Good guys get no attention
 

so a while ago I took a night and commented in 50 threads - all POSITIVE

no one cared.

then I shit on a few threads and everyone got their bee in a bonnet.

conclusion.

if you want attention - don't be nice :2 cents:

negative attention is generally easier to get than positive attention, but positive attention is far more satisfying

If your willing to accept bad also coming back to yourself and want to trade for attention, ya sure... i believe in karma ;-)

:2 cents::thumbsup

On friday I met up with a girl I really like, who is recently single. She was with 2 of my other friends.

I brought a hot date with me, tall brunette, very nice D cups, thin waist, very pretty face.

I made out with her for half an hour while grinding her on the dance floor in front of the other girl.


Sunday I met up with the girl I really like again, again through friends at another club. She completely ignored me and I had to dance and grind with her friend. She then grabbed the ugliest, old black guy with a huge gap between his teeth and started dancing and sitting with him all night.

My other friends, not knowing about Friday, were all like "WTF?"


I had to laugh that she would try to make me jealous with that dude, especially when he kept trying to kiss her and she pulled away.

Then I get a text message the next day about how uncomfortable I made that guy, and her other male friend. No shit, I am the king of the jungle and they knew it.

I think she's butthurt that I made out with a really hot chick in front of her on Friday. Total dick move, but hey...


Better to be a dick and be called an asshole, than to be a nice guy and be forgotten.

I'm sure I'll see her again. Going to invite her to a concert coming up.

You have way to much time on your hands, do some work.

Bee In A Bonnet? That's a new one.

Thanks SO much for the tip, excellent research you do.

I didn't see this part, you commented in 50 threads in one night?


Damn.

fuck yeah. you put it in perspective. I always thought what the hell was wrong with me, always being so nice and nobody noticing :D

exactly - but I pee on you ONE TIME and you remember it for YEARS.......

good advice lol :)

:1orglaugh

Are you serious? That phrase has been used in various forms since the 1800's.

http://www.phrases.org.uk/meanings/59775.html

Meaning:

1. Preoccupied or obsessed with an idea.
2. If someone is very excited about something, they have a bee in their bonnet.

pretty much, you will be remembered for all the bad things you have done, not the good things.

years ago when i was with my ex-gf i planned a really nice anniversary dinner for her. when she got home from work, there was rose peddles all over the floor, kitchen, bedrooms, etc. made a really nice meal, had wine, blah blah blah.

well while we were eating, I reached over to grab something off the table and knocked a half full glass of wine on the table and her jeans.

never heard one thing about how romantic the mood was, the meal, how i spent all day putting it all together.. no, just that i ruined a pair of her jeans and we need to get a new table cloth.

months later she would bring it up every time some store had jeans on sale... "remember when you spilled that glass of wine on my jeans? i think i need another pair encase you do it again ha ha"

:mad::mad:

your retard shows stronger in the mean posts better than the nice ones.

Only one that craves attention from people they really shouldn't care about, would care.

The thread about your favorite male bath-house burning down ... was that you being good guy, bad guy, or gay guy? ..... :1orglaugh


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so what you're saying is over the years you were just being an attention whore, its nice to see you finally admitted it.

if you go against the grain you stand out