Celibacy ?
 

K i want to know if you think this is bad or whatever.
I was talking with a cool girl that may be potential (for a realtionship) lastnight and we came into the conversation of being with partners and so forth. Well i got out of her that she's celibant.
To me now that's a total turn off and i don't know if i want to pursue anything more. I know it's kind of selfish, but hey if the sex isn't good why would you marry someone let alone have a relationship with them.
Im sure we've all caught ourselves saying the sex was great but the person wasn't or the opposite.
So now am i a bad person for thinking this way ?
I don't think so.

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She could be celibate just for the time being. Take her out a few times and see how things go with her if you really like her. You never know, she might stop being celibate just for you! A girl whos been celibate for awhile will REALLY go at it when the time comes.:Graucho

celibacy is not an option. We must first test the pussy to see if it has been nurtured and is worth any kind of long term committment. Great communication makes a relationship but sex makes it happen!

knowing why shes celibate is more important than the fact she is right now.

is it personal choice? permanent? temporary religious vows maybe?

or.. a ploy to scare off guys out for a quickie? :1orglaugh

My point exactly. If you really think she could be a potential GF then give it a couple of dates and see if she loosens up.

This is exactly what im thinking.

Im going out again with her on Sat...i got a special night planned.
Sunset from one of Vancouvers highest mountain points (where noone goes;) and a bottle of wine.
Think she'll come through ? I do !!!!!

Krysco-

Let me ask you a question.....

I'm assuming that the idea that this girl is celibate means that she doesn't want to have sexual intercouse with you. Have you two explored other options?

Will she shine your helmet? Have you find out how she feels about anal sex?

Maybe even a hand job.......:thumbsup

There are alternatives to sex.

Look at Bill Clinton.....he got some head and discovered new places to put his cigars........but did he have sex with that woman.....

NOPE!

Find out if she will compromise with you but don't push it so much that it seems like that is the main part of a relationship to you.....talk about it with her in moderation with your other everyday topics of conversation.....and when you do talk to her about it, let her know that some kind of sexual contact is imprtant to you and explain why.

Maybe you two have more in common than you think when it comes to sex.
:winkwink:

This is intriging...yeah we'll have to see what happens.
It's still too new to figure anything out. Hey she's a cool girl and this is just a small setback (for now)
As it pursues a bit more it will come up and i will see what she thinks of other pleasures.
Now if she lets me give it in the ass...im not complaining !!!!!

:thumbsup