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its official im the last of my High School Social group to get married or have a kid
i got the news on Saturday my last single female friend from high school got pregnant.
I somehow became that guy! the one that the gets calls at on weird weekdays where the guy wants to goto the strippers, the one you call when you wanna adventure, the one you call when you wanna *have fun*. Im amazed how fast it happened. When i look back and see who the fathers are, the relationship status's how they met and why they are still together it scares me. is it normal not to have any desires to want kids, marriage at my age? Shit my parents had three kids by my age. |
I know why you are scared to get hitched, you just need to find a girl that is cool with you and I having our "guy time" together. :winkwink: How you been buddy haven't talked for a while.
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How old are you?
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Same here buddy. None of them seem that happy though. Always bitching.. They never go out or do anything.. Doesn't seem like the life for me either.
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I'm doing pretty good Ryan I have been off the boards. I've working on personal and work things for im dealing with massive changes in my personal and work life :) |
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A lot of people make their life choices based on others' expectations.
Live life however YOU want, that way you won't have any regrets. Btw, check out new FNM site: http://www.fnm.com |
derek likes men pass it on
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well how old are you? :)
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Im not being bitter......... Im so curious. |
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all lies
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It's actually normal. You're the one who is giving in to his animal instincts. The others are giving into social pressures. Marriage is not normal. Having and raising kids is not normal. We evolved to fuck every woman who would let us ( and some that didn't ) and hunt for food. That's it. We weren't made to sit down and watch Grey's Anatomy with a bitching fat cunt while we aged and gained 45lb, have and raise 3 mediocre kids and then die at 95 having not even APPLIED for a passport.
You're actually the normal one Derek. :) |
Welcome to the club :) Funny, my married friends sometimes go... "I hate you, all single and free to do whatever you want..."
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I'm the last of my group too...
WG |
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Times change quick... Beth and I are some of the few left unmarried... which is actually pretty funny because we've been together since high school, and most of the couples we know from the era are already divorced and onto second and in some cases third marriages.
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both your friends got married already???
And to each other?!! |
I didn't keep track of my high school friends until recently. Seems most of them got married, had kids, got divorced, and then repeated a few a times.
I got married at age 31 and had my first and only child at age 32. I could care less what the social norms are, and I could care less about peer pressure. I got married when I was good and ready to get married. Fuck everyone else. I had a friend once, a beautiful woman named Carmen. All of her friends had gotten married and were starting to have kids and raise families. She felt left out. So, she decided she had to get married. She married the first person she found that was decent. Six months later she was divorced. Whatever. |
YES IT IS NORMAL
majority of people are complete fucking losers and are weak people who are afraid to be alone. all these idiots wind up in divorce anyway. then i laugh that is what you get for being pussy whipped. |
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