To Fight or not to fight?
 

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At a club having a good time, a random tries to have a go at you.
What do you do? Fight or not fight.

I don't like fighting, I don't get any enjoyment out of fighting but I don't like people putting sh*t on me either. But

As soon as I fight, I get kicked out = end of night in that club
I could get busted up and have to rock up on work on Monday looking like a derrolict.
I could bust them up then end up in trouble with the authorities potentially affecting my career.
I could bust them up then get jumped outside by his friends or later with retribution attacks.
Then again (esp. if you are with girls or something), you don't want to look like a p*ssy infront of them.

So what do you do?

the first rule of fight club is, you do not talk about fight club. :2 cents:

Bubba will take care of that

You avoid the fight, that's always the right thing to do.....

But every now and then go ahead and risk everything and crack a motherfucker real
hard so that other people start doing like you and avoid fighting.

Some of us have to "sacrafice" ourselves to help deter the idiots who start this shit.

:1orglaugh


That guy would be slow to start a fight with you if I had cracked the shit out of
him a week ago.
So help a bro out, every now and then crack one of these motherfuckers.

:1orglaugh

It's always advisable to seek alternatives other than physical violence. Nothing good ever really comes from it. If your ego is unsustainable when having to back down from an inane confrontation, then you need to work on your self-esteem.

Not worth it. Especially with everyone watching. Legal issues and trouble never worth it.
If he really pisses you off, do your research, learn about him, get him when hes not expecting it and alone and no one is watching.

You'll feel a lot better and will only do it if its really worth it.

i try to avoid the fight if posible

Translation : Back down then act like a weasle and stab him in the back 3 weeks later.

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go into the bathroom, jack off into your hand and then go back out and rub the cum all over his face...

he will def throw the first punch, then its all self defense from there...

Some do, some don't.

just run, it always impresses the ladies

I would be more impressed by a guy that knows when to walk away. There are certain instances where it is necessary to defend yourself physically but in one of the those cases where its over stupid shit like someone thought you were looking at him funny its stupid to fight.

So damn good to kick some ass when you are 100% right.But there is the law.I guess always try to avoid it...when you can't,fight.Repercussion are imminent :1orglaugh

then why do women dig scars so much?

women will say they want you to walk away but secretly all women like a little bit of bad boy and really want you to fight and win then have crazy sex with your after.

That would do it Lol.

If ur able to avoid it and walk away or talk through it, then do it...
But if you cant like me...
A monster is getting inside you and you got to fight.
I dont really think about anything at that moment...I just dont care

Always, but always do everything in your power to avoid the fight. But if all else fails and you have no choice: Hit First. Hit Hard. And Hit Often.

avoid the fight

Im with you. I can fight and i can fight well. I avoid it with a hand shake and an apology if i offended them. Right or Wrong i say Sorry.


If it seems that it isn't detouring the fight quick single leg and shoot for his back and catch the neck and put him out nicely without trying to inflict damage. People generally wake up from a "choke out" peacefully and dont seek retribution if they are unharmed.



If he has friends, pull arm guard into a quick armlock. Make sure it breaks!! His friends are not there to see you win. I take those situations very seriously. I have seen friends leave those situations with a permanent speech impediment ,brain damage and drool. Not cool!!!!



???? Why pull guard? Because his friends wont jump in because he is on top of you looking like he is winning and when his arm breaks and his friends see it turn black and purple and he is screaming like a bitch, nobody is gonna jump in!!! Nobody comes to a club to go to the hospital and nobody wants to be the 2nd guy.



I have done all of the above more than once. I do recommend the peaceful approach every-time when you have the choices. I made a living teaching hand to hand combat tactics and BJJ.:2 cents:

turn the other butt check

Sounds like you're losing on the risk/reward bet. Way too much to lose unless you setup a private one-on-one "meeting"

I know girls that love when there guys get into fights and will even provoke a situation. That's not all girls. I worked in a bar for 10 years and I have seen many a fights. Out of all the ones I have seen maybe 2 or 3 where the guy was totally justified in throwing punches. Not only do I not want to date someone like that I don't want to hang out with someone like that.

Same thing you do with bullies ... pick out the "loud" one or the one with the problem....
punch the fucker in the mouth and turn around and see how many of his buddies back him...90% of bar fights end in no one throwing a punch... 10% end with 1 punch

your at the bar.... Not a tournament

Flash a few hundreds in the air and declare that you'll give them to the first person who kicks his ass for you.

Or have a girl or two from your entourage calm him down with their feminine charms and if he still wants to fight have one of them knee him in the balls. If he's smart he won't retaliate.

Those are two of many strategies, the rest you'll have to pay me to find out what they are

I like your style.... :thumbsup

noone wants to go to jail

best bet is to walk away from any fight

if someone attacks you physically...then its on..they attack your wife its on...etc

but a loud mouth at a bar? not worth the effort

you dont want to hang out with me then because

I AM AN INTERNET TOUGH GUY :warning

i kick someones ass everytime i step out the door. :warning

Fight .. always fight .. BUT handle your self accordingly .. the best defense is a strong offense ... assess the situation ... who is going to react to you when it all transpires .. be prepared to act immediately to counter and strike all who decide to become part of the fun ..plan your fight .. visualize the fight in your head .. walk through your steps and stick to them .. Do not be the antagonist .. do not back down .. do not raise your voice .. do not raise your hands .. clear tones dictating your actions if this piece of shit intends on continuing with this line of action .. watch for the shoulders .. the second they move in preparation to swing or attack .. strike out . usually a nice hammer to the button or throat shot and hyper-extended knee ends the situation .. but always have plan b-c-d in place .. if you are calm and controlled and have done your job well you will have no further conflict from the by standers .. then leave .. just leave .. there are tons of clubs and whores .. calm and collected .. leave ..

I have never been in a fight with anyone other than my little sister (she puts me to shame each and every time :helpme:helpme). I don't know - I guess I don't see the point in fighting physically to sort something out. ??? I suppose that things escalate and get out of control...I tend to just deal and move on or sort it out without resorting to violence. :error

However, I thoroughly enjoy UFC.

:2 cents:That's just my little perspective.

Your right. i worked in bars for 8 years when i was in school. I got paid more because all of my toss outs and altercations when i was security did not end up in a hospital stay or law suit. I got more people out with a very polite conversation and an offer of a beer the next time they came back. I used to work security with a friend of mine named Eric Paulson.

And with about 18 years of BJJ and NHB training, i can easily identify a no win situation. I am no tough guy or do i claim to be. I know what i can do and what i can not do.



If you meet me, you will see that i am very polite, soft spoken and a respectful person. My demeanor never changes and i never raise my voice when confronted with any altercation. So when i go to "work", people never see it coming. When im done, i slip out of the location and say nothing. Getting sued sux ass!!!


This isn't me talking about hypotheticals and "what ifs". This has been a proven method for me.

I let the old Jedi guy with the light sabre handle things.

Put the fucking pipe down ok.

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The second rule of fight club is, YOU DO NOT TALK ABOUT FIGHT CLUB. :2 cents:

http://www.missisays.com/images/fight_club_1.jpg

:321GFY

although funny.

you get charged with sexual assault. and are a registered sex offender for the rest of your life.

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walk away its not worth it...besides you never know who your fucking with =/

Know why you don't fight? Because in the morning your hands hurt, knuckles are busted up and you generally feel like ass for 2-3 days

Shit! Just as well we got along in Vegas isn't it... :1orglaugh

Your actual door or your virtual door?

http://www.ffxils.ca/ethug2.jpg

door to my bedroom is a revolving door because i gots so many bitches going through it.

BAMMMMMMMMMMMMMM :warning