I'm bilancing: Who's these days ideal man?
 

I'm a bit old fashioned sometimes so I am trying to catch up with the past 40 / 50 years to figure out if it's even worthy..

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Who are the idols now?

I don't want to see any Beckham pics with bare ass and silly tatoos from an advert worth a million, I want to see someone personable, to see who are the women of 2008.

Hmmm are you talking iconic in looks, attitude, personality or everything?

brad pitt? the good looking family father that can be a super nerd or action hero?

Yea, really need more specifics...
looks is one thing, but the total package is another.

This is a time where you should reinvent yourself. Just go to askmen.com

Dunno you can post whoever you want and add whatever remarks to it..

Na, us GfYer girls, don't go for these types of men :pimp

That's a hard one though. I kinda like Eric Bana... just a thing :winkwink:
I liked the movie Troy just because of him, he he

few things to avoid so you dont look like a total hardon dingbag at least in nyc, the hot girls in nyc prefer manly men, you do see the metro guys in pics with hot girls but they dont get laid, girls just feel safe with this girly boys, I cannot talk for other states I have no clue

dont wear no ed hardon shirts or any stupid skull shirt

dont wear cinder block shoes regardless who the designer is

no skinny or tight fitted jeans

if your gonna get ink spend the cash and get quality, if you have ink that looks like shit cover it up, if you a little guy with some stupid hard ass tatoo you look like a total idiot, few guys can pull off lots of ink you are most likley not one of them

leave your eye brows alone

oversized button down untucked shirt = dick head

if your gonna have diamonds in a watch or whatever make sure its real and quality

leather bracelets and chains are for those who haven't decided if they want to proceed with a sex change operation or not

They're just playing Frankie Goes to Hollywood on VH1 classics and those guys look ten times more straight than anything you just described.

If to talk about looks - then for me it would be Mathias Lauridsen :)

http://www.piercemattie.com/fashionp...0lauridsen.jpg

I believe he's actually a very good actor.

As someone said - Edward Norton will always be regarded as a better actor just because he's not chased to appear on every other magazine cover.

I would let Justin Timberlake put it in my butt!!!

I love Chris Meloni, for some reason.

http://i152.photobucket.com/albums/s...pherMeloni.jpg

This guy could turn Casanova around!

This one is one of those depending on the case. Unibrows or catapillar brows are a nono in my opinion.

obviously im talking about waxing them or whatever

I like Edward Norton. He's actually been to my house to visit an actor friend that was staying with me for a while. Super cool guy, talented, smart, nice, and not too hard on the eye!

Leslie

I think I stepped into the wrong thread..time to go take a shower.

Are the genders getting closer to the opposite these days?

Men getting more feminine and women getting more masculine?

That's the feeling I have since men are waxing their eyebrows and shaving their ass and many women are living a wild single life refusing the house keeper role?

There's nothing I appreciate more than a straight forward answer!

i'm not black but will go for will smith looks... pretty cool guy... and the style... he's fly...

I totally agree - this is such a bad look on any guy and should be avoided at ALL costs!

Another No No is when guys wear their trousers half way down their legs so their ass is out for all to see. This is kinda stupid! Don't they worry their trousers are going to fall down as they're walking down they street?! I'm sure they think they're the bees-knees but not only do I find it highly amusing every time they have to yank their trousers up (which is quite a lot), I'm embarrassed for them!

Whats up with all the bi-curious questions lately? :1orglaugh

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Gotta go for a guy that makes you laugh your ass off, like Ben Stiller

http://www.tvgasm.com/newsgasm/ben-stiller--seliger.jpg

LOL

nope, not planning to swing both ways

I just find a bit disturbing what I see regularly on the streets or in media.

You may accuse of trying to preach pseudomachist theories and you may be right, but the mere amount of douchebaggin out there made me want to hear feedback.

Well he sure is one of the greatest actors of the generation that is say below 50.

The point I was trying to make is that Pitt, if we would talk about real film roles (ex. California, Seven, 12 monkeys..), is a very decent actor, but obviously suffering from the Robert Redford syndroma as there will always be ten times more people remembering his face over anything he is able to show on the silver screen.

nice ^

but what are cinder block shoes?

I like a guy who doesn't follow trends and is comfortable in his own skin. What I find the most attractive is a guy who has a quiet charisma, and is not self centered. If you are wanting to be an "ideal guy" for the masses, then its what you can do for others rather than looks.

If I were to pick a celebrity who manifests this, the closest I can think of is Brad Pitt, and the fact that he's hot helps too.

I go with George Clooney

http://www.negotiationlawblog.com/george_clooney_1.jpg

He is a Man's Man, he loves animals, he is sexy, he is funny and he has a villa in Italy. I could easily do him for the rest of my life!

I met him once in a resturant he was soooooo charming, sweet and approachable.

xoxo,
Megan

Please give me some pics Carlos and I'll post it here. :) You're my ideal man. lol!

Words of wisdom from one of my all time favourites

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I hear this goats dude is pretty popular among the ladies. If only I could find a pick of him to post here...

I appreciate the compliment, coming from natural beauty.. thank you.

Though I don't think it would be exactly right to post any pics of mine to make this thread even more bi-curious than it was labeled already. :winkwink: