Monogamy in a Relationship
 

Could you be faithful to one woman for life and never lie to her or cheat on her? Or would you be like President Clinton, Gov Sanford, Tiger Woods, and the rest of the unfaithful adulterers? If a total babe wanted to bang you and you could be sure that the wife/GF would NEVER know about it, would you?

I'd involve the gf/wife in the banging of the total babe. Win-win situation.

And no, I wouldn't date a girl who wouldn't be open-minded to this.

Nothing wrong with that.

I get off on not cheating. Like I never cheated on Caroline when I was her boyfriend. I still have her pillow heart and Playboy cologne that she bought me as presents on Valentine's day. I still have the Dracula plate, too.

We had a lot of fun with Caroline. We really did.

We went to Woodbine Casino, we went to Aren't We Naughty's to buy halloween costumes and we went to Eaton's Centre and some other places.

P.S.

I do not consider getting lap dances from strippers a form of cheating. After all, it's not sex - it's just a dance. Besides, Caroline was working as a stripper herself at the time.

And she is not a prostitute, she told me so herself. She really isn't.

Strippers are not prostitutes. A lap dance is not sexual relations.

I don't feel like going to strip clubs ever again.

No matter with how many women you sleep with, you'll always be faithful to one woman... your mother.

:2 cents:

most people are as faithful as their options, seeing people that stand no chance brag about how they would never cheat even if women would throw themselves on him is pathetic

WTF? FatFoo, man, get on some meds. :1orglaugh

My girl is amazing I don't need and I don't want any other girls... :)

I think not cheating makes one proud of oneself!

if you chit you eat clit

Just so you men know, we ALWAYS find out!

isn't it hard to find one who is open minded to this and doesn't have major issues? thats been my experience. its hard to find a 'normal' girl who will let you bang other girls and typically you'll have to let her bang other guys as well.

Not really... our swinger club has 36,000 members. :2 cents:

Yes... I let my wife "bang" other guys. The honest truth is... that most guys that are insecure about that are insecure about alot of things. I have learned that you don't own your wife or girlfriend and they will be with you as long as they want to and no longer. My job is to be a great husband and father, foremost, and my wife and I enjoy our sex life together much like we enjoy vacations together or anything else that we experience together. Our relationship is based on trust, communication and love rather than sex. I don't expect you to understand though. ;)

Hate to disappoint you, but, no you don't. :2 cents:

What Would Gene Simmons Do?
http://www.ktla.com/news/landing/ktl...,2193923.story

Most have major issues, whether they are sexually open minded or not.

From my life experiences, I think it's fair to say that the more open minded people are in general, the less issues they tend to have. :2 cents:

no no no :2 cents:

you are as faithful as your options, exactly as escortbiz says

I am with you on this and less so on your next post. A few threesomes a year keeps me feeling like I am out there without having to be out there so it works for me.

I don't do the cheating thing. Once you are to that point, it is better to move on.

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sex is fun, in my opinion cheating is lying and hiding. I do not lie to my wife even when I really REALLY want to. To us sex is way down the list of important concerns. Trust is the top.

we celebrated our 22 wedding anniversary on Dec 11 2009 so its working for us and we are very much in love with each other


spaz

Leykis 101 right there. :thumbsup

That's not neccessarily true.

I am not taking any medication and I do not need to.

I also enjoy letting my girlfriend go with other men.

I've dated strippers and would beg to differ

"No adulterers shall inherit the Kingdom of God" - 2 Corinthians

"I'm a surgical nurse at a hospital in Phoenix, Arizona. We have lots of near-death cases there, and almost all of them are the negative kind. You know what I mean people who wind up in hell!"

- P.M.H. Atwater Ph.D - (92 Journal of Near-Death Studies)

It can be dad too...

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most people never get to into the swinger thing until later in life. i don't know if its boredom or maturity hell yeah, i am insecure. anyone who is actually willing to be honest with themselves has to admit it. trusting someone leaves you vunerable. anyone at anytime can violate that trust and you may never know it. its a hard thing and definitely not black and white like you want to think.

This is nothing more than a transparent justification for cheating. I've had plenty of guys try to talk me into cheating on various BFs, and I've never done it because I'm not a shithead.

because they didnt catch you at the right moment and or they where junk compared to what you had OR you are made up of other DNA, women way more reserved then you fell into a trap, your attempt at trying to sound non human makes you sound stupid.

I dont know you so dont take it personal but seriously anyone who says they would never cheat is full of shit

I tried many times before and somehow fail everytime

Where do you find all these women that are into this?

But... I wouldn't. If I want to cheat, I feel that the relationship is over for me anyhow, so what would be the point of leading on the person I'm in a relationship w/and screwing around? It makes no sense.

I'm not trying to sound inhuman, I'm just saying that to me, it sounds like you guys are just trying to come up with excuses for why you can't keep it in your pants. If you actually care about the other person involved, you wouldn't throw it away for some random chick, and if you're cheating because you've fallen in love with a new person and aren't interested in the old person, why waste their time by leading them on? This isn't rocket science, dude.

One guy is more than enough for me so I've not felt the need to cheat, but I do think women are less prone to cheating than men "overall" based on various biological and social issues.

As a bisexual female (since I was old enough to be any kind of sexual, and now I'm 30 so I'm not exactly sowing wild oats anymore)... I do feel the urge to hook up with a girl now and again. This is a huge plus for my guy (of course) and he has always said that if he met a girl in a bar that was coming on to him he would call and ask if he could bring her home... and I would most likely say yes. :)

I think I can...

very true :thumbsup

Why do you assume that an unwillingness to have one's wife fucking other men would stem from insecurity?

people are always going on about trust an insecurity. well, in reality the only way to be completely secure is to have no emotional connection at all and not care if you lose the person tomorrow or 40 years from now. people seem to think the only way to be happy is to be a robot. i just don't get it. you're human, you have insecurities, you can get jealous you can get pissed, etc. be honest withyourself..

Women are different than men. While I agree that "MEN are as faithful as their options", this simply isn't the case for women. If it was, practically NO women could leave the house and come home again without fucking three or four guys. Yeah, they have THAT many options.

Women invest more emotionally into sex than guys do and I believe most of them when they say they wouldn't cheat. Men are another matter.

I must say though, it's refreshing to see guys say that they'll let their women fuck other men. Usually these threads consist of guys talking about having threesomes with their wife and another woman, but at the same time cringe at the thought of their woman with another man.

No. You are wrong. EscortBiz knows the mind of every single human being on the planet better than they do, so you must be. :1orglaugh

:thumbsup well put.

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If always = about 50% of the time then sure

You don't know people as well as you think you do. Seems to me, you're a little too sure of yourself and base your judgements of everyone else on your own morals. I wouldn't cheat on Perrie in a million years. Dude, you have never been in a relationship that meant anything if you have the view you have.

Me and Perrie share other girls together, but we never ever have guys involved. Lucky for me, it's what Perrie wants. The ONLY reason we have threesomes is because Perrie wants them. If one of us did, and the other didn't, it simply wouldn't happen. She was the one who suggested it, and she's the one who makes the final call on girls we fuck. If I was into guys too, I'd have guys involved of course. But I'm not. Perrie just gets the best of both with us doing what we do.

That's a terrible conclusion! It's utterly untrue. Most guys don't want their girl having sex with other guys, much like most girls don't want their guy having sex with other girls. It's not insecurity. It's that most people aren't into it. Simple.