I want to last longer when fucking my wife
 

I need tips on how to stop cumming to early.

My wife is really really sexy. I can do fine while we are taking it slowly but as soon as she starts moaning and I pick up the pace, I have to start thinking about "Maggy Thatcher".

How do the porn studs stop themselves cumming when fucking a realy sexy pornstar??

Leroy
(now embarressed)

Just wait till your grown up and try it again :)

Before you come, think about fire brigade. That helps!

What you see in porn is not all that true! After all all those porn movies are made like the other movies - stars, script, direction, produers, etc....

Just enjoy yourself! Your wife is lucky to have a husband who finds her sexy and also enjoys having sex with her!

:) Cheers to your married life! :)

you have start citing the starting lineup for the baseball team in your area....

for example, i will start telling myself:
Johnny Damon leading off and playin CF
Derek Jeter at SS
Bobby Abreu in RF batting 3rd
Cleanup, A-rod at 3B

u get the point....

good luck ; )

When you're about to cum pull out and smack your dick with a hammer.

Learn to control your PC muscle. When you are peeing, the muscle you use to stop the stream of urine is your pubocoxxygeal muscle, or pc muscle. By exercising that muscle you can gain more control over yourself and can even learn to have multiple orgasms without ejaculation. Try the stopping yourself from peeing thing to isolate that muscle, then start squeezing it randomly throughout the day.....

You can do this while masturbating as well to help teach you control.... masturbate to the edge of ejaculation, then clamp down on your pc muscle and gently squeeze the head of your penis to prevent ejaculation.. If you keep working at it pretty soon you'll be able to stop ejactulation simply by flexing your pc muscle.... But it doesn't neccessarily stop the orgasm, just the ejaculation. When you are having sex start to practice this... and if you'll notice when you do that squeeze, you will "twitch".. Trust me, do that while you're inside your wife.. it's FUN :)

Do her again right after. If you still come too soon, do her again right after. If you still...

Keep at that programme for a few months, you'll won't believe yourself. Don't forget to drink lots of water.

Don't be embarassed.. Men don't seem to realize that sex is an art, and the muscles involved in sex have to be worked out just like any others. It's a testament to your love and attraction to your wife that you even asked.. it takes a bigger man to ask than to keep in the same routine even though he's unsatisfied with his performance... :)

I'll give that one a go!

Nice advice. Cheers

what about hypnotherapy?

have you tried superglue in your pee hole?

some pills will do the trick or jerk off 5 minutes before.

Give yourself a case of Whiskey Dick;)

Getting drunk can do wonders.

Tell your doc... some antidepressants have a side effect of prolonging ejaculation. Zoloft, Paxil, and Prozac have all been used to treat premature ejaculation.

problem with that though is yuo never fucking orgasm lol

cool. thats a new one.

Why would you want to extend the torture!

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Just jack off right before, and if you get a case of limp dick Cialis is Man's best friend... Then after a while you will train your body to go the distance...:pimp

Here is my technique...

FAT OPRAH FAT OPRAH FAT OPRAH FAT OPRAH FAT OPRAH FAT OPRAH FAT OPRAH

I just chant that in my head till things are back under control.

It works.

have her suck you off first, then take round 2 to the vag :thumbsup

Margaret Thatcher naked on a cold day!!!!!!

Think of someone else.

On another note Leroy, your portfolio looks great.

Just try and have fun.

Jack off right before you are about to fuck her wait a little while then start fucking her.

I totally agree....

I have prozac , Can you please tell me how much prozac i should take daily ?

use this carefully!
 

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you might lose it and not able to finish!

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Bop the baloney before you do it,never go in with a loaded gun

oh jesus ^ :/

Shoot it when the urge strikes . . . but ya better make sure u can get it up again or she won't be happy! Use Viagra or Cialis. :thumbsup

interesting thread.. and good for you to face the problem.. i wouldnt say i am a specialist in this area but can possible assist.
i have somewhat of the same experience, and strangely enuf, when i was younger, i never had this problem, could go on and decide exactly when it was time to pop.. now i have to be more carefull. here are things which work for me..
1.jerk off a couple hours before to take the edge.
2. have her suck you off first, then do round two.
3. use a little viagra
4. exercise those muscles and practice to hold off and extend the O by breathing techniques and mental control.
5. fuck for a few minutes, pull out and do some oral, switch it around, once you get over a certain point of sensitivity you can keep going as long as you want.

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Prozac, Paxil and Zoloft are all selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs).

A quick Google search:
http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/pre...578/DSECTION=8
http://www.emedicine.com/med/topic643.htm
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prematu...tion#Treatment
http://www.medicinenet.com/script/ma...ticlekey=63987

ask her to learn how to come faster herself, why should this be all your problem.

It's not neccessarily premature... it can be controlled mentally much better than through pills, it simply takes practice. Relying on pills to give you control means you will never gain control on your own, and you will have to keep taking them to reap the benifits. My workout method works well, it works for life, and it's drug-free lol.

I've got one better:

http://lonestartimes.com/images/2006...nald-trump.jpg:Oh crap

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Try some man delay...or cut off your knob

I want to last longer when fucking your wife too

oh..that's bad....you're having sex with your wife but then she' s not the one you're thinking off when doing that thing...

Very true... It sucks when you have to do an emotional and mental disconnect when with your mate just to prolong the pleasure.. sex is 90% mental. Learning the physical control to go along with the mental enjoyment is key. Lots of guys can jerk off and go for hours, then be with a woman they love or think is really hot, and it stimulates them so much mentally that they can't stop themselves. That's not a matter of premature anything or a physical problem, the physical control definitely helps resolve this situation and let the mind be in the right place enjoying the excitement... That being said, it might help some guys starting out to use some kind of trick to help their mental control, but it's good to not rely on that either.

I'm a fountain of useless information. haha.

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Q: Why do women fake orgasms?


A: Because they think we care.

That's interesting.. i've heard about using the pc muscle for fun.. but not for prolonging

Sadly thats the best she has ever looked.

fifty me too's

the chinese consider sperm to be the juice of life and ejaculating it takes years off your life. therfore they practice a technique which ejaculates in themselves.you can do this by squeezing your prostrate hard when you'd normally ejaculate.