whose been to a swingers/sex club?
 

this girl i know wants to go, shes pretty good looking, so may go up there this weekend

what can be expected? anyone know?

Haven't been to one but i would expect a bunch of guys who will want to fuck the girl you are with.

really. i was hoping she would find some hot chick and we all go into a room together, no?

I'm sure there will be certain rules etc. If your woman doesn't want to be with another man then she doesn't have to be etc. However, they could also have rules about no threesomes and it has to be couples. I'd call/look into it before you go.

All clubs are different, but the reality of a single hot chick there just waiting to go into a room with you and your girl is probably unlikely. Most of the time it's couples and select single males.

It'll be fine don't worry about it, just make sure the club doesn't allow many single males, have fun

Yeah they have rules and the number 1 rule in most places is NO MEANS NO.

Went to one a few years back. They did a wet tshirt contest and a few other thigns and then things got quite and pople drifted off to fuck. The food was great the music was good and the show was good. Had a great time. Got there at 11pm and left at 5am.

Good luck finding a single, hot chick at a swing club. Your girl may find a hot chick but, she is going to be attached to a guy that wants to have sex with your girl as well.

You and she need to sit down and make some rules before you go as far as what you are willing to do and not do once you get there. And remember, swinging is a lifestyle. You are not walking into a free for all orgy. Ask before you touch and let your girl know it is ok to say no. Chances are if she is young and hot, she is going to get hit on like crazy.

Exactly - sounds like you have some experience in this area :winkwink::winkwink:

I was thinking the same thing......Hone.....care to elaborate?????

sounds like that makes sense, im in the phoenix area, any clubs you can recommend?

Make it a fun weekend and drive to Vegas, many clubs here. I been to all the ones in PHX and sausage fest everywhere, except guys and dolls on Saturdays then it's couples only. But I believe they closed down.

We have different clubs here, the red rooster will alow single males but they have a couple only area, then there is couples oasis (couples only) and one of my favorite clubs.

Most people in the swing lifestyle are very respectfull non pushy. But when you go to a club where single men are drained their wallets then those men will expect some action and will be a lot more pushy and often disrespectfull.

hit me up if you need some more info.

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BTW you mentioned that you "just know her" so if she is not your gf or has no attachement to you, then she might go wild and you could be feeling like the third wheel on the wagon or 10th..lol.. depending how crazy she wants to make it for herself.

Most swinger clubs either charge single dudes a higher premium to get in or they bar them all together. Different clubs employ different tactics but they all seem to do their best to try to keep it from being a sausage party.

Getting a 3 some with another single lady could prove to be difficult, unless you find a couple who's husband likes to watch.

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No not really... it will be more guys than girls and the girls with any guys will want to stay with that guy and *IF* by the small chance she wants to do anything, it will be with just the guy with someone else watching only.

You guys and your fantasies... too funny. :1orglaugh

Exactly... What the OP is referring to is what we swingers refer to as a Unicorn. :D It's not an impossibility... but not very likely.

I run a swinger community and my wife and I are very active in our club.

My hubby and I used to be owner's of a swing club. Finding a single lady to play with is not easy. Think about hooking up with a couple where the lady is bisexual, much easier to find.

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In our experiences, you will have more fun and better luck just meeting people in general. Swing clubs don't make it any easier and they don't guarantee hooking up. The only plus is you know what's on someone's possibility list from moment one.... that's it.

We got tired of them (swing clubs) and enjoy meeting new people in the Vanilla world. It's much more exciting to turn a vanilla to the dark side anyway! LOL

Maybe she is just using you for a free lift? :1orglaugh

been to one in paris in the summer 2003 with my Thai GF of the moment and it was a blast.

people are usually nice, and the party finished at a private appartment on the champs elysees ...

the thing is; if its your first time you will be intimidated and will not be able to get your dick up..... so prepare some cialis or viagra.... and you'll have a great time

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Hey you! Long time no talk :winkwink:

I went in the upper midwest and it was not a pretty site. MAke good rules and signals ahead of time and it should be fun as the people are very nice.

I have been to a BDSM club over 10 years ago in NYC. "the vault"

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