My mum found out i was in adult last night and.....
 

Well i just told her everything...and then she brought some obscure shit up...

she brought up about my first girlfriend for some reason...i was like 6 years old...

she was a big fat cunt in primary school....dad told me to call her chubba and it would be funny....so the next day her mum and dad picked her up from the school gates and i said cya later chubba....so her parents made her brake up with me...

anybody know why that would be a relevant thing to say when a mother busts her 19 yr old son editing adult pics in photoshop...

Josh

I guess she confessed something big like you did. That's pretty fucking weird though

you could have just told her you were jerking off. she probably would have believed it more. i'm sure she figures you were just beating your dick and need to get a new girlfriend again...

:1orglaugh

I paniked....i closed my photoshop windows and there was another under it with a pornsite half designed...so i closedd that and i was on a content store...

so i just told her that i was just looking into it.

sounds like she tried to bring up old shit like your going through a perverted phase right now

This could well be possible, but ive been in adult since i was 16...most of you all know this lol

People bringing up shit from when they were six yrs old have issues.. WTF, How long does it take to grow up.

I don't know what to tell you about a relevant thing to say when anyone, much less your mom busts you editing porn.

Are you ashamed of how you earn a living?
Are a semi christian/catholic/or some religious person?
Are you not grown up enough to be honest with yourself and those close to you about what you do?

If the answer is yes to any of those questions, I'd suggest a better lock on the door.

I have no intentions of hiding what I do for a living, it's a honest living and allows me to live the lifestyle I want too. My mom knows and hates it. To this day brings up once or twice a week that wishes I would take a state or government job.

get gun and chill out on bottles :)

Tell her that you can help her with some advice if pornography offends her. Make her feel stupid. Always fun.

lol i dont hate my mum....and im not ashamed that i make porn for a living....im acctually quite proud of it.

Josh.

Shit happens. My mom was kinda jumpy when she found out how I made my living ~6 years ago too. I had kept it from just about everyone from 16 to 19. One of those that knew was my GF at the time and she was fine with it for like 2 years then all of a sudden she decided to tell my mom LOL.

if you're serious about this, tell your parents, why keep it a secret, especially if you're living with them?

but well that depends on your relations with them

The explain it to her that it is your business and source of income.

Most people think I sit around all day looking at naked girls fucking everything. The few that have actually taken some time to see what is I do on a day to day basis are ready and willing to admit it's a full time + job that requires a lot of work and dedication.

Show her or rather give her some money and tell her that's what you have earned in doing adult. :1orglaugh

She brought up his gf from when he was 6 because it's the ONLY gf he's ever had, pretty natural for her to do that, she's got a real fucked up loser son on her hands, poor lady

http://thsrv.com/hl/http://icanhasch...knockfirst.jpg

http://thsrv.com/hl/http://reverendt...nock-first.jpg

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:321GFY

My mom knows but does not understand and is cool with it as long as "im not meeting girls because im married. "

How do you deal with ur mom nagging u? How do u tolerate it? For example, if u tell her u are an adult and are happy with your choice of line of work but she keeps persisting, do you try to reason with her or do you lose your temper and blow off?

Just wondering because I have issues with my mother as well. Not with work but about nagging etc even tho I am 30 and haven't lived at home for over 10 years now.

Were the girls chubby?

move out of moms dude

What does she nag you about exactly?

You're 30 she shouldn't be doing that shit unless you're another broke loser and asking her for money

I told my parents AFTER i'd already set everything up. First of all, they thought I was just going through a phase but when I showed them how it worked and that it was making good money, they realised I was serious about it and were fine with it. They were more bothered about what their friends would think if they found out. Eventually everyone found out (I come from a tiny village where everyone knows everyone else's business) and they don't have a problem with it. Most girls my age have just finished uni and struggling to find a job or are in shitty jobs so when somebody says something to them about my work, they just tell them straight. Lol xx

I actually pay her rent (she has no money to give me, not even when I was I was under 18 let alone now) and I don't live with her yet she nags me still and most of it is done through e-mail. She treats me like I'm a child. She nags me from everything about "taking my vitamins" to "eating enough fruits and vegetables" and "dress warm when it's cold" etc, basically talking to me like I'm a 3 year old to nagging me to get my citizenship, nagging for me to change my name when I get my citizenship (she wants me to add her last name to mine :1orglaugh). Nagging that I should get this and that latest computer and bring her along so she can help pick it out for me. I am not kidding. And then more nagging about "Don't leave the country, its dangerous, they won't let you back in since 9/11" etc

She also used to nag me to come home and live with her because she was so lonely and had no one (she's single, been that way for 20+ years with no friends and no job, her life revolves around thinking/obsessing about me), etc. And then prying, trying to gauge how much money I'm making and saying things like she wants to help me with my business etc :1orglaugh (she has no idea its adult, btw) since we are not close.

I think it's because she is lonely and has no friends/hobbies etc so her life is revolved around thinking about me and I'm an only child so there are no other siblings to take the pressure off of me. I get the brunt of it.

So she have a computer/internet at home? Get her on some dating sites or something to occupy her time, use your own refcodes too

She doesn't like men, I think my dad traumatized her. She's unsociable, kind of like me actually. I don't think she interacts with any men and barely with any women friends either. I guess thats the only thing we have in common!

I think you need to find momma a man. :2 cents:

It would help a lot if she got one because then she would have her own life but my mom has major issues with men, she really doesn't like men at all. See, my dad doesn't have that problem, he's 65 and dating a girl who is younger than me! So he has his own life to occupy him and doesn't nag me. My mother used to have her mother (my grandmother) but since she died she has no one to occupy her time with.

mom fail

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh ...

Word. My mom was kinda upset when she found out what I did for a living, but soon got over it when she saw the checks coming in. My father on the other hand... :Oh crap

I couldn't keep him away from me about "opening this site" a friend told him about.. :Oh crap

lol

umm move out?

:1orglaugh:1orglaugh
she is OK with it by now I guess

joshll
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Based on your shitty spelling, I'd say you are still a child and still in school.

Based on your join date, I'd also say that you lied about your age when you joined GFY as you would be over 19 by now.

So....I don't believe a fucking word you have to say about anything other than you still live at home with mommy.

I'm sorry but for some reason this made me laugh... :1orglaugh

This explains a lot.

:1orglaugh

I smell underagedness!

That right there is what everyone is missing. I told my parents and family from day one, why fucking lie or deceive. Better they find out from me than by another source.

1. You need to man up and get out of mommies house.
2. If mommy lives with you than who cares what she thinks about how you pay the bills. You didn't care enough to let her know, you let her find out in an awkward and embarrassing way, so why would you care if she found out.

:2 cents:

And on a side note, chalk one up for dad for trying to teach a little 6 year old how to emotionally abuse people. What a winner.

You are not IN adult.

You edit some pics in photoshop? Get the fuck out of here newb.

my father couldn't get over the fact that i wasn't doing porn videos, and just sales.

i think i kinda disappointed him haha

You are doing business dude... it's a work.
Nothing to be ashamed about. Also nothing to explain to others, its your business and it brings you money. As long as you pay your bills and taxes, there is nothing to complain about.

I have several companies, and have had other ones in the past.
One of my companies does adult stuff, mostly on internet, but also offline adult stuff. Other of my companies was for weapons development before I sold that one.
My family was more concerned about me having an air to ground missile launcher rack in the living room than having 10 people filming porn in the backyard.

When peaople ask me what I do, I just tell them that I run several companies. If they persist in what do these companies do, I just tell them that one of them provides adult stuff on the internet.

It's all about hoy you expose things.
"Hey mom, I run porn sites and they are giving me lots of money" sounds completely different than "Hey mom, I have started an adult internet business and it's doing quite good".

Be mature and professional and people will threat you as mature and professional.

Are your parents divorced? Sounds like she is trying to blame your dad for "messing" you up as a kid and now your in adult because of it. I dunno.

You should have been more honest with her from along time ago though.

so in 2006 you sold your house and moved to Spain?

and now you're 19 and living with mommy?

http://www.gfy.com/fucking-around-and-business-discussion/638877-house-move-week.html
http://www.gfy.com/fucking-around-and-business-discussion/638863-sold-house-moving-spain.html

Sounds like you need to sit her down and have a damn serious talk with her and explain that if she keeps this up that its only going to push you further and further away from her. The exact opposite that she wants. :2 cents:

time to get your own place.

maybe she is in porn, too

Being "IN" adult

and

Being "INTO" adult

are two very different things.

So what websites do you have? or is it all on that uber leet site http://192.0.0.1

In this economy I would think your mum might just be happy you are earning money.