I don't understand women - at all
 

Like (I assume) many guys working in adult, I simply don't get off on professional porn anymore. To me, it's just work, and doesn't do anything for me whatsoever - other than making me money, anyway. Since my girlfriend is studying in another country for half a year, that's bad.

So lately, I've been "flirting" with women online.

Now, what baffles me is the sheer amount of really attractive women who are willing to get naked on webcams in exchange for just a few compliments. It's entirely bizarre. Women who have no idea what I even look like undress and masturbate in front of webcams just to hear me say how hot they are.

So, I'm wondering... does anyone else have the feeling that women's sexual organs are, generally speaking, their egos?

Dude, of course they get naked for you when you pay them $2.99 a minute.

I have lived with a woman for over 20 years and I still cant figure her out, infact I understand her less now than when I first met her, they are a complete mystery to me. I think they are not human sometimes but some form of alien sent down to torment us guys

That I would understand.

The ones I'm talking about are women who, after an hour or two of talking, get naked on webcam through msn or whatever.

Casual sex I understand, but basically creating porn for someone you don't even know, without getting paid, that's just bizarre. I just can't see what they get out of it.

The insecure ones do act like that. If their Daddy missed a lot of dance recitals then they love to show their tits online. Honestly if it weren't for attention-starved women we wouldn't have any content to sell. God bless every single needy one of them.

It still freaks me out, though. Out of my last 8 attempts, I'm at 6/8 showing nudity now, with one on the way to getting there, and another who apparently wants to get married first.

It's just odd... tonight I had a perfect 10 stripping for me, the kind of girl that wouldn't even look at me in real life. Perfectly bizarre.

Lucky bastard. The hotties I have on MSN won't show me any skin but I can't get the fatties to keep their clothes on.

What has been working for me is going WAY over the line of civilized behavior, and making extremely crude sexual comments. The kind of thing that gets you slapped in the face in real life.

The one that stripped for me tonight, I actually met through WoW. Her father is the GM of my WoW guild :s

The force is strong with you. Show me your ways.

These Women that you are talking about, Are very insecure! :winkwink:

that is some interesting hobby of yours for after hours heheh

How YOU doin'? Got MSN?

They are walking contradictions. They say they want a nice guy, but they only respond to being ignored or treated like shit(in moderation).

She devils every one of them

where do you find this girls you chat with :) adult dating site?

Clearly you are a level 70 pimp spec'd in getting chicks naked.

a little geek humor for us WoW playrs.

Dont be shy.. give some exemples.. :winkwink:

The guy who can figure women out and writes a book on it is an instant billionaire. He's probably the same guy who will invent a pill that will actually increase the size of your penis, makes you immune to AIDS and Herpes and also is a male contraceptive.

Good question!

Yeah I am amazed of that too! I've never been interested on cyber sex but a friend of mine has like 10 HOT girls stripping for him on their webcams everyday. Its like they talk a couple things and start getting naked ... amazing. Maybe they don't fuck in real life? Scared about AIDS? who knows ....

That's hot. Got screencaps?

Yes, I ran into this quite a bit about 4-5 years ago when I was chatting it up on yahoo and msn. I even banged a couple I talked into meeting me.. Sites like plentyogfish and meetmeinto.com had tones of puss on it..

welcome to the club....

Fuck off. :321GFY





Not really. I'm sorry.

Now that was funny Bab:1orglaugh

I would also like to add that I had to google "GM of my WoW guild" because I thought that was some weird European expression for boss.

I ended up reading a guide to becoming a GM. I'm still not sure what the fuck it means, but I suspect maybe these girls are crazy.

Most guys dont realize that if you arent a total creep you would be surprised at what women will do for you. imho the average woman is more horny then men, but they are less likely to admit it.

as soon as they reach a certain level of comfort with you most are willing to do anything. If you give off that "we can have sex and be friends like it was nothing tomorrow" you can get places never thought possible.

quick off topic story, i played tetrinet with a chick since i was about 15 and we chatted off and on, i met her after years and years after when i took a trip to van with a couple buddies. took her out on a date and banged her that night.

chick was wild, we went skinny dipping in the hotel pool, tapped in the sauna, the chick left me naked in the pool and made me come chase her to the hottub where she stood naked with my hanes top on.

good times i could go on, long story short dam some net chicks are horney as hell.

Well you are not part of the Women Society. They meet every 3 months in a secret place that looks like a kitchen to discuss their latest confusion tactics. Those tactics then get rapidly shared over MSN to every women in the world. Ever wondered why women in Africa now have those mobile phones with internet access? Now you know!

I think you might be a little ego centric here. You think you are getting something from them, but actually they are getting something from you. They want to get off, and you are getting them off.

I don't understand women - at all

I too am experiencing the same thing dude!

Can't see a particular reason as to that kind of behavior. They may just be flaunting what they have and see what guys would comment on them! lol *didn't even make sense! *sigh*

flirting & attention is what women want

Girls are pretty much sluts.... all of them.

I second that. :2 cents:

Attention whores !! All of them !

I couldn't agree more. The ones that do it for any guy that asks online do it for the insecurity reasons.. their husbands don't show them enough attention, or when they do, they don't compliment them.... their dad's were a bad influence on them... and so on and so on. They feel unattractive since they had kids and their bodies aren't what they used to be....

It goes on and on and on.

AND... women are more mind and heart driven than men are. Women think and feel with their minds and hearts, where men think with their dicks. Sorry, that's just how it is. To get a guy turned on, you just need to show them naked women or whatever..... but to get a woman turned on, you have to do far more than JUST touch them.... you have to reach their minds and hearts and once you do this, they will pretty much do anything you want them to do..... INCLUDING getting naked. They do it to feel.... it isn't about the sex to them, they want to FEEL alive and sexy.. and the more insecure they FEEL, the further guys can get with them by getting into their hearts and minds.

create competition among females and everything else falls in line:2 cents:

All of them but my mom.

Women I have figured out pretty well, were I get all twisted is with gf's. It's like a switch flips once she's your girlfriend and everything you thought you knew doesn't play anymore. When I was single, I could have a girl figured out within a 20 minute convo, now, no matter what I do, it's wrong.

I don't get it.

Lol :1orglaugh:1orglaugh

Adult dating sites are pretty much the worst possible place to find them, with normal dating sites being a close second.

Those are places with more men than women, while you need places with more women than men. Just like picking up women in a bar rarely works, while picking up women in yoga class is like fishing with dynamite.

Just find a place like that, and be over-the-top flirtatious but funny - in the "haha" funny way, not in the "eew he's creepy" funny way. Mix in some self-deprecation with a sense of flamboyant grandeur, and you're pretty much set.

If you manage to make a woman laugh as well as feel attractive, you're golden. Just like in real life, actually.

I tend to agree with the insecurity thing, but I also think that some girls take "the power of the pussy" too far. I've known chicks who are hot and not at all insecure who will do pretty much whatever it takes to make every guy want them (even when they don't want the guy in return). As long as they have the power of the pussy and they believe every guy wants them, they feel like they have power and control.

Side note: I've known and worked with girls like this, but maybe I'm totally wrong about the insecurity thing... Maybe their constant show of self-confidence is just a way of overcompensating for their real hidden insecurities... Who knows?!