NEED ADVICE: Girl I was chatting to on holiday
 

Hey I met a girl on the last day of holiday and unlike all the other girls she was actully really, really nice.
Anyway I got her back to the hotel, i dont think we were both up for anything, so I was just after her number, she then gave it to me, anyway she then realised she had lost her phone and at this point became annoyed that her number was now useless anyway her friends came in and decided i was too drunk ( too be honest i don't know what she was thinking) and I was out. Anyway I forgot to give her mine. and i was too hungover in the morning to think about anything

anyway she was easily the nicest girl of the whole trip and all I remembered was her name and university, so I searched for it on facebook and I think I found her. Just wondering should I send her a message saying hey i found you by searching for your name and university and how are you etc, or should I just drop it, forget it and move on. My brain is telling me to do both.

I dont want to come off like a freak that i was searching for her via the net.

Whats the deal.. if you have some friends on facebook and didnt sign up just to find her you wont look like a stalker.

yep i have had my facebook for just under a year now

well i sent a message, so fuck it. job done

Isnt that sort of what its for, finding people.

Just send her a message. Why not?
If she says, sorry get lost--->You wouldn't have her when you do nothing either

If she says--->heyyy you are that nice guy, let's meet and have sex--->you will be happy, and over 3 years you will have children

Okay I checked:
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So th elink is wrong, but also the GOOD url went to the TGP :)

hehe wrong topic

Unfortunately she was probably too drunk and won't remember you.

it all depends now on your Facebook profile...

do you have many friends added and many cool pics?

NO. If she's interested in you, she'll find you. Otherwise you're lowering your value. Be high value, dude.

Ah... You already sent a message, well now she thinks this way:

You don't get laid very often, because you msg'ed her (looks like you don't have any other gf's, huh?). That means you're low value and she'll probably will say: let just be friends.

yeh but if i didnt send her the message then i would regret it for the rest of my life, rather get it over and done with and know the real answer to be honest.

You are over analyzing the situation. Why would you not add her?
Do you know how many random strangers add people to their profiles hoping to meet them? I would ignore the random one, but would not ignore someone I met on a 'holiday'. Just add & say hi.

You won't ever know now, maybe she would have sent you one :)

Oh well, lets see how it goes. Kee us updated :thumbsup

Why would her phone number be useless? She will just replace her phone, and have the same phone number as before?

dude YOUR A LOSER

guess its a prepaid phone

Or perhaps she didn't really loose her phone and was just looking for an excuse not to get in contact?
That and her friend coming to her rescue seems a bit suspect to me :1orglaugh


Just move on :thumbsup

Bro don't over analyze it just do what you feel like doing.

Add the girl, what do you have to loose?

My attitude is you want something be persistent and go get it, but it also depends how old you are cause you might be in the phase of playing games but being in my late 20's I am done with all that.

Bro don't over analyze it just do what you feel like doing.

Add the girl, what do you have to loose?

My attitude is you want something be persistent and go get it, but it also depends how old you are cause you might be in the phase of playing games but being in my late 20's I am done with all that.

Yep that is very possible.

Asking for any advice relating to a [potential] relationship on GFY is silly in my opinion.

thumbs up for facebook!

That's bullshit imo, if you two could really get along well she'd appreciate it.

Anyway, even if she thought like that, it's still worth a shot if you really like her.

Good luck! :thumbsup

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They have Facebook in Thailand?

I just feel like laughing to this... :1orglaugh :1orglaugh!

You did just fine. One message is not staking, nor is it making you a loser. If she doesn't respond, well you tried. If she would have contacted you first, the same people here that called you a loser would be caling her a slut.

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Dead on.

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Well. I messaaged her, she hasnt responded. Such a shame as she was so nice. I guess I shouldnt have been chatting to her wearing a netball skirt.
(was a pretty crazy night)

FUCK THE DICKHEAD WHO STOLE HER PHONE, FUCK HIM!! he lost me a hot girl.


:(:(

deleting her phone number and forgetting her now.

going to go to Croatia soon and chat up klen telaris's mum

im really sad now :(. i must have spent about 3 hours chatting to her. she wouldnt let me kiss her properly too, only on the cheek. this girl had style not like most of the british dirtbags out there.

I wish I could chat to her.

lol you should really wait a couple days before deciding she dont give a shit..she probably hasnt even been online yet :2 cents:

Not everyone reads their email daily like most of us do.

I find the average person reads their email once every few days... and, with some, you're lucky if they read it once a month. :2 cents:

maybe your right maybe your wrong, but im gonna try and forget about her. gonna smoke some j's have a bit of martini and try and recover from the amazing holiday i had.

I pulled every other night, just the night I meet a special girl, it turns out her phone got stolen even though i got her number.

life sux!

The nice/drunk story soundly tells us she thinks you're not cool enough to introduce to her friends. So, prolly waste of your time.

I think you actually did the right thing, hitting her up. As you've said, she seems to have some class, which makes it unlikely she'd be the one to hit you up. She hasn't replied, but WTF, it's been only a day? How do you know she's been online at all? Now calm down before drawing too many conclusions, don't be so insecure about yourself.

But not to discourage you, but do you know if the lost phone story was actually true?

yep it really was true, i think we got tricked when i was walking her back, some wierd guy grab held of her in a huge really tight and i think it was a distraction and he pulled the phone out, i was very drunk but i know she really did lose it.

The karma feels right! Think you will hear from her in time. WTF do I know? I can tell ya this. I've had my best luck drunk on my ass.:thumbsup And I've been around a long time.

Good luck to ya...

Bet you wish you got your end away now ....

You've given her less than 24 hours to respond on Easter weekend that is usually filled with family dinners and such. Slow the frack down. :) She may still write you back.

You just reminded me to night when two english man comes to my bar and bought a drink to my mum and chat with her.It was kind a funny.

Good job.

You just came off to her like a a total loser / crazy stalker.

Just wait a little bit longer, dude. I usually call a girl after we exchanged numbers after 2-3 days, so just bait a little bit longer, Easter, etc... Just for your own sake, don't send her any more messages :2 cents: Yep, girls makes you sad sometimes, that's why they are there for :thumbsup

Exactly. If she has some "class", she must be looking not for the average guy (who would message her right after met). If she wouldn't receive his message, might thought, oh, this guy is different, I'll check with him and find out :2 cents:

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the way you bump contest threads i doubt you have any room to be calling someone else a loser.