Did you cheat on your future wife on your bachelor party?
 

I know that a lot of bachelor parties guys hire hookers and prostitutes.

Did you ever do something with a whore on your bachelor party that you would be afraid of your future wife finding out? Like get a bj from a hooker etc...

It seems rather pointless to even get married if you "need to get it out of your system" before you get married. Doesn't seem very conducive to a healthy relationship.

I know not ALL bachelor parties involve hookers, I'm just talking about the ones that do. Have you ever participated or been involved in something like that?

And did your wives/fiancees know the extent of your debauchery?

I know someone two weeks ago that did and now the wedding is off. Can't believe he told her :disgust

im too young to get married. but last bachelor party i went to dude fucked a stripper before he got married. i don't think i would do it but to each his own.

Don't you think she has a right to know? Why would she want to commit to someone for the rest of her life if he can't keep his dick in his pants before his wedding? It wouldn't get any better once their married.

So you basically think he should have kept her living in a lie? How would you feel if she fucked some guys before their wedding?

nah he did the right thing but I doubt she will get over it. Too bad i know he would of been faithful from there on and made a great husband to her.

If he cheated on his bachelor party then that means he's not good already. Even if he were faithful from then on it would not have made up for it. Obviously his marriage would not have meant very much to him, otherwise he would not have banged some ho. It shows bad character and bad judgment.

Is throw Oscar Meyers hot dogs at a stripper cheating?

No. That's good entertainment.

how many women have cheated on their future husbands at a bachlorette party or sucked the male strippers cock?

aren't most people in committed relationships before they actually tie the knot? seems strange to me that its "ok" to do it then.

good question.

i can't remember

Probably not nearly as many as the number of men who fuck whores/strippers on their bachelor party before getting married.

Have you ever seen women at a male strip club? It's mostly a joke to them, they think of it more as "comedy" and some even get grossed out when the male strippers touch them.

It's different with men at a strip club though. If you look at the guys you can see that they are mesmerized by the strippers, or in a trance, or very aroused.

Some men even cum during lap dances. Some guys even put on condoms in case they make a mess. I have witnessed firsthand some gfy'ers post on gfy that they put on a condom before a dance in case they cum!

Do you ever read hooker review message boards, the men there even review which strippers give more mileage and put out.

Therefore I am inclined to say that guys are more likely to cheat on their bachelor parties.

Well besides the fact that you hate men, what you say is true for some guys. Personally, i don't like strip clubs, i don't want to be touched by strippers either. If gfy is where you get your info on what is the average man, you better look elsewhere. And I do recall this one event I was at, Ladies Weekend at this party campground place the girls would basically lift the towels off the male strippers and suck their cocks while everyone watched. Also there is a lot more touching tolerated at male strip clubs than female.

ehh you act like bitches don't get belligerent drunk at their bachelorette parties. i hear those chicks get crazy too. :2 cents:

Nah, what I'm saying is completely unbiased and objective. I don't get most of my info from gfy but also from what I observe personally.

Do a search in google for "usasexguide" and go to your city. I can't paste links to other bbs...

If you read the reviews some of the clubs are very high mileage and dancers go all the way.

Anyways, most bachelor parties are probably not held at strip clubs, I'm talking about private dancers in hotel rooms where more goes on, where sometimes pro ho's are hired and guys take turns, etc.

Them bitches sure do get crazy! You are right.

But guys are more likely to rent a prostitute in Vegas or something and take turns fucking her during a bachelor party...

Just wondering how prevalent this is.

Ok then. If you say so. You make basically the same posts over and over again about this subject. Once again, if you are getting your information about the average man from hooker forums, look elsewhere. There are plenty of women who wouldn't think twice about cheating, there are plenty of women who ARE hookers and strippers and there are plenty of women who would fuck you over for the next shiney thing that comes along. Not that i am a big fan of men or humanity in general.

Nope I did not.

I think hooker forums are a very good resource, those forums are HUGE and have thousands and thousands of members across the world, so therefore it must be an accurate representation?

Also I tend to believe people are more honest on forums because forums are anonymous. Those guys might not be as open in real life about their whoring activities but they can let it all out on the forums.

Also not everyone has internet and I bet a lot of guys are not even aware of those forums, just indulging on their own without advice/pointers/reviews etc, so the forums are just a small glimpse of what's out there, and what's out there is probably not very good.

I don't find strip clubs arousing at all. When I go down to Memphis, my friends always want to go to the strip clubs. I just don't get it.

Well if you think the majority of guys fuck hookers, you have a warped view. I personlly don't know anyone who has fucked one. What about the women who are hookers, strippers, porn sluts behind their significant others back? Obviously if there are thousands of guys engaging in this there must be thousands of women providing the service. So what is the difference?

Yea, I kind of want to steer the topic away from strip clubs. I want people to concentrate on the topic of fucking hookers before your wedding night. Or fucking hookers at a bachelor party while in a committed relationship.

Not necessarily just fucking but also blowjobs, handjobs, fingering etc It's important to specify the sex addict cause some people might be like "Oh I just fingered the whore, that's not sex!" or "I only got a bj, that's not cheating!" but you know what I mean...

I didn't but I know a chick who did some freaky stuff at her bachelorette party.. brags about getting DP, and bukkake'd

her hubby doesn't know :(

There was a survey done by Kinsey which showed 69% of white males had at least one experience with a prostitute.
http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/amex/kinsey/...revisited.html

Yes, you are absolutely correct, there are thousands of women providing this service. From my research it seems though that a lot of the partners/husbands of these women don't mind because they are living off the woman's earnings, they are basically suitcase pimps.

no went for a nice steak dinner at Ruth's Chris and then cigars and drinks.It was about 8 guys.

That's how it should be done. :)

My night didn't involve any sex. It did feature a lapdance which I didn't really want... it was kinda surreal that she says good luck with my wedding just after she's finished dancing naked on me.

At another friends night (after I was married) I asked her to dance for my friends but she kept pointing her pussy my way and asking why I wasn't watching. :1orglaugh I was very naive that night, assuming that they would show some respect when they solicited a dance and I said simply: "I'm married." I was wrong.

BTW my wife knows about both dances

heh, my bach party consisted of drinking from 2pm until about 2am. basically drank, ate a decent meal, then went to a few bars and then to the stripclub. I didn't get any dances but I made sure all my buddies had a good time :) Had one of them get a "hostage dance" lol he got the shit beat out of him so bad and a nice scratch down his face from her clit ring. That made the night right there.

Dances are not that bad, especially if she knows about it and is cool with it I see no problem.

I'm more curious about hookers and prostitutes...

My friend fucked a hooker at his bachelor party. I paid for it. The wife knows, not that anyone told her, she just knows. I don't know if she knows that I paid for it though. I hope not. Actually if she knew she would probably think highly of me for doing that for him. She's a rare breed. This is not a guy who was fucking a hooker for the first time or anything, he probably fucked over 100 before that.

I heard of another bachelor party that turned into a gangbang. Half the guys started doing the stripper, the other half ran away.

Seriously you seem not willing to accept the fact that not many do. I am sure some do, but I've been to a fair few bachelor parties and hasn't happened at any of them.

Nothing drives a woman crazy more than her throwing her goods at you and you turning it down.

Keep dreaming kid.....women are no better or worse than men. They're just
much better at hiding it and don't brag about it. Anyone who thinks women
are you holier than man should get his head examined.

Nothing drives a stripper more crazy than not making a sale... :winkwink:

So she was driven double crazy then. :)

you know what id prob fuck a stripper on my bachelor party and my girl prob wouldnt mind too much, were smart enough to be able to seperate sex from love. something i would have thought a bunch of adult webmasters would understand

Hell no. My bachelorparty was a sausagefest, and a good one too. Lots of male nudity and stuff Seeeee?

One fact: People who cheat on their lovers are NOT to be trusted when it comes to business.

if they fuck over their loved ones, they will surely fuck you over.

Ive always been amazed at how much "cheating' goes on at webmaster conventions, these same people will stab you in the back when the deal s done.

beware the cheaters.

Omg, that is hilarious! It really was a sausage fest :winkwink:

Yea I agree. That would be another good thread to start a poll about "if you cheat at porn conventions."

Smart enough? Intelligence would have nothing to do with that personal decision.

Sounds like commitment issues to me, if you really love someone why would you want to "mate" with someone else? just my :2 cents:

Yea, I agree. Just cause you work in porn doesn't mean you have to separate love and sex. I am not judgmental and don't judge other people cause frankly I don't care about other people, I only care about things that affect me directly.

Selling porn is just selling a product like any other product like cars or clothes. Just cause you sell porn doesn't mean you have to endorse "open relationships" in your personal life.

I only sell porn to make money, I'm not into the wild sex lifestyle...

It has nothing to do with morals or anything, more because some people just like "to be the only one" in their partners life, I admit I'm a jealous person and very possessive, I like all the attention of whomever I'm with only on ME and no one else!! If they are fucking someone else they are spending their energy on something other than ME. I want all their attention. I don't share and I don't want to be in an open relationship.

If others like it, that's great for them. It doesn't affect me so I don't give a flying fuck.

First off, Bausch, did your just get married or something and suspect your other half of fucking a hooker at his bachelor party?
You seem to really hate men, so it wouldnt surprise me if your only into girls.

PS, I dont know who your are, this is just an observation from this thread.

Why are you using a forum full of guys that have sex with hookers to base your stats that all guys have sex with hookers and because of this all guys would have sex with a hooker on their bachelor party?

WTF, are you seriously using 59 year old stats to make your aguement? And the stats are from someone thats been accussed of oversampling atypical populations at that. Things arent the same now as they were 60 years ago.
Even going by the newer stats which are still 12 years old they are way off, I fail to believe that only 63% of males surved had masterbated.
Going by the newer more realistic 15% of males have used hookers, thats still not to many people, 3 in 10. And I would suspect that number would be dependant on geographical location too. And then how many of those men that at some point in their life been with a hooker will have sex on their bachelor parter? 1 in 10 of those maybe?



Some men cheat, some women cheat, some change some dont. But I dont know if I would say guys are more likely to do anything, maybe 10 years ago, but not anymore.
The statistics on anything sexual are allways going to have a certain error too, I mean unless 85% of guys are having sex with 50% of the women. The numbers never add up to something realistic, guys will say they have when they havent and women will say they havent when they have.

On a personal note, I dont know anyone that has used a hooker or escorte. I know 3 guys that have cheated, but 10+ girls that have cheated.
I know 2 women that that did everything but put a dick in them at their bachelorette parties, when the guys at thier bachelor parties didnt even have women around (one we went duck hunting and quad camping for the weekend, and the other we went paintballing and then a nice dinner and drinks after).

I'll let you get back to your man bashing though.

I hate everyone of both sexes equally. Like BlackCrayon said so eloquently " I'm not a fan of humanity in general." I don't prefer anyone of either sex. I like to be alone period. Thanks.

Yeah, exactly... to each their own. I just find it very arrogant for someone to think they're "smart enough" to take the love out of sex and lower their standards to sleeping with people they care nothing about. It seems really tacky to me.

And about the stats, if 59 years ago supposedly 69 % of men had sex with hookers shouldn't be the percentage be higher today? Why would the percentage be lower today than 59 years ago?

Because it's more liberal now and less stigma. Plus there's the internet where people can give reviews/tips regarding whore mongering and such so wouldn't that make it easier to whore....

So shouldn't it be higher? Even if the 69 % statistic was inaccurate, wouldn't today's rate be higher?

It's true that there's more casual sex available to men then 59 years ago but I don't think that by itself would drive the percentage down... ? I'm thinking because a lot of married men cheat they prefer hookers because it's quicker, more convenient, with a lesser chance of getting caught?

Maybe the hookers were better looking back then? Now an attractive woman with compromised morals has a lot of other avenues such as nude modeling for internet sites. The only ones that end up being hookers are the nasty crack whores that can't make it anywhere other than the street corner.