X girlfriend pops back up! Need some advice and wisdom guys please read!
 

I have an X that popped up after 2 yrs. to make a long story short its been two years we had a great relationship but ended because I was not there first...2 years later she shows up???... we didnt hit it off, well she didnt ..I wasn't pacient enough and said some hurtful things cause I was still upset about the past and how things ended makes me very uncofortable and I damaged what could have been.. What do I do to fix this or spark something back up if its still there.....Why did this happen then? Whats the purpose of coming back after so long.??. Just to tell me she dosent have feelings isn't a reason or dosent make any damn sence ....I'm 23 need to know what this.. is it a game does she want to be chased or not interested im lost???

She's going to serve you for child support -- run!!

whoo luckily never knocked her up lol!

"We didn't hit it off. Well, she didn't hit it off." WTF are you talking about, dude? It takes two to have a relationship. If she didn't hit it off with you, then you both didn't hit it off.

Your post is very difficult to understand.

That's what you think...

...Daddy.

Exes are exes for a reason :2 cents:

There's other fish in the sea :thumbsup

tell her she's the only one that you want... if she's hot!

Do you ask GFY for advice on what type of jox to wear too?

:winkwink:And what's wrong with that? :winkwink:

if she's still hot fuck her once or twice then dump that bitch

when i say she didnt hit it off i meant she says that but showing up and fuckin me shows me otherwise... Ya shes still hott as fuck i like her now i just dont want her in 3 more years after shes been ran through the purity is gone ...if not already...hey gfy should I go briefs and what kind CK lol

I told her that but when I get hammered I cant hold my tounge i say what bothers me... But I can not be drunk around her its been 2 years and am a wreck when i see her...Ya I love the girl my first love shit...

Wow, this sounds like my recent situation. Odd.

Lol my problem is I wanted her back.

My advice. Go the other way. Do your own thing. The past is the past for a reason. Asking 'why now' is right. Girls love it when you still like them. It's a flattery thing. They'll go out of their way a bit to keep you interested if they can.

Leave it alone. Please.

tell her you want her to be friends with benefits

Damn how many guys hit that pussy in 2 years... Move on.

Well thats the thing guy I do want her back there was a connection but alc. fucked it up for sure... 6 guys in last 2 years not to bad shes a good girl raised right....but ya that makes sence she prob get off on the fact I want her back in my life. I tried friends wit benfits but i only have had her back around for a week alredy 2 fall outs she is saying im crazy and psycotic and when I get mad I do get pissed and yell mayb a name or 2 but she knows the shit that gets under my skin ...I hate im loosing sleep over this shit.

Drop it, move on.
Seriously.

If you don't, about... 15 minutes after you hook back up, you'll get that horrid sinking feeling - and that's the past kicking you in the nuts for being a dick.

iF THATS THE CASE MAN MAYBE i SHOULD DROP HER ITS CAUSING ME NOTHING BUT PAIN

For me it is pretty simple. She is your ex for a reason. It didn't work out before which means chances are it won't again.

People look back on past relationships and often just see the good stuff, not the crazy bad stuff. If it was really your fault and you have changed and want to work it out with it, tell her so. Otherwise move on, you will just cause yourself more heartache and headaches.

You keep answering your own questions.
If you go back to her, you're nuts, and you'll only have yourself to blame for your misery.

Either drop it and forget it, or get back with her and commit to the decision.

Either way, don't flounder around it. :2 cents:

Ahh good old GFY.... relationship therapist to the retarded.

:1orglaugh:1orglaugh

If she is young, sane and can have children... then wrap her into a burka and sell her to some arab for 31 goats and sheeps.
Then you will have a different goat or sheep to fuck every day.

If this plan doesn't look good to you... then remember that it's an ex and there are more women in the planet that need your man juice. Tell her not be selfish and to share the load.

LOLOLOLO If she's telling you 6 guys in 2 years, then get the calculator out because those number are defiantly off... Multiply by at least 2 for something closer to the truth. (Especially if she's hot) "She's a good girl raised right" WTF does that mean? She's out banging a half dozen guys Plus you plus the other 15 your don't know about and she's what 21? Raise right to be in porn I would say.

I've had Ex's show up out of the blue 2-3 years later. Usually it's to get some last bang out of the way. You still a child, and this is not meant to be an insult but fuck you not even 25 yet, you need to grow up a LOT before you should consider or even worry about getting into any type of serious relationship. So, my advice, wear some protection, maybe even double wrap it.. have some fucking fun with it and move on. (You even stated yourself you don't want her after she's "ran though") LOL. Oh and 7+ guys already dude, the purity left the station with the first so get over it. Now, it's a matter of can she utilize all the she's had and so you a trick or too? :)

don't chase em, replace em.

Have her over for breakfast and fuck her brains out a few times. This way you know you are the first man in that morning since she is telling the same story to 5 other guys as well.

Sucks to be the last man in at the gangbang. :thumbsup

An EX is an EX for a reason.

GUYS I LIKE WHAT I HAVE HEARD DONT CHASE EM RE PLACEM LOVE IT GUYS ITS MAKING PERFECT SENCE THERE X'S FOR A REASON.. NO NEED TO TREAD THOSE WATERS AGAIN IM GOING TO BE DONE WITH THE BITCH.. iT IS JUST A BIT HARD BUT ITS PROB BEST FOR ME ESPECIALLY WHEN IM TRYING TO ESTABLISH MY BIZ.. BELIEVE IT OR NOT YOU GUYS HAVE HELPED I WAS THINKING THE SAME BUT NEEDED THE CONFIRMATION LOOKS LIKE SOME OF YOU BEEN HERE DONE THAT THANKS GUYS LOVE THAT YA KEEP US YOUNG BUCKS IN LINE..

you still need to think for yourself man, its your life and none of us know (or care to know) the inner working of it. best of luck.

My ex girlfriend from when we were 16-18 popped up recently after 18 years apart. It's been fucking fantastic since. They say you're not supposed to date exs, but I tell you, I couldn't be happier.

Slightly different that though - after a gap of 18 years, you've both had a chance to live your own lives, pick directions, make decisions etc.

If you were compatible then, and 18 years later are still interested in each other after all the decisions made in between - that's probably a very decent match you've got yourself :)

exactly. dont let dick think for your brain (i do it all the time). when you look at her, think of all the negatives about her and it will be easier.

dont fool yourself into thinking you can make things work. ex's are like heroin... everyones always going back for more to chase that first time (or first week or two) experience when things were great.

fact: it will never happen, find some new pussy!

Meet up with her, buy her diamonds take her out for a beautiful meal, tell her you love her and still have stromg feelings for her :1orglaugh :1orglaugh
Not really. Tell her to go. She's only back coz she wants something or just been dumped

leave it alone let it go

im gonna chime in this thread but my fucking back hurts and i need a break!

quoted for the truth
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Well thats that then guys this bitch is going in the lake lol! Jk well its the truth.. Bitch is young and i am as well. I guess i wanted to see but mayb buddy was right after 18 years its different. We would have both lived and had life experiences... I just hate that the dumb whore reopened a scab that was almost healed.. I where my hart on my sleeve just want a good girl.. If i do well with biz and try to get married after it might be for the wrong resaons i guess i wanted to see if she was still my college sweethart. .. I guess because she knows i own adult indudtry sites and am affiliated with the industry and thats what made it easy she was cool with .. I cant even figure out how to tell any of the new girls i meet what i do cause soon as i tell them i own gay sites they burnout and jig out the door. It sux cause girls in there 20's arent like they use to be there smarter play more games because roles have changed the girl thinks she should where the pants these days.. Makes me sick they should be stoned

very tru sir they are like a herion

therein lies the root of your problem. you're cool with her because you think you can safely confide in her, and you don't have to re-explain yourself 800 times like you would with any other girl.

bottom line its nobodys fucking business what you do for a living (let alone some random chick who you are just trying to bone) just tell them you're a slave trader or a drug mule. if they like you, they like you. and nothing else matters. i straightup tell people nowadays anyway, i dont have the time to flip some double-life script on a girl. be upfront and honest. realistically man the girls do the choosing when it comes down to it, all you have to do is dont be a dumbass with they're giving you signals and you're homefree.

bang her till the cows come home, but don't take things seriously

sounds like an utterly fucked up situation-time to cut the cord

Like a friend to friend, it is a game, i must say it

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