Question for the women of GFY
 

I have a freind thats been talking to me about getting curcimized ... his health is fine and his only reason for doing it is for estectics he says he's always felt like a freak in the locker room ... To Cut or not to Cut that is the question.

My answers to him were pretty much the same I give to my models that want to inhance they're breast .. do it only for yourself and for your health ... it's a painful procedure, And one that should not be taken lightly .. Don't do it because your partenr will find you sexier .. a good relation is based on trust and mutal respect .. the sexiness of the relationship flourishes only when these two impartant factors are met ... in my humble opinion a relationship based solely on looks wont ever last .. I know as I have been in too many of these and am just now starting to see the other side of the coin .. I'm presently in my first mature relationship .. at age 40 I'm with a girl only 5 years my younger and I must admit it feels fuckin awesome to be with some that is more intersted in me then my looks ... ditto for her too ...


i've directed him to this thread as he is not in the industry. I hope that the girls heree will be able to give him a better insight ..

Discuss

I am circumsized

it is mutilation and i have always been told i have a nice cock and i am not circumcised.

Thanksyou to Juicy and Metamens, two womans of gfy who give opinions for this man.

Halimah say leave turtle in his shell, he will stick neck out when the time is right.

It really doesn't make a difference to me but, if he'll feel better about himself then I say CUT it!

my cocks so big women take a look at it and ask what brand exhaust pipe it is.

you cock is smelly and full of fungus!!

sounds like a loser if he's gone all this time and is now wanting to make the change, tell him to make more money and it won't be an issue

my cock is beautifu

why does everyone who is circumcised think you have shit under your foreskin?

that foreskin peels back and you wash it, i have never even had smegma i wash my cock everyday.

just think you didnt know this and you lost all those sensory nerves on your cock for nothing.

YOU = OWNED

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it's my personal feelings that money doesn't play a big role in sex .. and that once into the action and his cock is rock hard it will look the same as a cut one .. so my advise to him is no .. save your money for a peck implant .. LOL

very valid point

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Circumsicion removes almost 60% of the nerve endings from the penis. Unless for medical reasons, I don't see why ANYONE would want to do it to themselves. Perhaps it's like a boob job for women as far as aesthetics (or some are concerned) but it's really not neccessasry. As long as it's kept clean it's all good :)

you are right on the money my friend. if the person that you are dating or considering a relationship with doesn't accept you for exactly who you are..........they are the wrong person for you. being "cut" or not is not going to affect his sex life in any way, the direction his relationship goes, his appeal to the women that love being in his presence or anything else for that matter. if it is something that he obsesses over and can't be happy with himself about, that is the only reason he should change his physical appearance.

and congrats to you on your new lady sweetpea. she is all that and a bag of chips! beautiful, smart and worships the ground you walk on. what more could a guy ask for? except for great sex and she is giving you that :winkwink:

niggaaaaa pleaseeeeeeeeee you got 20 + years of microscopic smegma on your glans

i am so happy being circumsised I am going back for a second trim!!!!!!!!!!!

meta man cock is a smegma filled virus den!@!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Love ya hun !

BTW I'm a man of the cloth . so it's pretty obvious it's not about me :1orglaugh

nigga, jews were from the desert and they made it part of the religion to keep peoples cocks clean.

now with this new age thing called soap there is no need for it. is it mutilation pure and simple.

anyones parents who still practice this should be put in jail.

you are braggin about having less sensitivity in your cock it is hilarious because you believe you are right. :P

I had my son circumcised out of ignorance. I had never dated an uncircumcised guy and believed all the hype about uncleanliness and it being less attractive, blahblahblah. I had my first uncircumcised boyfriend last year and now I feel horribly guilty about having my son circumcised. There was NO negative difference between a circumcised and uncircumcised penis. And, in fact, there were a couple of positives. My son was only a baby when his was done and was still in a lot of pain for about a week afterward. I wish I could take it back. :(

get the doctor to remove part of your clit to keep it even then.

MUTILATION, people should be thrown in jail for it.

Never been a problem having my fore skin intact. No ladies ever ran away from it, so tell him not to worry. Stop being a puss.

Kinda a harsh reply to Nikkay's post don't you think ?

If he thinks he is is going to feel better about himself, do it.
But at that age? OMG. I wouldn't even consider it
Yeah, it must be painful. Is he in a relationship right now?
If he is and she likes his cock that way ( hopefully) I wouldn't touch it.

The only thing is that, to be honest, yeah, I think that a circumcised cock looks better and is more fun to play with, but that's just me. I would never chose a partner according to that factor though. It is just a + for me when it is...Well, I just play with it more often :1orglaugh

how is it harsh? in 2008 people are chopping off the tip of their kids penis for what reason? ignorance? excuse me but especially if you work on the internet all the information in the world is 1 click away.

your kid has the majority of his sensory nerves chopped off for life and people cannot take the time to investigate it for maybe 1 day and i am supposed to feel sorry for them?

Vid, you are absolutely right.... any alterations you make to your body should be done for yourself only and not to please whomever you are with (even if they are a long time partner). It is your body and you are the only one living in it. I personally have no problem with someone who is "uncut". You were born that way and there is nothing to be ashamed of :2 cents:

Where is Franck

getting circumsises

lmao. if the equipment works as is, why change it? :2 cents:

Something to consider for your friend before piling the banana permanently, is that the little head is currently super sensitive... and when it's naked permanently, he can expect to get a hard on every time he gets up and start walking...:warning

How old is your friend? He may be suffering from a lack of confidence if he's comparing himself to other guys. If he's in his twenties, tell him to wait until he's 35 before making that decision. In the meantime, tell him to keep that little guy clean and work on his personality, maybe learn something to make him more interesting like gourmet cooking. That will be WAY more impressive and pleasing to a girl than foreskin vs no foreskin.

I had the same issue, being in my 20's in the late 80's when EVERYONE seemed like they were getting breast implants. I realized my self esteem at that point needed more working on than my boobs and promised myself to wait til I was 40 to make that decision. Now at 42 I'm still 100% naturally flat. LOL. But comfortable in my own skin.:)

And Congrats Vid baby, you deserve to be happy and I am glad you found someone who cares about you as much as you do for her.

Actually, I did a lot of internet-based research before getting it done and ended up going with doing it based on everything I read. It took PERSONAL experience to show me there wasn't this huge world of difference the internet led me to believe. Go figure.

Oh! I've heard this before... that people who get circumcised late in life have a tough time adjusting to the constant abrasion from clothing. I must say, my one experience with an uncut penis did give me the impression it was MUCH more sensitive than the cut versions. :thumbsup

im glad for all the replies! really interesting!

I have had a few "natural" wieners over the years and I have to say that if a guy keeps himself clean and knows how to use it, I have no issues with whether he is cut or uncut.

I agree with some of the other comments that if he does decide to do it, it needs to be for him and not some chick.

so the fact of the matter is MetaMan has smegma on hic cock

Many women are intrigued by the unclipped ones...it's somewhat exotic, since most are clipped.

I couldn't agree more with what Jenni D. said here... give it time, think it over for a while. I don't think this one can be reversed.

Congrats on the stable relationship Vid, hope to see you in Vegas.

From what I have heard, sex is way better for uncircumcised men.

I hadn't had an uncut one till I was in my thirties. I used to think they looked like those water weinies. Remember those as a kid? hehe...

But if I had a choice between one or the other, I'd choose UNCUT. They are super sensitive and it's fun to watch your guy totally squirming with extasy with every little thing. Oral if way fun too when they're uncut. Alot more you can do ;) The sensitivity of going that long with the end protected like that really does make a difference. Something to consider, like Benoit said, the friction on their clothing will be excruciating after years of being in their turtle shell.

They look aboslutely no different when they're erect anyway. I think it even allows for a bit of extra length, I could be wrong. Maybe I was just lucky.

Omg I'm sure that was too much info.... but you asked.

Only in America are most people clipped... He should go visit some spa's in other Countries. In the rest of the world, the mass majority just have it how god left it hanging.

Since your friend think men in locker rooms are normally up to checking his cock out, otherwise why would it make a shit? The next time it happens he should be quick to ask ask if it sucks that someone chopped your dick off without asking?

quoted for truth!

one also must think about all the chaffing than goes on with no 'scarf'

you are fucking amazing.

i know women like you who just like so sit there and try to drive you nuts because they know it is so sensitive. i am the same way with licking ass LOLzzzzzzz ahhhhh ooooooo ahhhhhhh oooooooooooooooo

i've sent him this thread and it was so very helpful .. the information here is, at the very least is informative and gives him reason to stop and think ... It's unfortunite that some people can't just talk about things like this .. time like this I'm proud to be a pornographer and have access to friends that are willing to discuss sexuality in an open forum.

BTW this "friend" was actually a Fan email .. I get emails all the time form people confused about sex. i guess they feel that someone like me would be able to answer they're questions as honestly as I can without making them feel all wierd for asking

thanks to everyone that participated. I knew I could count on the women of GFY to give us honest answers ...

Thanks again ladies

vicious

your so awesome Hun !!! .. BTW when are you planing on wearing those pvc pants again .. vaaa vooom

great answer red .. I've often wondered about that .. being cut .. I like it rough, like my skin is being ripped off .. I'also like watching tv while my gf plays with my dick . never thougt about how much better it would be if it had been covered all those years .. I guess i would be way more sensitve .. DAmn my parents!!! How dare they cut my sexual arousal by 30% !!!!!!!
Now I see where your coming from Metaman

I don't think it makes much difference. I know some people have preferences, but I honestly think it is one of those things where the wrong people care about it to do anything about it. Like a lot of chicks worry if they have a big curvy ass. Not very many guys who like to fuck girls will whine about having what to hold onto. Circumsized dick is the same thing. For a guy who likes to fuck chicks, most chicks just really won't care. Kinda the same erect or in a condom. Slightly different oral technique maybe, but that is really no big deal. Then again, I went to high school in the Middle East and in Europe, so I probably have a skewed view, although an equally skewed one from either preference.