depressed about a chick
 

hate this shit, its been about a month. very hard to stop thinking about her.

through a very unique opportunity i met this girl right after valentines day, we dated for about 2.5 months. then it just stopped. never met a girl like her before. youd figure that after a few months you figured by then out if you like somebody or not. and it sucks when a chick can just turn from being so warm to so cold just like that.

i was happy single before, now i got a taste of that and i want it and cant stop thinking about it. just sit at home now brooding. food doesnt taste good. hard to lie in bed without thinking about her.

as i got older, i figured out everything that i didnt want in a girl. and because of that i figured id be single forever and accepted that. and then i met her. beautiful, sweet, the works.

im the kind of guy that, when its there, i fall very hard for girls. its been about 2-3 weeks, hoping it would be over by now :(

keep her out of sight and out of mind. go get laid.

Instead of being sad about what you've lost, how about celebrating what you've gained.

Now you have had one dating experience. You're lucky she even looked at you twice. Nobody will ever love you again.

Does your pussy hurt?


Maybe you'd like a warm water bottle? Lie in bed with it on your tummy and wait by the phone for a call from your boyfriend?


Be a man and get over it, jesus christ you're on a porn message board crying over some worthless poon. Grow a pair, please.

Well aren't you just hard as fuck. A real man. Emotions are for women, etc.

lol huggles maybe thats what i needed

i know im sad about a boy and i hate thinking about it

Shit man... wake up!

Consider yourself lucky she got cold on you now, after 2.5 months, and not after you're married with kids and then you gotta bankrupt yourself then slave away to pay over-inflated child support and alimony...

At least you know she's not good now. Some guys wish they could have known that before taking the plunge!

A song to compliment this thread:

....according to wiki the song alludes to suicide ....... not implying anything here given the title of the thread ..... lol

thanks bro, thats what i needed. it wasnt 100% right from the start, its just after talking to her for 5 min, i was like "i would marry this chick" and thats never happened to me, you know when the shits over you only look back on the good stuff, but excellent point man

loll plenty of fish ..

She said your weiner was too small

Out of sight out of mind.

Vodka + prostitutes is the solution to your problem.

they all come back
they all get drunk and call again at 2am
they all cry at home or with their friends

just ignore them and when they come crawling back, you will most likely have someone else.

You're not going to "just forget" after 2 - 3 weeks ahahahaa.....

Just fuckin deal with it.. relax you aren't going to die! go meet some new girls.

Stop being such a negative puss..

Now you kno the deal with woman they can turn sour fast that's why you just don't give a fuck get laid have fun if you stay with a chick cool if not whocares you fucked the shit out of her and tore her ass out...

Do whatever it takes to NOT think about her. By not distracting yourself youre just feeding the pain. Like someone else said.. be glad it happened after 2.5 mos and not 2.5 decades. Go talk to some other chicks, guarantee you'll forget about her in no time.

spend a few hundred bucks at the strip club.

thanks guys, pipecrew, pay2purve, zoose, appreciated

"just sit at home now brooding" ...

thats your problem ... go get some ASS . Goto the massage parlor if you have to you're a desperate man !

Get a bunch of smack, hire a hooker, fuck her really hard, then cut her up into several pieces and bury her in the crawlspace under your house.

That always makes me feel better.

what holly said

i had that happen before too... you have to keep yourself busy, go join the gym, do something...only time will heal, give it 2-3 months and you'll be fine

i think you should just totally flip out and go blow a dude. that'll show her...

dude, quit acting like a barrel full of smashed assholes.. chicks are a dime a dozen, you'll find another one thats better than this one....

when one is in love ... this rational way of thinking is incomprehensible .... love is blind and deaf-mute ... yeah ... a real freak of nature ... lol:upsidedow

Dude, there's nothing better to get rid of heartache than finding someone new.

Seriously. Pining over a girl is useless, she's not coming back, and no matter how much you wish she was, she's already moved on and is on to new dick.

Go forth and balance the equation, go meet new people who fill that void she left. You don't even have to go on a "get laid" jihad. Just meet and geniunely get to know new people, it will expand your world, and make you see just how small and inconsequential this girl is in the grand scheme of thngs which is your life.

I went through this after having a 2 year relationship. It's hard, I know, but I actually feel better now than during the relationship. :)

Took me weeks to get over it, if not a few months.

I can sympathise because I also fall hard when things go bad.

She's cold because she probably made the decision to break up with you long before you ever knew about it. That gives her time to settle into that frame of mind, she's already moving on at the point she tells you.

Best thing to do is keep yourself occupied, don't just sit around the house feeling sorry for yourself...

There are plenty of fish in the sea my friend, don't waste too much time on one.

Best way to get over a girl is to get on another :thumbsup

that happened to me once, it was amazing then she disappeared wanted nothing to do with me. I worked as a recruiter at the time, came to work with a long face. My boss asked what was wrong I told him the story. (Add Irish accent) He said Ah Anthony look at it like you were visited by one of the angels. She gave you a gift then went on her way.

good shit guys, i needed somebody telling me this

how can u not thank me? I gave the best advice

figured out what happened, i thought it was something i had just done. fuck

You guys dated for 2.5 months?

That's not near enough to really know someone.

Get over it already.

I still love you

i tried it, didnt work, temporary fix ;)

thanks man

I heard somewhere that it takes half the time you were together to get over it.

Or maybe it was time and a half.

Either way, the point is you get over it. You just have to let yourself.

You can come to my house for Wednesday 18 year old naked pussy day if you want....

Your chainsaw, or mine?

Call her.

:1orglaugh

:thumbsup:thumbsup:thumbsup

and stop whining ... you sound like a chick ...

Indeed! :thumbsup

In addition, new friends and new love interest will make you feel completely fine! :winkwink:

I killed Bethany, my old girlfriend, with a nail gun, and some man uh some old faggot with a dog last week. I killed another girl with a chainsaw, I had to, she almost got away and uh someone else there I can't remember maybe a model, but she's dead too.

move on babes

The chick took your pride away, take it back and move on. She was not worth the trouble.

Damn, it's no wonder you feel bad with all the bullshit answers you've been given here. What you need to do is drive by her house a few dozen times a day to see what's up. Call her house just as often to see if a man answers, but always hang up. Call her family and ask what went wrong and tell them how heartbroken you are. See if maybe there's something they can do to help her see the light and forsake all other men for you. Park in front of her house and see how drunk and obnoxious you can get, then try to top this the next night. Remember, good relationships take lotsa work.

this is what ALL boys do and i hear it works every time. you also need closure if you're ever gonna stop thinking about it. you have questions about what happened and if you are brave enough to get the answers you will be more at peace, even if it hurts, and able to move forward. good luck, i feel ya

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