People that are always "changing" are weak personality types:
 

I dont have a need to "change" anything in my life and i never have. i have always been happy with who i am and what i have around me.

people who feel like the need to always be changing or adding things into their life will never be happy. these types of people are always looking for an external change rather then an internal change to try to make themselves happy.

At first I agreed with you 100%, but now I am not so sure.

what am i wrong about?

I couldn't disagree more... I am always changing, constantly, and I have a very strong personality. The fact that I constantly change is PART of my personality.

I'm neither seeking to find who I am nor trying to be something I'm not.

I am who I am and most people never forget me...

I should also add that I do seek internal change. I'm a Taoist so personal progression hinges on that very fact. I would argue that NOT changing begs the question... what have YOU achieved if you're still the same after all these years?

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you are talking about growing and not changing.

i am the same person i was 10 years ago and 10 years before that.

i am always expanding and growing, to many people have external things that represent them.

Brilliant :1orglaugh:1orglaugh

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hey look at me i can post smilies in a thread because i have nothing of intelligence to say! im almost as cool as you!

LMAO :thumbsup

Brilliant :1orglaugh:1orglaugh

Growing is changing... by its very definition...

Changing personality is for women ...

not even close.

something doesnt have to change to grow.

change:
to make the form, nature, content, future course, etc., of (something) different from what it is or from what it would be if left alone: to change one's name; to change one's opinion; to change the course of history.


growing is still having the same substance at its core.

i dont think fletchxxx appreciates you calling him a woman! :1orglaugh

Nearly LOL I thought I wouldnt have to write anything but I was laughing at the fact you didnt get the humour behind the comment about "at 1st i agreed but now im not so sure"
but anyway. Im a lover not a fighter

its called narrow minded. Wont bring you far.

This is now just an issue of semantics but I would say.... if something has grown, it has changed... I doubt anyone would disagree with that statement...

Like an erection ?

i agree with the idea of external to internal change, but for there to be internal change that would have to impact the external

What about a butterfly...?

I've seen cases like this. I know a woman that has been married 3 times in the last 10 years and she has changed her religion from Christian to Muslim to Jewish. She always adopts the religion of her husband. I don't understand her.

MetaMan thread = instant sig views. Click bitches...

I have a weak personality type and need to change this license out of my hands...

a butterfly doesnt go out and get a new more expensive wings, call up its girlfriend butterflies to complain about male butterflys, grab a magazine and try out this months new fad diet.

I change my underwear from time to time.

hilarious :1orglaugh

Everything in life that you experience changes you... period...

If you shot yourself in the foot with a loaded weapon, you'd better be more careful next time. If you had a kid in that period I guarantee you've changed... If you adopted a pet, if you watched a TV show, if you LEARNED ANYTHING during a period you have forever changed...

You will make decisions differently, you will attach new and different emotions to stimuli, and genetically you have definitely changed...

To say you haven't changed is one of the most ridiculous statements I have ever heard...

food/shelter/drinks & vagina are the only things i need to survive

i need not be "someone else" to obtain them

i think some people need to remind themselves of that

their little pretentious lives & pretentious friends equate to nothing in the end :2 cents:

are you honestly that fucking thick that you cannot understand the difference?

use your fucking head for 2 seconds.

put down your fucking camel cigarettes it must be clouding your vision of the screen because you honestly cannot be this stupid.

It's pretty simple really there are two types of people out there.

The first is me and how fucking amazing I am.

The second are people trying to change up who they are to be like me, but it's always a fail

I may be wrong, but I don't necessarily think he's talking about that sort of thing.

I think he means the people who sort of... they're so bored that they think of things to do and ways to be solely to do it or to please others, not because it feels right or their experiences have led them there.

It does seem to be more common in females, but I have met guys who have changed their entire personality/look/interests for a girl or to have a "niche" of their own to make themselves feel special.

If that makes sense. Natural change/growth is a part of life, but forced change just means you're unsatisfied or insecure, IMO.

thank you, it feels good when people actually have a brain around here.

i knew this one girl who would always be cutting her hair, coloring her hair, changing styles, always in the mall getting new clothes, and is always on a fad diet.

she is so mixed up with her life i feel sorry for her.

people that feel the need to always be changing are weak people. it is as simple as that. i am confident with myself and i dont need changes to feel like a better person because i already know i am.

Wow, I love how you resort to personal insults when you don't get your way. I can see that you have no reason to change, that personality trait is perfect!

Unlike SarahLLO you didn't bother defining what type of change you're talking about... SarahLLO makes sense and bothered explaining something you couldn't perhaps?

I just have this thing about blanket sweeping statements like you made originally:

"I dont have a need to "change" anything in my life and i never have. i have always been happy with who i am and what i have around me."

Saying something like this means that you've decided that you're perfect and that you don't need to change. Perfection is impossible and anyone that says they're perfect in any idea, skill, or trait is saying that they've stopped progressing, they no longer look to change or even consider other ideas. This is the epitome of ignorance...

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