New Girl Im dating with...
 

Well I have been dating a new girl for a while of like around 3 month or so and its been so really interesting and strange relationship...:pimp
Need some ideas from the smart guys here at GFY to let me find the right move with her :)

Here I go:
Since she is kinda telling me all the time how much she is happy of being with me but however her studding is taking way too much from her time and there is no time for me there during all the week and might be some hours on the weekends she is willing to share with me..! so eventually her study is more important to her then our relation ship.
Anyways there been other interesting things going on with her like phone calls she does not reply or even when she does reply its just an sms and not a phone call. So its actually like im the one that do call her to find out who is she or if she wants to get along.

Actually I have here a girl that like plays with feelings and does care only for her benefit in the relation ship. The question is what can I possibly do to change the things. I have some feelings for her so this might be not to great idea to just drop her much better will be some creative thing that is possible to apply on this case and maybe it can make things better .. no idea
What do you think I can or should do here?

she plays with you

do not make calls to her

Your English hurts my brain. :(

So.... :)

man, she playin with you
find a new chick

Im not sure maybe its really her study or she is just too much spoiled ..?

fuck her on the weekends, get someone else for the weekdays :winkwink:

She has made studying her priority, you'll lose every time. Either wait it out or move on.

Maybe ... :upsidedow

yes, I guess that if I go ahead and just try to be honest with her about how I feel won't change much.

good luck to you man! dont forget to give us the details.. hehe..

yeah... I will need luck since love is in the air :)

don't get attached, use her for sex and maybe if she changes you can change too but seems like you are just one of many.

seems im one of many:)

no time= ur being played. use that time to talk to someone else....always talk to other chicks...backup plan

Bury her out back, then fuck all her friends and her mom.

heh .. :) yeah this can be strong

If you're the type who is into dating, monogomy style, approach her and tell her that - see what she says. If you're copacetic with a casual fuck while you fuck a bunch of other chicks, tell her that - see what she says.

It's as simple as that, yet so very hard to discuss.

This is as good advice as you might here. Or simply dont see her anymore, sounds like a run of the mill slut to me.

Rot's -o- ruck wit da fukie fukie friend!!

i am kind of confused here you don't think her studies should be her number one priority?

Quit whining, Of course her education comes first. You are just a cock to her and from your unmanly tone a small one.

yes this is why im still with her...? :)

9 times out of 10 this is just a bullshit excuse. i've come across girls like that before. say they are so busy with school but really they are out whoring it up with a different guy every day of the week.

studies gotta be #1, but at the same time you should get what you give.

Good luck bro

Ahh not good at all dude :pimp

yes and im obviously not getting anything back right now.:pimp

i need pictures to further evaluate your situation. thanks.

i see no pics here :-((

this thread is useless without pictures.

You need to gain upper hand in the relationship, or at least some independance. If she doesn't come to you after awhile asking why you're so distant, that means she doesn't care and she's with other guys.

dont call her until she calls you. see how long it takes or if she ever calls you

Yeah i was having trouble reading

Read the book "The Game". All you need really ;-)

Top advice! :thumbsup

I still think his English is making my eyes bloody. Ayayayayay!

I saw someone post have a back up girl, and thats really the best. A girl that will be there for you when your real girlfriend isnt, thats what I do cause all my girlfriend does is lie and cheat, but GREAT sex, plus im like attached to her, and I dont want another girl.

This sucks, because if she doesn't call, you feel like ass

Play it cool, stop calling her and give her space. She'll call you and you'll fuck her rotten!

:1orglaugh :thumbsup

Time to chick-change :)

Let her play with herself, and find a new girl ...

Women need that cat and mouse game and it sounds like she's already got you so the challenge is gone.

Dont call her and when/if she calls you act like you're busy and say you'll call her back in a few, but dont.

good luck

Good Luck!

And she will become upset and deside that she is offended and will never call back. because a woman is not supposed to call a man all the time.

I suppose she can really be busy, why not? Mine works much, that's the thing she likes, she can not refuse it... The only thing is either to understand her or break up the relations...

studies are on the first place for many people, what's wrong with that?

Dump her...............from behind!

Anyone ever called you an idiot sigwhore before :1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

I think you should talk to her! before anything, school is very important and good for her if she is studying (if she is messing around then she's just a hood rat and you should move on) but for you so you know you did it right you should 1st talk to her let her know there is a problem... if she cares for you she'll try and fix it.