My Silver Anniversary gift to my husband
 

We were married 25 years ago tomorrow, we didn't have a cake, no wedding, nothing like that. Neither of us were into all of that.... big weddings were a waste of money then and I still think they are.

HOWEVER...... my husband said to me while we were sitting here in the dark in that winter storm, "you know, my favorite cake in the world is a wedding cake and we never had one of those", so I laughed and said I'd get him one on our anniversary and I guess he thought i was playing.....

I didn't make it, but I designed it, and each part is meaningful:
1)The four side cakes surrounding the big one is one to signify each of our children, 4 of them. :)
2) The Cherub on top, this is what my oldest wanted to put with her Grandfather when he passed away, she wanted to know Angels were with him..... and we did the same with his mom when she passed 15 months later.
3) The heart shapes, we gave of our hearts, our whole hearts and never looked back
4) The lace, we are so intertwined with one another, in every single way, heart soul and mind
5) The Bells - Silver Bells - Silver Anniversary.... :)
6) The roses, they have great significance, while our relationship is as fragrant as a rose, we have had our share of thorns along the way, but we always manage to get past that and back to the beatiful places, no matter what.
7) The round beads, the perfection and roundness of our lives together, not all perfect unless you look at the whole picture.
8) The columns, or pillars.... this is to solidify that we always, no matter what, have a solid pillar to always hold us up thru the bad and good times.

AND, this is what it came out to look like:
http://www.theoriginalrudebitch.com/weddingcake.jpg

Our family has been run thru it and gone thru about every trial a family can go thru, this isn't JUST about my husband and I, it's about our FAMILY!!

I just wanted to share this with you all, my family away from my family. :)

Wow, that is awesome Tam, it really is. Great job!

Very very beautiful! congrats and even though i don't know you i am super happy for you and your family :)

God damn man now THATS a fucking cake LOL

thats a CAKE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Tons and tons of details.

Yet what is the dang flavor, filling?

Also nice to see lack of fondant.

Congrats girlie! Cake for Everyone! :pimp

WOW !!!!!


Seriously awesome !! Many congrat's to you both... :thumbsup

Nice try. But he actually wanted a blowjob. :)

well done!

who says he won't get that too........ :thumbsup

Oops. the cake is a White Cake, white frosting. Made with all natural ingredients. I am diabetic, so I can't have a bunch of crazy shit in it. lmao

Thanks folks... seriously, thank you. :thumbsup

FONDANT?? Oh my god, I can't stand that stuff and I think my family would have had my head had I brought that home with me. lol

Who will be eat this ? :)

WHat a boring present.

The family will eat it. probably for the next few days. lol

The four small ones will each be given to my kids, as I said, 4 of them. The two oldest do not live at home, so they will take theirs home with them. They aren't as big as they look in this pic.... the 4 small ones are just small single layer cakes. The bigger ones.... well, I am sure my husband will gladly put those away. :1orglaugh

That's not all he got silly... this is just the cake part of it. :upsidedow

good for you!!!!!!

WOW 25 years!! Congrats !!

IM going to sneek in tonight and steal the biggest part

congrats :) sweet cake

not only a great gift with tremendous meaning, but delicious as well :thumbsup

you have many empty tubs country crock butter substitute
i enjoy this brand as well

this cake looks nice and your husband will soon be fat and never leave you for 21 years age webcam lady

The cake looks great hun, congrats on 25 years!

Beautiful :)

Wow nice cake! :thumbsup

Beautiful!!!! Nice work!!!!

Thats nice! congratz!

Congratulations Tam -congrats on this huge milestone. Not too many people make it thru this far :thumbsup

Is there a midget tranny hooker buried in the big cake?

Achmed's Wife Halimah is sounding bitter these days... Achmed fuck up in teh cam girls department?

Nice gift!!

awesome cake Tam, congrats on the silver anniversary :thumbsup

Great present and congrats! 25years is so special...

Happy anniversary,nice cake

gorgeous cake, congrats on your milestone!

aww how sweet

Congrats Tam...and that is great:thumbsup

When you get tired of that dude, let me know and I'll take two:Graucho

lmao
No actually it isn't as big as it looks. The biggest cake is 10 inches.... so it isn't even big enough to harbor a midget. Although that would have been funny as hell and I don't think he'd be asking me for another wedding cake anytime soon. lmao

Thanks folks... very sweet and kind words and I appreciate it very much. :thumbsup

I think it's more of whether he's going to get sick of my shit or not in this house..... A person would have to be a fool to get tired of him. lmao

i count 6 cakes - but they look tasty ;)

a huge congrats from me Tam

not many people can say they have been married for 25 years! well done tam it is a testimony to you and your husband

hugs girl :)

i said that already :smiling_b

Did you do a different, appropriate flavor for each child?

Nope, I was going to do that, but they all like the same thing, white cake.... so that's what we did. I am lucky in that area, I guess. They all eat pretty well the same things and have the same tastes.... how weird is that? The only variation is in the spicy versus not spicy. and doesn't apply to cake fortunately. lol

Congrats!

I did not mean the flavor they like best. More like strawberry for the redhead, chocolate for the black baby, carrot for the ginger . . . you get the idea.

Like I said, all flavors were appropriate to each child...... white cake. :thumbsup

Congrats Tam, this is a beautiful cake and gift... and for the 25 years, hon.

So pretty! Hope it tasted delicious!

Tam babe, that's an amazing gift. You still rock.

you so sweet...

btw happy anniversary with your husband

:) :) :)

wow, hey you..... thank you. I hope your life is treating you well, and one day you will get here... it's fun. :thumbsup

digifan, thanks hon, how are you feeling these days? :)

Tasted? I don't think any of them tasted a thing, you would think none of them ever had cake before. lmao