Do your inlaws hate you because you're in porn?
 

Do your inlaws hate you because you're in porn?

Mine do.

According to a couple of my inlaws, one VERY "Holier than thou" person, I / We / "The industry" are involved in ALL ALL ALL of the following:

- Taking advantage of women
- Drugging girls to do porn
- Break up marriages
- Contribute to the popularity of street drugs
- Responsible for EVERY break up.
- Make men cheat on their wives
- Responsible for CP
- Responsible for the abuse of children from priests
- and on, and on and on...

You should have heard this woman. I just let her rant on and on. I wish I had recorded her and put her up on Youtube or something like that. "INTERNET PORN CAUSES THE CLERGY TO ABUSE CHILDREN!".

What was even worse is that her husband wasn't sayng or doing a damn thing to stop her. I know he doesn't agree with anything she was saying but he's just too much of a wuss to stand up to her.

I am emailing her a picture of tub girl.

Anyone have any ideas on how to handle this?

You're an adult right? Politely tell her to get the fuck outta your face....It's not like she pushed you out of her own vagina.

Sounds like she is a devout catholic defending her faith which has been severely damaged. That would make her then blame God which she can't do because then he would not be omnipotent. So she blames it on pornographers, because heck, everyone hates a pornographer.
Duke

You're upset that the husband did not stop her from speaking her mind, all in the same post about how porn does not take advantage/degrade women?

LOL.

What did your wife say about the matter being that it was her family making all those crazy accusations?

Hi Sly,

Of course she's allowed to speak her mind. What I should have said was that she was stating all kinds of things that MEN do BECAUSE of porn. I know the guy and he enjoys his pictures and videos once in a while but offered no opinion whatsoever.

Did she mention that men masturbate because of porn? That's the most important after effect!

My in-laws don't know and I prefer it stay that way.

There is no point in trying to convince these morons.

I'd punch her right in her whore mouth.

Sell him a membership, he's shopping/hinting for a discount. :thumbsup

Nope, they simply hate me in general... but the feeling is mutual so all is good.

i know the feeling, i got a mother in law just like that LOL

They do not hate me but they are not thrilled about what I do. No big thing though.

...we just don't "talk about it"

Send her 2 pics of tub girl?
My inlaws are Irish & Catholic. They don't seem to be against what I do, but never ask about it. The closest they ever come is when my father in law asks 'How's business?'

No one in my family knows I write in the adult sector. I tell them I make a lot of money giving technical advice on a forum.

With my new job and us not being so tight on $$.

They love that fact I'm in porn. My wife hates it though lol

My ex mother in law always thought I was the devil, even before she found out what I did for a living... but once she found out what I did for a living.......

She prayed for me LMAO

-Loki-

nah, they hate me cause I'm an asshole

No, they are appreciative of the fact that I can support their daughter well.

I would have screamed
"WE EAT BABIES TOO!!!"


spaz

:1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh

I haven't actually worked in decades.
I always have a drink in my hand.
My sense of humor makes me say/do inappropriate things all the time.
They know I do sick shit to their little girl.
I have a condo in a nudist resort.
I'm 22 years older than she is.
We aren't married, but i have been married twice before.

For some reason her parents (who are divorced themselves) absolutely love me.

Go figure! :)


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No... them and my immediate family live vicariously through me...

talking to them about it was your first mistake.

I bet the reason she's all bent out of shape is that she used to do something "shameful." Maybe she was a whore. Maybe she performed in a burlsque revue.

And maybe . . . just maybe . . . she once did porn! :1orglaugh

I guess her prayers were not answered. lol to hell with her haha

:2 cents:

I couldn't give a fuck what any relatives think of me. They are all jealous because I work at home in a pair of shorts while they slave at their shitty 9-5 jobs. Sucks to be them.

I don't give a damn about what they think... if they want to pay all my bills then i might consider quiting this biz... otherwise I will keep on going...

:1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh

oh my God - the funniest thing I heard there was "INTERNET PORN CAUSES THE CLERGY TO ABUSE CHILDREN!".


I almost pissed myself on that one... seems the internet is MUCH MUCH older then we thought it was.... LOL

He probably didn't want to stand up to her then go home to her look at his internet history. :1orglaugh:1orglaugh

mark, my ex-wife's mother was VERY much like that.


notice I said ex-wife.

I hope you wife doesn't buy into any of that drivel....

sex is no sin, crime or to be ashamed of. of course most of the world still thinks it so.

next time.. just look her straight in the face and after a few secs of silence.. just say "Om nom nom" a few times. A la Cookie Monster style!

Pretty sure you'll all get a kick out if it


ps. saying that cause since you or your other said it, it's something I havn't stopped saying. damn you!

Say it gives you dirty things you can try on her daughter who amazingly looks just like her mom in her younger years.

My mother in law only knows that I make money on the interenet. Beyond that she has no clue.

My second marriage ended over it... my in-laws only referred to me as "scumbag"... The funny fucking thing about it is that they were broke ass motherfuckers and they had an $800/month weed habit. I have never seen anyone smoke that much weed. My mother-in-law worked as a supervisor for Michigan Friend of the Court and was in charge of handling enforcement for child support...

Hi Mark I totally understand your feeling. In 1998 I was one of the first in Montreal producing live show on the internet (I said in Montreal for thoses who will come with their 1992 lol). And once a TV network came to my office do a report and it was broadcasted at the news of 17h and 22h ans she was watching that channel all time (TQS now V). So we were all at home and at 16h50 I announced her the whole thing. :1orglaugh

After that everything changed and she come up with almost all the story your people told you and 6 month after I had to move out cause I couldnt handle it anymore. I stopped everything in 2005 I think, it's took her 2 year to believe that I stopped. Now I'm distributing sex toys and no way that I'll tell her that. I'm actually working on some site that will require me to produce some contents etc and now I dont know how I will handle this because if I tell her she gonna probably tell me that I lied to her 4 year ago. I guess I'll cros the bridge when I get there...

But the point is that if we are in this industry it's because we like it and there's no point to change for the others.

Mine love me but they also don't know I am in porn. I honestly don't know how they would react. They don't fully understand the whole workings of the internet anyway and they get their views from the British tabloid press (The Sun). So, I am sure it could go badly.

My family knows as even the pastors at my church - both aren't exactly happy with it, but they understand it's a means to support my kids and family. They also understand that I am NOT content itself or am with content but basically in administrative role.

They could give all the reasons Mark suggested but are wise enough to realize that porn will be there even if I wasn't but also that there are other things outside of porn that destroy family's such as alcohol - gambling - or for that case, the opposite sex since cheating on your spouse happens at the office or anywhere.

Porn is a tool - put in the wrong hands can be used negatively, but in the right hands can help and relieve tension to those who don't have other means.

Assuming that CP is acceptable to anyone is like saying creating alcohol in beer facilities supports drunk driving and wife beating or aircraft manufacturer's are guilty for 9-11

my entire family knows what I do and have no problem with it. My gf's family on the other hand have no idea and I will keep it that way for specific reasons.

peoples perception of being "in the industry" is retarded.

I have friends ask me all the time to "set the up with a website" like its some easy money. then i have others who take a step back and think I am such a horrible person for ever being involved.

its easier just to keep things quiet IMO, I tell most people that I do "online advertising" (outside of my SEM agency)

My family and big percentage of my Friends know what i m doing, i never felt the need of hiding, cuz i would love to stand behind the things i do,

actually i never got really very serious reaction until now and due to i m a persuasive person, My Explanation would end wit convincing to them.

My Basic Arguments are mostly:

1. is watching porn is ok but, Building site is wrong?

2. i proud the things i do,

3. i m a Webmaster and building websites only,

4. i m not involved with the content side etc.

if i need to extend the list, i m using the argument, there are models who work in this biz professionally etc, etc :thumbs up:

My inlaws hate me because I am fucking their daughter...or at least I was before I married her. :1orglaugh

10% of the internet is porn, it's not some oddball thing.

When I was young she used to say nasty things like that.
22 years later my GF's mother loves me no matter what and even gives her own daughter a verbal ass whoopin' if she's not nice to me.

But I agree on people giving you shit based on prejudice when you are in this business ,as they have formulated it in their own minds, due to lack of better information sources.