chicks are only after money
 

and guys are only looking for good looking women. this has been the topic for the past few days, wanted to point out an important flip side to that

qualities that are attractive in a girl are good looks, youth, personality and probably some other things i cant think of right now.

qualities that are attractive in a guy are stability, power, looks (for younger girls), loyalty, etc

but the reality is that once a girl leaves her early/mid 20s, their leverage goes down. and guys do have a chance to add value to themselves by being good bread earners

so i guess my point is that if a chick is after money, guys are no better by going after young hot girls

reality hits when a) your a guy with no cash, or b) your a hot girl who has lost her luster

You gotta love when we try the almost impossible task to oversimplify women...

A lot of the women that work in adult are past their mid-twenties and they have not lost their luster. Where do you come up with this crap at? It is not your age, it is how you take care of yourself. I see plenty of models in their 30's that are way hotter then the models that are 18-25. Youth does not make anyone more good looking.

This is VERY flawed.

But nice attempt at generalizing.

Yes, true to most but don't generalize! Not all chicks are after the money, they can also be after a good lover (in bed) lol :upsidedow

Well he is right.

The fact is a woman does not want to be with a man that is not earning a decent pay check.

But that is because not earning a decent pay check can be tracked back to a whole lot of other issues a woman does not find desirable in a man...

But a lot maybe most woman still want to be "IN LOVE" with the person they are with.

I find once a woman gets older an they are married being married can become a safety thing...

Older women I know don't earn a paycheck and if they weren't married they couldn't support themselves they would be screwed..

So they stay married just for the financial support..

But now woman are out working making their own paycheck and more than most men!

so yah.. don't generalize :)

m this is a jaded post!

i am in my early thirties and i am starting to date a guy who is 7 years my junior. he actually thought i was his same age. i have by no means lost my looks because i am 31. no loss in lustre here.

you sound as if you are affected in a bad way.
what about genuine, heart fulfilling all consuming love? why does everything have to involve money and looks? that is all exterior and shallow qualities.

why do you have such a negative perception of women?

I dunno what its like in your country but here in the UK, you'd have to include "Sense of humour" cos over here a lot of girls really go for a guy that can make them laugh, in many ways more than money or looks.

Yep girls expire around 30 while men with money can date any hot girl even if the guy is 50.

yea, but id bet your unique, im generalizing. love would be nice, and love is certainly not shallow

thats utter bs. i know plenty of guys who are broke as fuck that pull more tail than rich guys i know.

more bs. if a girl is attracted to you she will laugh at any retarded shit you say.

i have broke ass bum friends who have roped in good looking professional woman.

study reality. not cultural cliches.

She devils every one of them."shakes fist in air"

Spoken by someone trying to defend older women because they fit the category?

Fact is a woman that is younger doesn't have to try nearly as hard to look good as someone who is older. Want facts, compare a daughter to her mother. Invariably the daughter nearly always looks better then her mother and the mother a tired version of her daughter. I don't make the rules, but I can certainly observe them. Time is the enemy of women, power/prestige is the struggle of men.

well said, i dont particularly like it myself. but it is what it is, wish it was different

Of course they're only after money...otherwise they would have to get jobs.

If I was a hot chick I'd be standing on the corner with my pants down holding my bucket of money.

That's what ugly guys use an excuse as why they can't pull chicks, they use the excuse that they don't have money whereas even if they HAD money they STILL wouldn't pull that many chicks.

It depends on how good looking a guy is and how charismatic/charming and game he has. I know lot of guys without that much money that have A LOT of game and women are attacking them and basically raping them. I also know guys with more money who can't pull chicks and who are so desperate they have to show off their cars and money to overcompensate and they still cant pull jack shit. Very pathetic. Some guys just have natural sex appeal, it can't be bought, they just have "it", "it" is the x-factor, its an indescribable quality that pulls in chicks and its a quality that cant be bought. They are just naturally good looking and charming and funny and get anything and anyone they want.

Also, a lot of average or ugly guys with a lot of money are bitter because they have all this money and cant get girls so they cannot imagine in their wildest fantasies that broke guys who are good looking and charismatic and get girls with $0, but it's true. Just because YOU cant do it doesn't mean that someone else can't (and when I say YOU I don't mean YOU personally, just in general).

It's like someone who can't make money selling porn online so they become bitter and think that there is no way to make money selling porn, but truth is that plenty of people are making loads of money. That person just sucks!

Same with guys, some guys think that just because THEY cant get girls without a lot of money that no one else can either, but the truth is that there are guys out there who are MUCH better looking than you, have MUCH more sex appeal than you will ever have, can TALK better you, are more charming than you, and can get girls with $0 while you will lose out even with all your money. Sad but true.

And whats your point?

i dont have one. im in a bad mood so i like to make others feel shitty too :1orglaugh

that i would love to rub on your tits.... :thumbsup

Spoken by someone that is not an idiot. I am smart enough to know how old a lot of these models really are. Most are not as young as they post and you guys drool over them all the time on here. Then you agree that age is a factor. Pretty damn funny. I have seen a shitload of mothers that look way better then their daughters. You don't make the rules, you just have no clue about them. FYI late 20's to late 30's are not older women. If you think that is old then you better not look at a lot of adult websites. :thumbsup

Women are only after money?

Welcome to 100 years ago.

you almost got it right. What women like in men is:
-balls
-money
-looks


in that order

I agree that younger women have more choices in men however, I think that older women who take care of themselves are hotter than many young girls. Yes they have to try harder. And a lot of guys prefer older women nowadays. Not all though. I'm just saying, I don't think it's quite as cut and dry as you put it.

As for older men, the age thing DOES affect them more than you think. A lot of women prefer younger guys nowadays because men are becoming successful young as well and have the money to go with the looks. Older guys can still get a young woman, especially if he has money at his disposal, but a lot of young women I know wouldn't fuck an old man. Plain and simple. So the young women who only marry an older man for their money only have character problems. Not the type of person that I personally would consider a trophy.

But yes it's true, getting guys is way easier on a girl under 25. At that age they are cuter, of course, and they are niave. And also they don't have all the baggage yet usually like kids, divorces, and etc as older women do. I will admit to that.

It's simple.

Women are crazy & Men are stupid.

women are from a different planet than men simple

wtf are we talking about here, porn? I'm confused, I thought we were talking about which people were hot. You are the one defining age perameters, not me. I said only that age and time are the enemy of women, period. Your time will come too. For every one woman that has a ugly daughter with a hot mother, I see thousands that are the reverse. One day, you'll have to deal with it, just like every old woman that has to work harder every year to out-compete her younger rival with plastic surgery and make-up. Mmmmm natural 18 year olds.

I'm no idiot, I get that some girls ruin their youth by not keeping themselves, but compare one person to herself, kept then unkept, young versus old (always in the same category) and the younger woman always wins.

Not true, they like excitement and big dick too.

they are all whores ;)

all girls should learn to swallow my load

HAHAHA i knew this girl in college that was smoking hot and every guy used to try and get on her. now, almost 8 years later no one wants her junk cause she is 30

:1orglaugh:1orglaugh SUCKER!

just felt i needed to add that

Women are depreciating assets. Most women are bad deals but... most men are financially uneducated.

http://dealbreaker.com/2007/10/that_...he_one_pos.php

Oh Jane, I'm pretty sure someone takes a shotgun to their own head every time you post...

Women want money - men want pussy

Break into small groups and discuss the obvious :)

it must be like having a lot of money, then losing it. you get accustomed to being the girl that gets hit on 100 times a day, then it slowely tapers away, or the quality of the suiters diminishes. im sure it has to hit like a brick and be tragic towards your self-esteem.

i loved and dated a girl for a long time, then we broke up. its a particularly sensitive subject for me because i felt like i "used her up" during her prime courting/child bearing years. i dont think that guilt is ever going to leave me.

i dont think you can do anything but generalize here

Oh fucking please!!!!!!!!! The last three years, every guy I have dated made less than me and I paid for EVERYTHING. Dinners, their clothes, gave one guy a computer. It goes both ways honey!

Also, not all ladies lose their appeal in their twenties. I got a better body in my thirties than I ever had when I was younger. (This last year especially---- finally got off my ass and back to the gym). Not to mention, sex is amazingly BETTER at my age. You couldn't pay me to be 25 again, I wouldn't want it.

yes, this is absolutely 100% a jaded post

im sure thats true, but that doesnt mean that everything else equal, a girl would prefer a wealthy guy over a more 'humble' one. i always wondered why i couldnt easily get hot girls when i was in my early 20s, now that im in my 30s, i figured out what was going on

we met in fl a few years ago, you are gorgeous and those eyes are amazing and i think you would agree that you are definitely in the minority


just got back from the vegas xbiz show and catching up on this thread

Jesus, I just blushed for the first time in years. lol Thank you Darling!

Being 36 yrs old rocks! and I sure as hell am not saying that because I can't turn back the time. I may change my mind at 46, but thats a ways off. lol

they only care about $$

that's true

http://i194.photobucket.com/albums/z.../midgitsex.png

Halimah have 3 words for the old womens here in denial:

1. burka
2. botox
3. bankroll

she didn't get used up. you are looking at it the wrong way. to think you "used her up" is an ego trip! its sad that you think that a woman only has her looks to offer and when she starts to age she doesn't have anything left, that she is no longer releavant and viable. that is such crap! maybe you think of that way because of this industry. but a woman has so much to offer other than her beauty.

maybe the only thing you should feel bad about is spending nearly 15,000 on your hair and not on her. that your vanity means more to you than the happiness of someone you claimed to love.

and i am sure she is still just as lovely and as worthwhile as she ever was. she can still have kids. and i bet she doesn't have regrets for having spent those years with you. you shouldn't taint something that was meaningful with regret.

I'm legally blind. I still want a woman that looks good to me, but they can get away with a lot more.. i can't see wrinkles or scars, for instance.

okay. but you still are seeking for something that is meaningful and genuine, aren't you? love is what saves us.

Then please pull the trigger. Most of you are idiots when you post on here. :2 cents: