I took my 17 year old son to a Mexican strip club yesterday
 

Am I a terrible father or the coolest dad ever?

praise or flame, the choice is yours

rofl, best dad EVER! :1orglaugh :thumbsup

Btw how did you get him inside without an ID?

I vote idiot.

liar liar

Coolest Dad Ever :thumbsup

No, I'm telling the truth.

It's Mexico. They don't take laws seriously.

Dad, Mom misses you.....

If you want to be "cool," you can't just go to the closest hole in the wall strip club. You need to take your boy to a genuine, prestigious strip club where they filter out the dogs and only hire hotties.

He will feel like he is in heaven, instead of a crack whore convention. If you want to see beautiful mexican women, go to an exclusive dance club. Otherwise, you might end up buying a dance from "Pablo" who is wearing a wig and lipstick pretending to be female. Or, worse yet . . . you might get rubbed on by Conchita (the infected one) wearing a red thong. Not good.

Be cooler yet, hire him a hooker for the night.

wrong. Its the best way of raising kids healthy: its reality and nature.
Because US kids cant see tits on tv and drink before their 21st, they crave for that shit all the time: Its a fact that if you forbid something, that especially the youth wants to try/do it.

Thanks for the advice, but I've been around Mexican strip clubs a long time and it wasn't a terrible club and I made sure he didn't end up with a "Pablo" or "Conchita".

at 17 i would say cool if you didnt let him drink

I never encouraged restriction. Being a part of these activities is another thing. Did you guys get wasted together afterwards? A line a coke to boot?

So you feel I should have let him wait a few months and do it on his own? Tell me why you feel being a part of these activities is another thing.

I don't use cocaine. Don't be silly.

I think any message of encouragement is worse than restriction.
Why did you do this in the first place?

I wish I had a dad that took me to strip clubs when I was a teen :(

I don't.

Did he enjoy the donkey show?

You think strip clubs are that terrible?

It was kind of impulsive, not really planned. We (me, my brother and son) were there, the club was there, we went inside.

I have mixed feelings and some guilt. That's why I'm talking about it.

We were in Nogales, not Nuevo Laredo.

lose the guilt, other parents could learn from you. seriously.

Nah probably a good thing. In Canada I use to go with my cousin. I was 16. Needless to say as an Adult I have spent probably $80 in a strip club since I was 19 thats fifteen years. I know some guys that are addicted to them they waste 100's a week on these idiot broads.
get it out of his system now so it isn't a big deal later in life :winkwink:

Well, your perspective will obviously be different than your son?s anyway.
Think back when you were underage. How would you have felt had your father and uncle taken you to a strip club? Really think about it. Ok, they also made sure you weren?t accosted by Pablo or Conchita too!

I think I would have been pretty damn cool with it.

My father paid for my first hooker when I was 22 and we were in Vancouver.
I still owe you Dad! :winkwink:

best dad ever period.

i went with a couple of friends to a strip club when i was 16, it was pretty hardcore they had this boy/girl fake fucking show, we had a blast, and it didn't have any negative influence on me.

My dad died when i was 5, i believe i would had enjoyed that experience way more with him, if you have the kind of relationship/friendship that i'm guessing you have... that's awesome, he'll remember that night forever that's for sure :)

i'll do the same thing with my kids someday :D

(sorry about the drunk engrish style)

Did he get laid? Cool Dad!

No, just a lap dance.

my dad took me to bars when I was 12

yea, no kidding, my dad bought me a hooker for my birthday when I was 15...
taking your son to some sleazy strip club at 17, you are a loser dad :1orglaugh

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jk

First titty bar at 15. Times have changed. Now a days 18 year olds can go to war and KILL and be killed..yet they can't have a beer....humm

that was a cool thing to do.

We ARE talkin Mexico here...

Taking your 17 year old son to strip club = cool
Taking your 17 year old daughter to strip club = not so cool

Thank you for your opinions. I was expecting to catch A LOT more shit. :upsidedow

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh

I definitely think a 17 year old was ready to go to a strip club. Nothing wrong with that. Cool! And if I were his mom I would have said, have a good time and dont' forget to give him some 1's

Fucking cool dad!

Of all the people I could choose to go to a strip club with...
Dad comes in second to last right ahead of Mom.

Not as cool as this mom:

'Cool mom' gets 30 years for sex parties

Sorry, she wins.

You're a pornographer for God's sake.

The lapdance bit paid for by your father makes me a bit uncomfortable but beyond that it doesn't phase me much.

i couldn't agree more! :thumbsup

:1orglaugh

this is a wrong place for talking about that... you've done the best thing you could and stop with the guilt! i vote you are cool dad! :D

lol :thumbsup

Um Having two boys myself which are young I couldn't tell you if it was right or wrong in either way!! Now I wish my dad when he was my dad (instead of Pussy whipped cock breathing dick with ears he is) would of done things like that with me! But I know I can wish in one hand and shit in the other *shrugs* at 17 I really belive he is old enough, hell most 13 to 15 year olds are fucking now well at least that was the way when I was 13 and only a few months from being 18 I really dont think what you did was wrong!!

Hell in a few months he can serve in the military and give his life for our freedom or be tried as an adult in us courts... so I would stop feeling guilty and just enjoy being with your son and know that what ya doing with him now he will carry with him for the rest of his life..

Tom

Am I the only one not liking strip clubs?

your a cool dad..

Well, personally at 17 I'd be a little freaked out going to a strip club with my father and uncle?!?!

Hell, at 27 I'd STILL be a little freaked out going to a strip club with my father and uncle (assuming i wasn't gay of course).

Just seems kind of "strange" almost to the point of being "creepy".