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polish_aristocrat 02-27-2009 10:49 AM

How many of you are bored with this webmaster lifestyle?
 
raises hand. :2 cents:

obviously I mean those self employed, working from their own house, and not the content shooters etc..

I think doing this thing has MANY benefits but it CAN get boring after a while as well.... and make you feel burned out.
Personally, I feel I need a new challenge in life. Anyone feels the same, at least sometimes?

discuss :thumbsup

Sly 02-27-2009 10:54 AM

It definitely gets boring. It really helps to start up new projects and ideas... although that also pulls away from your focus which can lead to less money. It's a Catch-22, need to find balance.

chupachups 02-27-2009 10:54 AM

Mostly I love it but right now I am a bit fed up. Happens a few days every month.

CDSmith 02-27-2009 11:05 AM

10 years running now, don't recall being bored very often. Then again I prefer the quiet and not having to work for someone else under a supervisor who is invariably a moron and a pack of mostly idiots for coworkers. Okay I did enjoy some of the many jobs I had over the years but I wouldn't say I miss it exactly.

You just have to break up the monotony yourself. Last year I retookup mountain biking and long walks, this year I shaved off my hair and grew a goatee. It's all about variety man. Variety. :D

BlackCrayon 02-27-2009 11:09 AM

Boring compared to say a rock star or something like that but in comparison to say office jobs or factory jobs, I'd say its much more interesting. I recommend to switch things up now and again and not to keep doing the same old thing day in and day out. Try your hand at different income streams, maybe learn a new programming language. There is tons of different shit to do in the online world.

fuzebox 02-27-2009 11:10 AM

I love my lifestyle :thumbsup

Then again it's nicely split between work, activities I enjoy, relaxing, hanging out with friends, travelling, etc.

UFGators2007 02-27-2009 11:12 AM

Of course you get bored once and a while, but then you think about all the people out there busting their ass for a less than half what the average wm makes...and the boredom slips away.:thumbsup

NicelyWritten 02-27-2009 11:12 AM

I work a full time regular job and I blog part-time at the moment. I find that balance between working for someone else and working for yourself helps keep things in perspective. When I'm working at my job, I'm reminded how nice it is to work for myself.

candyflip 02-27-2009 11:13 AM

I was bored with this and opened a deli. It was much more work for even less return.

Securing office space outside of the house was the best thing I ever did, and that's where I'm at now.

seeric 02-27-2009 11:14 AM

This is my 11th year. It goes in burnout waves. When you get burned out, you gotta shake it up a bit. Do something to shake the cobwebs out. Maybe drastic.

Barefootsies 02-27-2009 11:16 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sly (Post 15558845)
It definitely gets boring. It really helps to start up new projects and ideas... although that also pulls away from your focus which can lead to less money. It's a Catch-22, need to find balance.

Exactly right.

I am a creative person, so I always am thinking and working up new ideas on my white board. I am not a 'maintanence' type of guy. I like building something new, and seeing it take off, and once the money starts rolling in I tend to lose interest and want to do something else.

A lot ideas are abandoned. Not because they are not good, but because they are not cost effective. There are only so many hours in a day. In the Michigan winter, I do not mind working more. But in the warmer months... I would rather be out on the SeaDoo or playing basketball, golfing, whatever.

The point being, I like working 8 hour day max. in warmer months.

If I was never working on new projects, or ideas. I would be very very bored, and would not enjoy my work so much. So I can see where you are coming from.

MetaMan 02-27-2009 11:19 AM

It is boring now because it is winter, all i know is when summer hits and it is +30C out and everyone is stuck in their office and i am sitting on a patio having a drink or shooting some hoops it sure all comes into perspective.

it def does get boring though once and a while. will i ever leave the webmaster life? no i will not. it is apart of my life and goals now.

maybe you need a re location i know that has more to do with my boredom then the job itself. imagine living beachfront sitting on your laptop sitting on margaritas. thats what im talking about.

Sly 02-27-2009 11:20 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Barefootsies (Post 15558946)
Exactly right.

I am a creative person, so I always am thinking and working up new ideas on my white board. I am not a 'maintanence' type of guy. I like building something new, and seeing it take off, and once the money starts rolling in I tend to lose interest and want to do something else.

A lot ideas are abandoned. Not because they are not good, but because they are not cost effective. There are only so many hours in a day. In the Michigan winter, I do not mind working more. But in the warmer months... I would rather be out on the SeaDoo or playing basketball, golfing, whatever.

The point being, I like working 8 hour day max. in warmer months.

If I was never working on new projects, or ideas. I would be very very bored, and would not enjoy my work so much. So I can see where you are coming from.

LOL I have the same problem.

BVF 02-27-2009 11:20 AM

If you're bored, go to the gym every morning and work out...Then you'll be nice and tired and you can relax for the rest of the day...I go five days a week...the only reason I didn't go today (Friday) is because I went twice on Thursday doing running in the morning and yoga in the evening.

Lamis 02-27-2009 11:34 AM

I am very very bored of this job, plus the biz is not so profitable as it was in 2002...

it's 10,000 times easier to make money on mainstream..

u can make 5k per month in mainstream, by working 2 hours per day..

while in adult, 95% in this forum make less than 5k per month, and work 12 hours per day...

Lamis 02-27-2009 11:37 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by candyflip (Post 15558924)
I was bored with this and opened a deli. It was much more work for even less return.

Securing office space outside of the house was the best thing I ever did, and that's where I'm at now.


how are you doing with FOREX??????????????

Dailydiapers 02-27-2009 11:42 AM

Do other stuff :)

I photograph MMA, other sporting and concert events to get out of the house.

cherrylula 02-27-2009 12:25 PM

There is nothing boring about freedom.

absolutely nothing.

don't confuse depression with boredom. :2 cents:

polish_aristocrat 02-27-2009 12:38 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sly (Post 15558845)
It definitely gets boring. It really helps to start up new projects and ideas... although that also pulls away from your focus which can lead to less money. It's a Catch-22, need to find balance.

new projects, but it's still the same biz, the same internet boring stuff, the same sitting in your house and waking up at 1pm if you want but it only fucks up your life

Quote:

Originally Posted by CDSmith (Post 15558881)
10 years running now, don't recall being bored very often. Then again I prefer the quiet and not having to work for someone else under a supervisor who is invariably a moron and a pack of mostly idiots for coworkers. Okay I did enjoy some of the many jobs I had over the years but I wouldn't say I miss it exactly.

not everyone likes the quiet all the time.. but yeah, i agree, working for an idiot boss would be a nightmare.... also, I can't imagine getting up at 6-7 am and putting on a suit and driving 1 hour in traffic to an office.... NEVER EVER!

Quote:

Originally Posted by NicelyWritten (Post 15558915)
I work a full time regular job and I blog part-time at the moment. I find that balance between working for someone else and working for yourself helps keep things in perspective. When I'm working at my job, I'm reminded how nice it is to work for myself.

good post. We want what we don't have.

Quote:

Originally Posted by candyflip (Post 15558924)
I was bored with this and opened a deli. It was much more work for even less return.

Securing office space outside of the house was the best thing I ever did, and that's where I'm at now.

doesn't make sense to rent an office and pay for it, if you can work from your own place for free.. Ah yeah, I forgot, everyone is a playa, saving money is never important.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Barefootsies (Post 15558946)
Exactly right.

I am a creative person, so I always am thinking and working up new ideas on my white board. I am not a 'maintanence' type of guy. .

hardly new ideas here. Lots of stuff which is maintanence or even auto-pilot. I'll try to do more completely autopilot stuff and forget about the maintance-required stuff and disappear and do something else I think.

Quote:

Originally Posted by MetaMan (Post 15558963)
It is boring now because it is winter, all i know is when summer hits and it is +30C out and everyone is stuck in their office and i am sitting on a patio having a drink or shooting some hoops it sure all comes into perspective.

yeah, but it's not how the average webmaster lives...

Quote:

Originally Posted by cherrylula (Post 15559310)
There is nothing boring about freedom.

absolutely nothing.

don't confuse depression with boredom. :2 cents:

don't pretend you know me so well please. :)

MetaMan 02-27-2009 12:39 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by cherrylula (Post 15559310)
There is nothing boring about freedom.

absolutely nothing.

don't confuse depression with boredom. :2 cents:

SHUT THE FUCK UP! :warning

Angry Jew Cat - Banned for Life 02-27-2009 12:47 PM

If you think I'll ever grow tired of getting baked and doing whatever i feel like every day, you are sadly mistaken...

PornHero 02-27-2009 12:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CDSmith (Post 15558881)
10 years running now, don't recall being bored very often. Then again I prefer the quiet and not having to work for someone else under a supervisor who is invariably a moron and a pack of mostly idiots for coworkers. Okay I did enjoy some of the many jobs I had over the years but I wouldn't say I miss it exactly.
:D

:2 cents: lol, I was going to make the exact same post :thumbsup I love the FREEDOM to do whatever I want every morning when I wake up, I'll never get bored of that.

nolongerexists 02-27-2009 12:51 PM

my friend did pretty good in adult during last years... he finished his studies tho and applied for a normal 9-5 job. Three months later after first 'oh-ah, how fuckin nice it is' he says it's fucking nightmare.

the day he told me that i started to appreciate what and how i do ;-)

nico-t 02-27-2009 02:38 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by candyflip (Post 15558924)
Securing office space outside of the house was the best thing I ever did, and that's where I'm at now.

^^^ thnking about doing that

anyway, the last year ive been very bored and it got really bad the last several months, almost hating it, along with just being extremely depressed.
Ive seen the light a few days ago, i noticed i stood still in life.
In terms of doing this work is that i only did whats absolutely necessary every day (1-2 hours) and do nothing the rest of the day. I didnt get any step further. So yesterday i worked nearly 12 hours total, gonna see how this works out. Today ive got the same state of mind although some friends with a day off visited me for a while, other than that ive kept working all day and its a satisfying feeling.. im gonna keep this up.

nolongerexists 02-27-2009 02:50 PM

Quote:

In terms of doing this work is that i only did whats absolutely necessary every day (1-2 hours) and do nothing the rest of the day. I didnt get any step further.
where do i know that from... ;-)

kmanrox 02-27-2009 02:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by NicelyWritten (Post 15558915)
I work a full time regular job and I blog part-time at the moment. I find that balance between working for someone else and working for yourself helps keep things in perspective. When I'm working at my job, I'm reminded how nice it is to work for myself.

hey shitforbrains, i told you to go away... you closed your last business when i told you this, now do it again for this one. apparently i wasn't assertive enough. would you like me to post the work you did for one of my blogs? the funniest chicken-scratch i've ever seen... GO AWAY

starpimps 02-27-2009 02:59 PM

better than a 9-5

Slappin Fish 02-27-2009 03:47 PM

Maybe you see people on their lunch breaks or after work having a beer and feel you are missing out.

If you had lived that life you wouldn't feel that way, believe me.

Travel, not for the sake of traveling, but perhaps with the idea of opening a business somewhere, you'll very quickly integrate a tight knit expat community.

If you think webmastering fucks your life you have no idea what awaits in the 9-5 world...

CDSmith 02-27-2009 03:51 PM

Did I say 10 years? I meant over 11. Time flies when you're loving life too much to be bored.

Quote:

Originally Posted by cherrylula (Post 15559310)
There is nothing boring about freedom.

That merits a :thumbsup



Seriously the list of reasons is a mile long, but includes:
-I get up when I want.
-Drink all the coffee I want, at the computer or not.
-I get the tunes going on the kitchen stereo, most workplaces/offices don't allow it and when they do no one can agree on what kind of music to play. At home it's my tunes all the time.
-Eat when I want.
-Private bathroom, not shared with 20 or 30 other slobs. Hit the throne whenever the urge hits, no worries about leaving stink for your coworkers.
-Work as much or as little as you want. Nice day out? Shut it the hell down and get out there and enjoy it.
-Take a vacation whenever you want. Need 3 weeks off next month, take it. Your websites aren't going anywhere. Can always take a laptop with you if you're that married to your work. Me, when I vacash I do it 100%.
-Keep 100% of the profits, after expenses of course.
-Want a raise? Give yourself one -- do a little more work, promote a little harder, make a few more sales, whatever, and boom... the checks come. On the web it can be that simple.
-Need a nap? Go lay down.
-work naked!


Seriously I don't know how some people let themselves get bored with those kinds of perks. Beats the hell out of working for someone else, and very few bosses out there allow their employees that kind of leeway. (I'm sure some do)

RoCkMaN 02-27-2009 03:52 PM

I'm working naked. I find that to be helpful.

nekrom 02-27-2009 04:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CDSmith (Post 15560157)

Seriously the list of reasons is a mile long, but includes:
-I get up when I want.
-Drink all the coffee I want, at the computer or not.
-I get the tunes going on the kitchen stereo, most workplaces/offices don't allow it and when they do no one can agree on what kind of music to play. At home it's my tunes all the time.
-Eat when I want.
-Private bathroom, not shared with 20 or 30 other slobs. Hit the throne whenever the urge hits, no worries about leaving stink for your coworkers.
-Work as much or as little as you want. Nice day out? Shut it the hell down and get out there and enjoy it.
-Take a vacation whenever you want. Need 3 weeks off next month, take it. Your websites aren't going anywhere. Can always take a laptop with you if you're that married to your work. Me, when I vacash I do it 100%.
-Keep 100% of the profits, after expenses of course.
-Want a raise? Give yourself one -- do a little more work, promote a little harder, make a few more sales, whatever, and boom... the checks come. On the web it can be that simple.
-Need a nap? Go lay down.
-work naked!
(I'm sure some do)

I can also add to your list:
-making 5x the average income
-no travel to work time
-not having to work for some other muppet
-Working 3hrs a day and getting payed for 8+

And my favorite has to be the fact I can pick up my laptop, jump on a plan and fly to another country nearby and do the same thing, but from a different location. :)

-N

rowan 02-27-2009 04:08 PM

I sometimes miss the coworker socialising, and my wife complains I'm virtually a hermit, but I can't imagine ever going back to a 9-5 job.

One disadvantage of less varied human contact over the past 13 years is that my immune system isn't as strong as it probably should be. Once my daughter went to child care I started getting everything she did.

CDSmith 02-27-2009 04:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by nekrom (Post 15560188)
I can also add to your list:
-making 5x the average income
-no travel to work time
-not having to work for some other muppet
-Working 3hrs a day and getting payed for 8+

And my favorite has to be the fact I can pick up my laptop, jump on a plan and fly to another country nearby and do the same thing, but from a different location. :)

-N

TY.

I knew there was more. I can't count all the cash I've saved over the years on car insurance and gas and wear and tear on the vehicles etc, not having to drive to work. That alone is huge.
Far higher income, check.

"-Working 3hrs a day and getting payed for 8+"

Actually it's 3 hrs a day but get paid for 24. Like I said, your websites don't stop working for you just because you're not sitting at the computer or you're sleeping.

skrinkladoo 02-27-2009 04:26 PM

Since like 96/98 when this became what i did/do ... every month, i feel it.

"take 2 of these and call me in the morning, Im gonna take 4 and finish this 40 caz lifes boring"

CurrentlySober 02-27-2009 04:30 PM

No... Not 'Bored'... But not excited either...

I hit 'Thirty Ten' this year... And I have been involved in Adult all my life...
Not 'online' (obviously) as it didnt exist back then, but now its simply the format of the biz...

Still... Only Ten more years or so... Then I retire... Not too shabby :)

I guess if I had been a policeman, a laywer, a teacher... Anything really... Id prob feel the same !

fuzebox 02-27-2009 04:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by rowan (Post 15560220)
I sometimes miss the coworker socialising, and my wife complains I'm virtually a hermit

Most if not all my friends are self employed and work online, or are employees for adult companies. There is plenty of socializing to be had :)

Killswitch - BANNED FOR LIFE 02-27-2009 05:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by candyflip (Post 15558924)
Securing office space outside of the house was the best thing I ever did, and that's where I'm at now.

I think that's what everyone needs, including me. I don't HATE what I do, or am I bored with it.. I just find myself unmotivated a lot.

Doesn't help that my friends think I don't work even though I make more than them, and feel the need to come over whenever they want and say "oh whatever, you can stop 'working' for a little bit."

CDSmith 02-27-2009 05:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jesus H Christ (Post 15560549)
13 years for me. I did take on a second job years ago for 2.5 years to help run an alcohol (in-laws) distribution Company plus the family bars and that was enough for me. I like working in sweats in the winter and boxers in the summer. Sleep 10 hours a day and do whatever I want. If you're so bored wake up early and go park next to a freeway on-ramp at 6AM on a Monday. You'll be home in bed in minutes after you kiss your computer. :2 cents:


My biggest dilemma today was salmon or shrimp for dinner. We had both.

Post of the thread right there. :thumbsup

Sosa 02-27-2009 05:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by candyflip (Post 15558924)
I was bored with this and opened a deli. It was much more work for even less return.

Securing office space outside of the house was the best thing I ever did, and that's where I'm at now.

I think I would be more productive if I had an office away from the house.

AtlantisCash 02-27-2009 07:22 PM

no i never and i never will probabely, i like computers.

The People who they got bored, can just get the fuck out of this biz, Nothing could be like being Your own boss.

AtlantisCash 02-27-2009 07:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lamis (Post 15559059)
I am very very bored of this job, plus the biz is not so profitable as it was in 2002...

it's 10,000 times easier to make money on mainstream..

u can make 5k per month in mainstream, by working 2 hours per day..

while in adult, 95% in this forum make less than 5k per month, and work 12 hours per day...


He doesn't ask if You are bored from building adult sites, He asks if You get bored from this webmaster life style, webmasters are the people who are building websites for any kind of content no matter adult or Mainstream You know ;)

Vexes 02-27-2009 07:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BVF (Post 15558965)
If you're bored, go to the gym every morning and work out...Then you'll be nice and tired and you can relax for the rest of the day...I go five days a week...the only reason I didn't go today (Friday) is because I went twice on Thursday doing running in the morning and yoga in the evening.

How do you like Yoga?

Meloman 02-27-2009 07:57 PM

Why did I come work for AFF?

50% because sales aren't what they used to be.
50% because I was bored and lost my motivation after working from home for 10 years.

I kind of went bored out of my mind being in the home office all the time. I wanted a change.

I still have my own 6 figure yearly traffic network that I can always go back to it anytime and it makes for a nice security blanket.

But for the time being I like the "structure" of having a "real job". Plus I'm paid extremely well and I like the people I work with. So for now I'm happy doing this.

I like that when I go to bed now, I'm actually tired and looking forward to sleep.

Just my :2 cents:

JamesK 02-27-2009 08:21 PM

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SomeCreep 02-27-2009 08:33 PM

I have binary running through my veins.

tony286 02-27-2009 08:41 PM

beats a day job everyday.

Kard63 02-27-2009 09:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by polish_aristocrat (Post 15558820)
raises hand. :2 cents:

obviously I mean those self employed, working from their own house, and not the content shooters etc..

I think doing this thing has MANY benefits but it CAN get boring after a while as well.... and make you feel burned out.
Personally, I feel I need a new challenge in life. Anyone feels the same, at least sometimes?

discuss :thumbsup

Word. I want to go setup a webcam studio in am impoverished country but GFY keeps telling me I'm too late to the table :( Of course, they also told me to buy USO too.

DirtyDreamer 02-27-2009 09:28 PM

Raises hand.

I am getting bored/burned out after being an adult webmaster for the past ten years.

YellowDude 02-27-2009 09:31 PM

After 1996, bored like hell

YellowDude 02-27-2009 09:32 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kard63 (Post 15561097)
Word. I want to go setup a webcam studio in am impoverished country but GFY keeps telling me I'm too late to the table :( Of course, they also told me to buy USO too.

Do Brazil dude


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