Does your girlfriend or boyfriend know how much you make?
 

For the webmasters who are in serious relationships does your girlfriend or boyfriend know how much you make? I assume for the webmasters that are married your spouse knows how much you make.

Yes she does.

there are three persons who know
my mother, my accountant and my lawyer
the others can only assume
my last two gf's knew that I was well... i always kept it VERY low with them

yeah, if they're serious. by serious i mean been together for years and are living with me.

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

Silence is golden

Exactly. :thumbsup

You let your lawyer know how much you make? He's gonna milk you dry!

For me, its just myself and my accountant, not even family.
WG

My accountant and my dad only. My dad because he plays a role in my business.

I see absolutely no reason anybody else needs to know. Have a girlfriend? All she needs to know is things are paid for.

LOL Sounds like your single!

My husban does. And he is the accountant.

My girlfriend makes WAY WAY WAY more than me so its not important for her to know.

I never disclose the bank info with the ladies, only the accountant and my family know how much im worth.

tell us :)
How much are you worth pimp`

No, my bf doesnt know the exact amount even tho we live together, he thinks I make less than I really do. I don't make a lot (compared to all the millionaires on gfy), but I make more than enough to support both of us, and I'm afraid if he knows the amount I make he will quit his job for sure and stay home. He'll think there's no need for him to go to work, and he'll want to stay home, he's always talking about quitting his job.

He actually wants to quit work now, he thinks its not fair for him to go to work while I stay home and make much more, he thinks I'm being unfair by "making" him work. He knows I make more but he doesn't know by how much, it's a big difference, by more than 10x, but he doesn't know that. I don't want him to know either.

no - this you can never tell
1 of my the best friends always says - you must borow few bucks from the girl on your very first date - thats the only way how you can find out if she is interested in you or your money.How true

IF I tell anyone I make 30k/week they will make me start supporting there ass.

yes my GF knows i make $200/week

If you can't say you're probably in the wrong relationship.

low key is where its at :thumbsup

If he asks I tell him. But otherwise it doesn't really come up.

you forgot TCG

curious do you hide your bank statements from him?

Now I am curious. What do you look like?

Reversing the question. Do you know how much your girlfriend/boyfriend/wife/husband/companion makes?

No, I don't hide them, I'm so lazy I don't even open them, I always check my bank statement on-line. He's not nosy so he doesn't go through my stuff. I'm always home everyday as well so I'm always here, he doesn't get a chance to look at them, plus he respects my privacy so he just doesn't look. I don't have to "hide" anything.

HAHA You looking for a sugarmama now

lol, not at all. The one that I have now is working out just fine
:winkwink:

More curious as to what a woman making 10 x's more than her man looks like.

Sounds like a great relationship you guys have.. full of lies and you making the man you "love" work a terrible job he hates for shit money while you are banking and hiding it all? he better run

No, that's not really correct, I just want him to pay his share of the rent, I don't feel like I have to pay for everything, plus I don't like the idea of supporting anybody. I feel that is already enough that I pay most of the bills, all I ask is that he pay his share of the rent.

A lot of girls are gold diggers these days and expect the guy to pay for them, I feel that I already do more than enough because I pay for MORE than my half , but he has to pay for SOME, I refuse to support someone 100%. I already do MORE than my half PLUS I help him out a lot with a lot of stuff already. I am already paying fore MORE than half, it's not fair if I have to pay for everything, he's not a child you know.

Anyways, its not lies, he already knows I make more, he just doesn't know the EXACT amount, it's not necessary for him to know down to the exact dollar, it's no ones business but my own.

Why does he feel that you're obligated to support him while he sits on his ass at home? Get rid of him, he has no work ethic.

Ugh. You are absolutely no prize and I feel sorry for any woman who dates you.

I tell her I'm broke..she doesn't need to know that

So he should quit and sit around while she pays the bills? Fuck that. People work jobs they don't like everyday. That's what responsible adults do -- suck it up.

My BF doesn't know exactly how much I make. No reason why he should.

I make :2 cents: , now everyone knows!!!

Geeze, if you're going to lie about something as inconsequential in life as money, what else will you lie about? It's pieces of paper with dead people printed on it. Anyone I've dated, family or friends of mine who have ever asked how much money I make/have/made/don't have/etc. will always be given the correct answer. Money is one of the last things I think of when I consider my wealth. It's below the pugs even :)

Yes, of course he does. We share everything, including the money we both make. You can't have a serious relationship without disclosing such trivial things like income.

Really depends how serious this relationship is of course

TCG only knows what I make from them...
WG

I tell them i'm a gfymillionaire and they go 'OH dear'

I mean, my girlfriend knew...but we were both making base-level dick, so it doesnt really matter too much...

nice way to put it

My hubby knows exactly how much I make and vice verse.

We share everything, bank accounts, paypal accounts, neteller etc...

We sit down together to discuss each others projects and what we are both getting out of them. Then we discuss where the money NEEDS to go and what is left over that we can play with, and then with that we take turns basically. If he wants something then he gets it, the next time I want something I get it.

All our money is in one place and we know exactly what goes where and when. Tnen we know how much we can have fun with. It makes life much simpler and a lot more trusting. If money started to disappear or somthing and we didnt know how much each other was making then there would be a lot of tension between us and over something as silly as money there is no need for it.

No.

I'll happily share the exact amount I make with the thousands of people that visit GFY but I make sure that the person I plan to spend the rest of my days with doesn't have a clue about how much I make.

My husband has no idea how much money I make.

But I do not keep it from him or would ever lie about it. He works very hard running his own business, and really is way to busy to inquire about mine. It may seem odd to some, but he and I are both of the mindset not to question or bother with each others businesses, except in emergencies. I know nothing of his business field (not adult), and he nothing of mine. For goodness sake, he claims he never has even called a phone sex line.

We have a common account that we both contribute to, but I have never asked him about his business account. The bills are paid, he is working his ass off, and if he wants to keep extra in his and not put it into the common savings or checking so be it.

And bless his heart, he never asks me what I am holding back either.

The most important thing is when we can finally cuddle on the couch together, and be together. We are both incredibly financially aggressive, and yes it serves us well, but we would be lost without each other.

Oh, and I am new here, so Hello!

I'd be far more interested in the question, "does the government know how much you make?"

Why would I lie about it? It is important to me, and the most important person in my life knows the number. Besides when she is on the rag hopefully that info causes her to bitch at her mom instead of me.

I would love it if people actually posted copies of their deposit slips or bank info. Many people have to keep up with their persona and of course do not tell their loved ones anything, cause they would be caught in a lie.

I tell everything to my girl , afterall she helps with the customer support and billing. She does hate that I am in adult , but I have been here since 99 and am here to stay.

This is so damn wise!

Why should anyone know?

I had a model ask me the other day "How much do you make?"

My response... "I ain't saying you a gold-digger..."

I like to be hard to predict:
Drive a beat up hooptie...
Dress in jeans...
Keep your money out of conversations, unless you are trying to impress an affiliate :winkwink:

50.... Golddiggers