When is the right time to get married, found a family?
 

I am turning 24 today, and I am starting to feel kind of old thinking about having kids...

I think 26-27 is the right age to start a family...

Next step for me is getting married or proposing to my GF. All of this is so stressfull!
Is thinking of taking the big step of asking somebody to marry you supposed to be nerve racking?

yes, but everyone has to try it at least once or you will never know

dont lie, you are turning 18 today...

happy bday!

oh boy........

...youve come to the right place to ask

is it normal that I am nervous, or is nervousness a sign of doubt and doubt a sign that I am not ready?

I actually asked the same question to a friend the other day.
I'm 21. Some of my friends are seriously thinking about having a family in a few years.

Personally, I'm not at all ready for a family. I'd say 35.

Happy Birthday :)

if you hear about ex-class mates that have kids and such it put things in perspective.

so when your first kid is 15, you want to be 50?

That's what really got me thinking. I want to still have many active years in front of me when I have kids...

50 is not old by any means considering people live longer than before but still...

When you stop going to this forum and get out of the porn industry..

oh ok, so adult webmasters cannot have kids. It's immoral.

I am a distributor, nothing more.

I guess the guy that owns a video rental shop with an adult section should also not have kids. Neither should the guy that owns the corner store and sells porno mags.

Upto persons mood and family situation

If you have doubts or you're not sure... don't do it.

I learned that one the hard way, lol.

What he said.

Dad said one word ...Half! and I never wanted to get married

Thank you.. At least 1 person has some common sense on these boards..

You want to start a family the best way to go about this is look at your finance first and are you ready. As for me I got time I am young still and still need to pimp hoes.

Marriage is not a wise move, not being a buzz kill, but 50%+ end in divorce. Everyone I ever knew that was in a successful relationship, (mostly) did not involve marriage. Marriage is a piece of paper that gives a high level (unlevel playing field) to the women and they sometimes abuse it.

Get the kids out of the way NOW! You do not want to deal with new borns when get older, unless it is a love child at age 50 with a stripper.

When you are in your early 20's you are trying to build a life, and shit is new and tough for the most part.... throw a kid into the mix asap!

If you do not do it until early, mid-30's you are so used to freedom, that the newborn will be a threat.