Where do you guys usually take out a girl on the first date? women where do you...
 

want to go?

i am kinda tired of the dinner date thing, i mean it is fine but it is kind of boring.

anyone have any good ideas?
girls what do you prefer? dinner solo? drinks with friends?

give me some input here i am lazy today and need someone else to think for me.

mini golf w/o friends

dinner @ a nice place with no friends.

thanks for your input, i dont think i would do it, seems kinda jr highy, like a place i would take my girlfriend not a date.

but keep the ideas comin!!!

spa........ then you can give her a foot massage.

hmmm i am not a fat guy with money so i dont have a need to overimpress a girl.

usually just make plans to meet for drinks....i cant remmeber the last time i took a girl to dinner for fisrt date...i dont blow money on chics unless i am in a serious relationship, and like MetaMan says, i too dont have to impress chics to get ass ; )....

Pizza, beer and movie (or if you know how to cook, prepare dinner simple dish and wine) at your place or her place. :winkwink:

With scented candles lit all over....

always do a first date as something simple, why waste the time and effort plus money on a girl that u may realize after 5 mins, u have no interest in....make plans for a second date if u r interested and u can step up the effort. i have found that girls love it when i attempt to cook them something, and i usually cook something thats not common and tell them to surprise me with dessert....if she is into u, dessert will be good, trust me...it works...

haha thanks for the advice even though i already got a strong game, i am not clueless when it comes to women just wondering if people even do anything new or neat?

What sort of fun things do you have out there? Hotair balloon? Helicopter ride? Those sorts of things are pretty neat and different. I'm a pretty simple date, I went to a hockey game on my first date w/my now boyfriend and I took him.

i love having a girl as a best friend, she is a hotty herself but all of her friends are hot and i always date them hahaha.

that is why i love my girlfriends they always put in a good word for me.

i might just do the freagin dinner thing, no point in making it complicated. and i get bored i will just get tanked! hahaha

To "Zadruga"I buy her a drink and suggest sex then hehe

calgary overall can be boring as fuck unless you are hitting up the clubs nightly.

like you were saying i am just going to probably keep it simple. like i am not worried about this date just dinners always seem so formal and i am layed back as hell.

but i guess on an early date the options are few.

nahhh i dont take hoes out on a date, there is no way a hoe is getting a dime of my money, ill let the GFY faithfuls keep that up.

I took my first date Wine tasting in Napa.

see i would love to do that, i love to get tanked.

Yeah first dates usually suck in the way that the dinner thing can get redundant...However, if you can have a nice conversation over some good food and a nice bottle of wine...I guess that's the one true way of finding out if your date is conversation worthy lol. Find a fun resturant, like a brazilian theme (if you both are meat eaters, you'll dig it) Good luck and have fun!!

if its one thing I learned is most US girl like easygoin stuff - dont overspend on gifts flowers and whatever, take her out to a nice restaurant, not a Michelin star and not McD, where you got a chance to talk a bit, if shes all over then go for some bar to get a drink or even better her place ;)

ya im thinking this mexican place that lets you wear sombreros.

or i am gonna do a mediocore fancy restaurant because i usually wear a blazer out or look G'd out. :1orglaugh

nothing to over the top i dont want any girl liking me for $, i want them to like me for the size of my cock.

fuck it happens to me everytime i bring out a girl, they always want to be my girlfriend.

i am seriously fucking loveable.

Yeah, it was really cool. Worked out perfectly.

Visit her parents. Have sex in the backyard. Forget to zip your fly.
If you are still alive after this, she is a "keeper"

if u wnat to blow her mind away, take her to volunteer with u at a shelter for the homeless or any rescue shelter and serve dinner and hang with people less forytunate then u. I have a good time when i do this and the people r so happy to have contact with people and converse. its totally safe, u dont have to worry. i never did it on a first date but i have done it with girls on like a 3rd or 4th date and i guarantee u it will be her first time doing it on a first date and maybe ever doing it in general. and its good to give back. i have hooked up every time i took a girl out to 1. i am gonna take a big risk here and guarantee u get some if u take her to one....there r plenty in NYC not sure about ur area....

either way, good luck with ur date

so you pretend to be helping poor/needing people just to get laid? what kind of sick fuck are you? Nice to see you only help them when its convenient and to your own good...


I hope you get aids cocksucker!!!

i say something fun, like mini golf, fair, something that you would think was super cool when you were 13. that way there is no pressure, and if you could laugh then it always better.
don;t plan anything too fancey and don;t do something that you could not continue if you keep dating her. nothing is more frustrating for a women if you go on a really fancey first date and then next time you are taken to mcdonalds.

i say something fun, like mini golf, fair, something that you would think was super cool when you were 13. that way there is no pressure, and if you could laugh then it always better.
don;t plan anything too fancey and don;t do something that you could not continue if you keep dating her. nothing is more frustrating for a women if you go on a really fancey first date and then next time you are taken to mcdonalds.

:1orglaugh
Seems these days for the 1st date a quick coffee date is the norm. You can always go for dinner or just drinks from there.

For the first meeting if I didnt know the girl, like meeting her from online. I would meet for coffee, that way if it clicked we could do something else after and if it didnt it was just a cup of coffee. When I was single man I cant tell how times I got laid on coffee dates, the roi was great lol

wow, thats a bit harsh, maybe i didnt make mysef clear...i do it many times, with friends, dates, alone...i have been volunteering since i was in high school...being 28 yrs old now, i dont have as much time as i use to but i still volunteer. everyone i introduce to it, has kept up the volunteering atleast once or twice a year. at the end, u will feel great that u can make a difference. the peops in these shelters feel so great to have conversations about life, sports, politics with you when you volunteer. i simply stated that when i brought a girl on a date there, she was so impressed and it lead to hooking up...its not like we threw the pots and pans on the floor and went at it there...

ya im in my mid 20s and i think coffee may be a little to old for me, i dunno we shall seeeee, i just may do the dinner thing.

i know she is a cool chick, she is friends with my best girlfriends cousin so i got the low down before hand.

she is fucking smoking, but i a pretty sexy myself so we would be a good couple.

I always choose a nice dinner for us but I still ask for the girl's suggestion before setting up a plan. :)

I usually take her in a very romantic and private place--a conducive place for possible sex. :winkwink: