Can someone please explain to me why people always get whipped over the biggest....
 

losers?

male or female why do people get so whipped over someone who continually mistreats them or isnt right for them in the first place?

then when you try to tell them they look at you like you are crazy, jealous or are just being an asshole. it boggles my mind.

can someone please explain this?

sick sexual fantasies

i dont think that really has anything to do with the topic, i am not following your post? please elaborate

Oops...

Saw the word whipped - momentarily caught my interest. :1orglaugh

so i am guessing no one actually reads threads? or do people just respond? :helpme

No idea why that happens really...

But it happened to me in the past...

i know a few girls who have boyfriends who treat them like shit, abuse them verbally and physically, and they always go back to them... why? they have a sexual fantasy that keeps them coming back, they may look like they hate it, crying and stuff, but deep down in side, it makes them happy

that to me is a really fucked up way of thinking, be sad so you can be happy? i know what you mean though.

people are strange i guess i just need to shake my head and avoid people who arent real.

what happened exactly?

Low self esteem.

Naw, I read yer post. I just opted for the smartass road.

When I first met my (now)wife, she was married to an extremely abusive loser at the time. This clown was a real piece of work. Wore a buckknife and a heavy metal t-shirt to family court. Broke his own daughter's arm on one occasion. Physically and emotionally abusive to the core.

And she seemed the type to keep going back for more despite all he did to her.

Perhaps she was trapped by insecurity. Despite the abuse, she somehow felt comfortable in an old, familiar environment. Unable to break the pattern.

But as the saying goes - I took her away from all that. Now she works for me.

My name...is Charlie.

Scrunt's my soulmate. My best friend - and confidante. I wouldn't replace her for the world.

i am glad you helped her out, sometimes people just need to meet someone nice and who will treat them well for them to see what they have been missing out on. but i guess thats hard to find for alot of people.

i have a girl like that also now, the ex was a total loser, hit her before, cussed her out constantly and she stuck with him for years.

and what is crazy to me is she is a sexy girl with one the best personalites yet she was with this fat loser for so long.

i have no idea why people settle, and most times when everyone around you is telling you to stay away from someone it is usually for a reason.

yet most people wont take the advice, most times when you give it to them it drives them further to that person as if to try to prove you are wrong.

sometimes i am acting like that, maybe because im just insecure to that person..which is right!!!..insecurity definitely is the answer..