Do you still love your significant other?
 

After a while a lot of people look at their girlfriends/boyfriends and think "meh, it's a relationship". My question is, do you still look at them and think "God I love him/her"?

Me and my girlfriend have been together over a year, lived with each other from the start, (started out as friends), and yeah, we get into arguments and have fights just like any other couple, but sometimes, I look at her and just think to myself.. "Man I love this girl sooooo much", just like when I first started dating her...

More than ever and she knows it.

more and more every day!

That's awesome to hear.

I have a friend who has a kid with his girlfriend, says he hates her, always says he's gonna move out, etc etc, but never does... I think deep down he loves her too, just doesn't show it.

every day :)

Hell yah. I always say to her "Have I told you how much I love you"

Relationship problems? Is that the reason for your other thread?

Love?
Yes.
In love?
No.

:2 cents:

been with my woman for 11 years :)
I'm 27

of course, otherwise she wouldn't be my significant other, just a 'passing by' relationship

you never had any other girl then?

Righty and lefty.
:winkwink:

Yes... ...................

it's a toe-love...

One year marriage now .... and yes more and more ....

So you fell in love when you first dated her? Sounds more like infatuation. :2 cents:

Yes and no. To be honest I don't think I've ever really loved anything as much as other people. I read threads like this and always feel like a social outcast. I've always made myself detachable from any relationship.

Welcome to my world. Been with my wife going on 19 years. I'll be 35 in May. :thumbsup

Wow, I pinned you more in the 19 year old range given your attitude and postings on gfy. Learn something new every day! :1orglaugh

Love can be simulated by drugs... .so yeah .. every once in a while I am affected by such chemical reactions caused by Oxytocin, pheromones and dopamine.... it seems unavoidable but knowing how this stuff works I don't let myself become too focused or obsessed by the "luv" effect ....

To answer the question.. yeah I am somewhat high on my other half.... but sometimes it fades away... go figure...

sucks for her kinda, not?

ok, yeah, you work for FastSize so you got a big cock

I don't understand what you just said or were eluding to... at all. Though I never do since you make little sense.

never said that ;) I started poking around early in life :D

and the occasional warm melon :pimp

If you read my post again, you'll see we've been friends, so yes, I did fall in love with her when we started dating...

My wife and I have been together since 1992 or so. Yeah, I still dig her.

You admitted you don't think you can have as strong feelings to anyone, as other people can. I said it sucks for your wife.

What's there not to understand?

Yes. But I'm not sure she loves me...

this thread single handedly restores my faith in relationships. no exaggeration

from a female point of view, i have only been in love once and every time he kissed me my toes tingled and i lost my breath from day 1 to day 760.

I've been with my wife for almost 15 years and love her now more than I did in year 1!

-- Bill

You just gotta find that right person. I worked hard to get my girlfriend.. We were friends, and she kept telling me she wasn't looking to get into a relationship, so I did my best to swoop her off her feet and make her change her mind, now almost 1 year later, we're together.

Now she tells me she wouldn't want to get married either... So I have my work cut out for me to get her in that dress. :thumbsup

I'm 24.. I'll be 25 in a few days.... I've known hubby since I was way too young to mention.
The worst years were 20-22... the finding myself years.. where you still want to be a child.. and responsibility sucks...

The last year has been our best year ever. We're uber codependent.. and do everything together.. it's kinda sickening/not healthy.. but it works or us. Married five years... known each other 10+.. No kids.

yes, she just baked brownies :thumbsup

awww, she'll come around in no time. start buying those bride magazines and leaving one on the coffee table every couple weeks. no girl can resist the temptation :winkwink:

if i'm lucky enough to get a twice in a lifetime, i won't screw it up this time

Love is a wasted emotion

No doubt, I'll just keep on doing what I'm doing.

Only if you don't wanna believe in it.

I've given up on love cause loves given up on me

:1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh

I have a girl that I see now, but I'd hardly call her a significant other, since it's more or less a convenience thing for both of us. We are both busy people, and she is a cool chick, so we get together when we can and always have a good time. I suspect if I ever did try and get serious with her it wouldn't work, since I believe the reason we get along so well is a product of our arrangement.

Out of all my many relationships, there has only been one girl that I felt the same way about that you mention, as far as just looking at her sometimes and thinking "Holy shit, I really love her", and that is the best feeling in the world. Every time I thought about something fun I wanted to do, she was the one I wanted to do it with, and if I wanted to talk about something I wanted to talk about it with her. Since I've had a few Rum and Cokes I'll even give her the ultimate man compliment...when I masturbated, I thought of her. I mean seriously, who does that? But our relationship, and our sex life, was that damn good.

She had a vicious drug problem, and I have no doubt if it wasn't for that we would be married and living happily ever after. The problem is people stay in relationships that don't work, just because they feel comfortable, or because they want to be in love with the person, but just aren't. When you find the one, you know, and you'll never settle for the bullshit relationships again...

I don't know.

I've been with my wife for 11yrs now, but she's not the woman I fell in love with and I certainly am not in love with her now.

She's a fucking blood sucking parasite.. she drains me.. when her mouth opens I dread what will come out of it.. in a perfect world her photo would show up as #1 in google images for CUNT!

Sometimes I love her, particularly when my cock is down her throat, because the only sound I can her from her at that moment is her gagging.. I don't like it when she has anything to say because 90% of the time it's just fucking bitching and complaining.. frankly, I'M FUCKING TIRED OF IT.. same old shit..

fuck the bitch

Give it ten and then we should talk. Not saying it is not possible but well it is damn unlikely ok...

Haha, deal!

And spacedog, why don't you get a divorce then?

:1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh :1orglaugh:1orglaugh

You sound like a fun couple. We should do dinner or soemthing sometime.

:thumbsup

Interesting fact: the physical component of being in love typically lasts about 2 years. Only after that do relationships really get tested seriously.

I know, I've been in longer relationships. My longest was almost 5 years.

13 years and 2 kids later absolutely. Good times, bad times in between times that is what life is all about and if you find the right person it's a good ride...