Just found out my best friends' boyfriend beats her....
 

Yep.. I just found out that my best friends' boyfriend has hit her multiple times during their 2 years together and I'm here trying to talk her into NOT going back to him because that what she wants to do. He preformed physical and mental abuse on her. Saying that no one will love her like he does and that no one will like her body, only him. He even made her throw away clothes thats too revealing! I don't know about other people but I LOVE my girl wearing sexy clothes so people can see the goods I have because I trust my girl and I know she is happy with me and she ain't going anywhere. Anyways, my friend is here with me and I wanted to show her what other people thought of this situation so I would appreciate it if you give us your 2 cents, Thanks...


BTW.. I think all men who hit women are a bunch of fucking pussies! :2 cents:

Ah man just turn off the computer for forget you made this thread. Few much care for abusers, and few care for those that keep returning time and time again. However you have posted this in a place where a crap load of keyboard warriors and out right hate mongers love to talk shit and post crazy pictures. You may as well wonder over to 4chan and post your phone number if history repeats itself here again with what is expected.

I don't like my bitch wearing too revealing of clothing when I am not around.

People like me are out there.

As far as the hitting, fuck that shit. Hitting or any kind of abuse is bad and will only get worse without therapy.

lol.. thats the reason why you dont have her.. girls like assholes man.

Girls love it when they get treated like shit by good looking guys. It's in their fucking DNA.

and the more he beats he the more she wants to be with him.... this happens all the time, there must be something seriosly wrong with some women

tell her to stub him in the eye while he sleeps

wrong board for her problem i think

Sounds to me like the slut deserved it

wearing revealing clothes ....... her best friend ( you) is a guy...... and he post their personal issues on a porn board to show her

yeah I'm almost positive she deserves any variation of the ike turner recipie for love she receives...

.... hell... You should smack that tramp yourself.... just for insulting your intelligece by even sharing the stories of her extensive MMA training with you





just kiddin... but she is a stupid cunt and I have zero sympathy for stupid cunts........ whores like that never like nice guys like me so fuck em

Sometimes you need to punch your gf around a bit if she doesnt swallow and stuff.

Just like you need a good beating yourself for being the racist fuck you are. It will happen sooner or later anyway. Id like to see you saying how superior your race is when youre knocked down on the floor.

How about me and you in a head up fight in atlanta?

no cops.... no bullshit

just us and a few people from the industry in a private room?

Fight last until one of us is either knocked or choked out?

For all the wise shit you have to say on GFY lets see if you can back any of it up......

Are you game or are you just a ugly shit talking pussy who will be getting his ass whooped in ATL either way.

I advise you to agree to the offer so at least people will be there to save you before any permanent damage sets in.

Unlike you im not an agressive idiot. Must be your superior race. *looks up prison stats* yup it's a race thing.

gave ya a chance vick.

What is it with black racist morons that they are also so fucking agressive. It must be some kind of brain damage thing. Cant think of anything else really. Maybe you can explain it?

By going back to him after it happened once gave him the ok to keep doing it basically. I don't know why women do this but they do it over and over again. Sometimes its like they enjoy the drama in their lives. And she goes running to you to confide in. Hmm, let me see...you wanted her but she wasn't into you but you thought if you were there as a friend for her she'd come around eventually. Typical story...and the world keeps on spinnin.

ever seen the episode of Rosanne when Jackie was being hit and how Dan dealt with it? Yes, I am sad I use tv sitcoms references to make points.

I'm sure you will understand everything I feel you need to know soon enough

lets see if you have the balls to wear your gay t shirt that says arrest black babies while in atlanta

realy dosent matter what you wear... everyone knows you face and meeting you will will be worth our drive alone


done talking to you fella.

I don't wish any harm on you and hope and pray no one injure you in any way

have a good day

You sound so superior man :1orglaugh

She probably deserves it. One time she will get tired of it and fuck some loser (like you) and then she will go back to him because she is hooked on him like crack. She will tell him, he will beat the dogshit out of her, and she will stay with him forever.

Seriously, how much pity can a moron in this situation expect? I only believe in beating my bitches if they hurt my pets or give me STDs lol.

I'd hit it?

I'd love to see you come to Nogales and talk this shit. What an amusing site that would be!

go fuck him up, and bang the chick...

He always dissapears when you confront him with racist shit.

No I havnt seen it, but I know the show... What happened?

Drive her to a battered womens shelter. Let her know that if she doesnt take the help, that you arent interested in it anymore. Sucks, but people who come to you with horrible problems then refuse to take your help are just spinning in circles asking you to watch, but never DO anything about it. Life is too short for that. Not only are there more suitable boyfriends out there in the world, there are also more suitable friends. Either way she's losing one, time to come to grips with reality for all three of you.

i saw a comedian do a skit about this . heres what she should do

Go to the grocery store , get a turkey neck , cover it in ketchup , stick in back of fridge.

Wait until boyrfriend is asleep then place turkey neck on his stomach. Make sure you are holding a long butchers knife, then punch him in the groin and start screaming to wake him up. ( scream , " i just couldnt take it anymore" ) , p.s. film it for youtube please

How revealing were her clothes ?? Pics ??? ;-)

wrong forum for this type of question ;-)

if you're serious about wanting to help your friend, probably a woman's shelter somewhere can give you some better advice on how to handle the situation. go call one.

My mother was beaten by my father several times until she finally woke up and realized that he would never change. Being thrown down a flight of stairs was enough to make her see that she had to get out while she could or end up dead.

Your friend needs to understand that her boyfriend will always beat her until he seeks professional help on his own. She deserves to be treated better no matter what anybody here or elsewhere says. Take AmatuerFlix's advice and have her seek professional help her.

:1orglaugh I can't even imagine the look on the guy's face when he sees that...

find a bat and smash him hard!

if it is your friend...your real friend


then you know what you need to do

go do it..so buddy gets the message and doesn't want to see her again

half the people on this board sound like they get off beating on women..so...wrong place for advice

Thats just cruel!

I fail to see how hitting and harming, an innocent little black nocturnal creature, could possibly help the situation...

You should be ashamed of yourself!

Bats are living creatures too you know !

http://www.rictus.com/viz/photos/sea...eping-bats.jpg

You just put me in mind of this LOL :)

I'm your only friend
I'm not your only friend
But I'm a little glowing friend
But really I'm not actually your friend
But I am

Blue canary in the outlet by the light switch
Who watches over you
Make a little birdhouse in your soul
Not to put too fine a point on it
Say I'm the only bee in your bonnet
Make a little birdhouse in your soul

I have a secret to tell
From my electrical well
It's a simple message and I'm leaving out the whistles and bells
So the room must listen to me
Filibuster vigilantly
My name is blue canary one note* spelled l-i-t-e
My story's infinite
Like the Longines Symphonette it doesn't rest

Blue canary in the outlet by the light switch
Who watches over you
Make a little birdhouse in your soul
Not to put too fine a point on it
Say I'm the only bee in your bonnet
Make a little birdhouse in your soul

I'm your only friend
I'm not your only friend
But I'm a little glowing friend
But really I'm not actually your friend
But I am

There's a picture opposite me
Of my primitive ancestry
Which stood on rocky shores and kept the beaches shipwreck free
Though I respect that a lot
I'd be fired if that were my job
After killing Jason off and countless screaming Argonauts
Bluebird of friendliness
Like guardian angels its always near

Blue canary in the outlet by the light switch
Who watches over you
Make a little birdhouse in your soul
Not to put too fine a point on it
Say I'm the only bee in your bonnet
Make a little birdhouse in your soul

(and while you're at it
Keep the nightlight on inside the
Birdhouse in your soul)

Not to put too fine a point on it
Say I'm the only bee in your bonnet
Make a little birdhouse in your soul

Blue canary in the outlet by the light switch (and while you're at it)
Who watches over you (keep the nightlight on inside the)
Make a little birdhouse in your soul (birdhouse in your soul)

Not to put too fine a point on it
Say I'm the only bee in your bonnet
Make a little birdhouse in your soul

Blue canary in the outlet by the light switch (and while you're at it)
Who watches over you (keep the nightlight on inside the)
Make a little birdhouse in your soul (birdhouse in your soul)

Not to put too fine a point on it
Say I'm the only bee in your bonnet
Make a little birdhouse in your soul

Agreed. I've had a couple incidents where me and a couple friends are ready to jump in a car and take care of what needs to be done. There is no excuse for it, but I've seen it time and time again. If you treat a girl like dirt, she sticks to you like mud, clear and simple. These pussies who think that they're big men by hitting their women need to have their asses beat. There is not a single valid reason why you should lay a hand on a girl, but no matter how many times you can tell your female friends that, 9 times out of ten they end up going back. It's sad and absolutely ridiculous, but I've seen it so many times that I know you can't make them not go back, they almost always do which is really sad. Just tell her to think 5-10 years down the road, where it's going to be. Guys aren't going to change, if the guy is a dirtbag now, he's not going to settle down, have kids and start being a good husband and dad, they're still going to be scum.

Fowl mouthed GFY'er


hehe

Particle man, particle man
Doing the things a particle can
Whats he like? its not important
Particle man

Is he a dot, or is he a speck?
When hes underwater does he get wet?
Or does the water get him instead?
Nobody knows, particle man

Triangle man, triangle man
Triangle man hates particle man
They have a fight, triangle wins
Triangle man

Universe man, universe man
Size of the entire universe man
Usually kind to smaller man
Universe man

Hes got a watch with a minute hand,
Millenium hand and an eon hand
When they meet its a happy land
Powerful man, universe man

Person man, person man
Hit on the head with a frying pan
Lives his life in a garbage can
Person man

Is he depressed or is he a mess?
Does he feel totally worthless?
Who came up with person man?
Degraded man, person man

Triangle man, triangle man
Triangle man hates person man
They have a fight, triangle wins
Triangle man

and I'll raise yah with :winkwink:

He was just a social drinker but social every night
He enjoyed a pint or two or three or four
She was just a silent thinker, silent every night
Hed enjoy the thought of killing her before

Well he was very rarely drunk but very rarely sober
And he didnt think the problem was his drink
But he only knew his problem when he knocked her over
And when the rotting flesh began to stink

Cry freedom for the woman in the wall
Cry freedom for she has no voice at all
I hear her cry all day, all night
I hear her voice from deep within the wall
Made a cross from knitting needles
Made a grave from hoover bags
Especially for the woman in the wall

Shed knitted him a jumper with dominoes on
So he wore it everyday in every week
Pretended to himself that she hadnt really gone
Pretended that he thought he beard her speak

Then at last it seemed that he was really winning
He felt that he had some sort of grip
But all of his new life was sent a-spinning
When the rotting wall began to drip

as for the suggestions to go beat the guy, just remember, it's possible your lady friend could be making all this shit up too for some reason and putting on a convincing act for you.

better off to divert the situation to professionals who will take an interest in it, than go assault someone & end up in the klink for it.

That's abuse? I thought that was standard in relationships today?

This girl won't listen to YOU telling her to leave.. No way in hell she is going to listen to us.

Also what is she doing with you at 6am? I'm sure her jealous,insecure boyfriend loves that :P

Stick it in her ass. That'll teach her.

wtf?? no one deserves to get hit! Tell her to get therapy! I was living with my ex back many years when I was 18 he got into steroids and hit me once. He left for work the next day and I had a Uhaul truck there in the morning! I thought that was good enough until when he figured out where I moved too he smashed out all of my windows in my car! So I had his ass beat so bad he has never hit me again. (also girls do like nice guys) just not ones that make relationships boring! Basically let her make all the decisions, and being there for every beck and call!

I'm glad you said this. Sometimes leaving isn't even enough and sometimes it really isn't possible to get away from the guy. Not everyone has the money or means to leave to Timbuktu or something to get away from a psycho loser partner. You happened to get a guy who smashed your car windows, but he easily could have hurt you physically or even killed you AFTER you had left him. So fuck anyone who thinks that women are to blame for not leaving. Often leaving only makes them get it worse and it is ultimately NOT a good or final answer. Abusers belong in jail.

Ah, Beautiful South. I have the CD kicking around at home. :thumbsup

I would like to get the guys side of the story first. I used to have a bitch like that who told everyone I hit her and shit so they would feel sorry for her. I didn't find out until after we broke up. Come to find out she was cheating on me with her best friend who was a guy. So if this chick is anything like my ex... fuck her. If her dude is beating her, make sure she didn't hit him first AND make sure she wasn't pushing buttons. I've never hit a girl but I've had plenty pushing my buttons trying to get me to react like that....fucking bitches! :321GFY

Was she being a slut ? sometime girls go off the reservation. they start to think its ok to fuck the postman, the neighbor , neighbors wife . Go back and get more of story and repost :)

I haaate hearing about girls that cry about this kind of shit.

If she didn't like it she would have left him. I guess she likes him, he hits her but she will have to deal with it if she wants to stay with him.

Why do you feel that you're supposed to be a hero for her? Is she not a person herself who can say fuck this and take off? Yeah she is, but that's not what she's doing because she likes it, and she complains to you because she likes the attention she gets from you telling you it.

If she didn't like it she would leave the guy. Just remember that when you're trying to be Mr. Hero, that all you really are is Mr. Wasting His Time because you'd be way better off spending your time volunteering at a food bank. (But oh wait, food banks don't have pussies so it's ok to not help out there)

See this is a real woman, she doesn't like it so she leaves.

It's not a very complicated idea, you don't like it, you leave. Any girl that cries about it then goes back to the guy that's doing it needs to learn to deal with her beatings and stop wasting other people's time.

you are not showing up in ATL. stop the bullshit. enough already. besides, it would take 2 minutes for your fat ass to be completely gassed out.

"treat em ruff you get the muff" - Ali G