you spend a lot of money on these girls???

if they're all sluts dude.... you need a process setup where you ask the girls questions and look at their body language when you first meet them. Then you can filter out the time wasters from the genuine products ....or at least improve the chances of her wanting more than your hotdog that day - if that's what you're after.

bdjuf, Yo, never trust a women. They all lie. Second, when you question their honesty as far as how many guys theve been with, they will lie. Gauranteed. Enjoy the ride, maybe you do meet a nice girl who will respect you and be honest with you. But whoever you choose, girls get around as much as guys do so don't believe their innocent behavior. They fuck and will fuck. OK?

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bd,

you are coming across to the girls as a "nice guy" and a sexual novice.

That is a label you have to figure out how to loose.

These girls want to have you around in case they need help. Sluts have a greater need of having a nice guy to help them out. You are their mark.

Girls like a guy with a bad ass image.

I suggest you die your hair purple. Get a dozen piercings in your face and ears, and tatoos up both arms, and over most of your body.

Do this, and guaranteed, things will get better for you.

Good luck!

It?s so funny because I remember worrying about this stuff when I was younger. It?s such a waste of time worrying about who your new girl has been with. Who really fucking cares? I mean don?t get me wrong. You don?t want to hook up with a totally gang-bang type slut but you DO want a girl that has some experience. You said it yourself, that one girl was the best you?ve ever had. That?s probably because she?s learned how to please a guy. This is great news!

Now, stop worrying about the bullshit and start digging her out proper-like and watch her get sprung on you. Don?t get caught up in the ?he said she said,? you should be above it and you should act like it. :2 cents:

you are asking the right question... whats wrong with you. we are drawn to certain types of people for a reason. what draws you to what you obviously know is a self destructive and doomed relationship thats going to end in pain and misery?

i think you may be gay

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bdjuf might be hooking up only with sluts because he doesn't recognise "IOIs" or indicators of interest that are less overt than what a slutty girl gives off.

SLUTS RULE!!
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love your sig :thumbsup

sounds more like gold diggers.

Number 1 rule. Never ask a girl how many guys she has slept with. You will never get an honest answer. It's like asking a girl how many pairs of shoes she has.

If it truly doesn't matter to you, then why do you keep asking? That sounds like bullshit to me.

Armenian Girls are all virgins before they get married! :1orglaugh

Your problem is you're trying to act too old for your age.
Who the hell wants commitment so young? You're not going to marry any of them.

Enjoy dont complain.

double standards, drop em. If you can have 'fuck friends' then why cant a girl?

guys, girls, EVERY1 is a slut deep down inside. If you cant have an open honest relationship then you are doomed. If you can get a girl that doesnt mind you banging other bitches and you are secure enough with yourself and your relationship with her to let her bang other guys, then maybe that will work best. Turning a 'ho' into a 'housewife', lol, its nearly impossible. Ya want your cake and you wanna eat it too? Uhhhhhhhh

BREAKING NEWS: You are just another dude. One of billions on this earth. We are all trying to fuck as many girls as we can. You will never meet a virgin who decides to get sex crazy with you because you are sooooo special. You aren't special. Girls like sex. Guys love sex. The woman you marry will have had sex with a lot of other men. Sorry.

Your only hope for a virgin dying for your cock would be if you decide to go for the severe burn victims or the birth defect babes.

Wait a second, whats wrong with dating sluts???? jk

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