men: is anal mandatory with your girl after certain amount of time?
 

do you expect it at some point, not really care, or not interested in ever going there?

thoughts?

:glugglug

fuck yea

its pretty much one of those things that goes unspoken about untill the time comes and you say 'hey...umm...i wanna fuck you up the ass'

after a while, yes

I have been dating this one for about 3 months..been poking around but still no glory..next comes a couple of bottles of wine and roofies

Definitly not mandatory since I don't really enjoy it taht much but once in a while it can be a lil different.

I've refused that to a girl once ... I don't really enjoy it that much at all.

start with the finger then work your way from there

i'm not really into anal - but i'm starting to think that even if it's not going to be part of your regular sex routine - she needs to let you know you can put it up the pooper at some point.

i consider it the a way of saying - OK, you're my guy. I want you enough to do this with YOU.

mind you - some girls are into anal. I find it the minority but some love the bum

I'm not interested in exploring the finer points of shit diving. Porn has warped people's views. But then again, I guess there's a lot of ex-convicts that are roaming the streets so there's plenty of people who are spreading the gospel of anal fucking.

It's an incentive! :thumbsup

Depends how my ass feels

absolutely

hehe well after the previous boyfriend totally ruined the experience for me and convinced me I hated anal... the current boyfriend after a few months of us together said that he could show me how it's *supposed* to be done, and then I could judge for myself.

Needless to say I'm a convert. :)

no thanks, what if you put your finger in to loosen her up and you felt a turd in there?
What do you do then? Keep going?

Plus too many germs. Think of all the bad things that have come out of there over the years.

dude you just lick the turd out and then continue

I have no desires to fuck anyone in the ass.

Karaoke Night, on the other hand, is mandatory.

current girl doesnt want to do it cause it really hurt her the first time she tried with her ex, maybe she will consider trying again. :thumbsup

tapping all holes is key. :thumbsup

Even if someday I might also find it interesting, it's still important to consider what she thinks about it. :D

after a LTR, you'd think there'd be at LEAST one chance when you're both very drunk to give it a try.. ya?

no. anal isnt what it's cracked up to be anyway.

Pretty much yes.

I was in college the last time I didn't expect anal from my women, and that was some time ago.

You have to be reasonable about it, but firm.

Angry anal makeup or breakup sex is outrageously hot.

LTR? Is that a tranny related acronym?

good question

normally after the first time I have sex with her.. anal is expected..

yes it should be expected...

at some point

After marriage.
Just take it like a man, my wife said that to me when she bought the goddamn strap-on.

its mandatory within a week :)

you should have already on the secend date!!!!! hahahahahahas

Anal is mandatory on the second date.

Otherwise, dump her.

I had to wait long for this with my girl friend, some girls does not think they are ready for this sex and its not easy to fuck thier ass at all :)

I do all holes :)

ill toss her salad but wont start bangin away at it i never was into it neither!!

ehh - start with lots of good god damn pussy likins .. LOTS and make her cum her brains out into oblivion - when shes in oblivion start introducing licking the pooper into the routine (dont talk about it - some girls dont wanna hear it or NO! ... just work in one bunglick, then later 2 bunglicks ... pace yoself)

then b4 u now it youll be full on scrubbing her ass with your tongue every time you eat her - THEN a liiiiiiiitle finger just creeping in the bungholio while munnching her cooz ...

if the girl is not asking for it, then this is the mikey method to get there. time depends on the girl and your mastery of pussy licking and a girl has to be very horny and relaxed if shes not already an assfreak.

ive seen many many conversions, enough to believe any girl WILL do it, and possibly enjoy it, if done right ...

you must be a stealthy patient pimp.

if i told you 35 mins after meeting her and we are still together after 7 years would you believe me ???? probably not

Ya some very bad past anal experienced put me off anal for many years..but when you find someone you can trust and let go with completely, it can be absolutey amazing :) Love anal!

You never know.. The first time my now-husband came to see me for a booty call I brought a girlfriend :)

great tips! :thumbsup :winkwink:

concise and to the point.....well done

:thumbsup If they love you (or they love it up "the bum) then you'll get an all access pass to that ass.

great thread :)

You guys are too fast.

The REAL time-tested rule of thumb is:

Anal after one month
Anal with her sister after 2 months

in times of war.... any hole is a trench

gotto try atleast once.

that is hot:thumbsup :thumbsup :thumbsup :thumbsup

Anal sex is wild and it don't cause no child!


'nuff said

After 6 yrs....I'm still trying.

I know how it feels :Oh crap ...

Yes anal is great when done right, and since I can do it right, I expect my girl to want it.

every girl likes anal sex

if a woman gets married and doesn't get any ass fucking within first year, she's going to divorce you, no matter how much you earn

What he said. Exactly 100% agreed.:thumbsup