Terminally Ill
 

So I have been hitting the casino a bit more since it is down time for sales, and scheduling models from Nov-early Jan. It's been nice to get out and away from the computer for stints, as well as socializing with the general public.

Anyway, so on the third shift there is this pit boss, floor boss, whatever who has been flirting with me for weeks. The other day we get to talking about work and things and she slips me the digits.

We are talking back and forth a bit over a few days and it's leading up to some sex and frisky fun. Then she keeps bringing up "secrets". I do not really have any. However, she has a big one.

She has in inoperable brain tumor, and just had another cancerous turmor removed 6 weeks ago, plus has them all through her intestinal tract. She is, apparently right now, can still function more a less normally. But she is essentially looking for some sex, and someone to be with until the end. She refuses to let the doctors tell her how much longer she has to live, but she knows it is not all that long.

She confesses that typically when she tells men this, or friends, she loses them. No one wants to get to know her (she feels) since she will be gone soon.

Would you fuck her six ways from Sunday until the end, or simply be one of the many that say, "Damn", and turn your back?

I would do her! But that aint saying much, I would do anything so long as there is a little life left! :(

First, let me say glad it's not you. I thought you were terminally ill by the thread title.

I think it depends on what type of person you are. Will being with her til the end be tough on you? Do you handle death well? If you don't I'd stay away. If you do then I guess go for it.

Thanks man. Appreciate the kind words.

I have been surrounded by death all my life. So I have mixed feelings on it.

I feel very sad that people, reasonably so, do not want to get to know someone who's clock is truly ticking (she is only 37). So they simply do not want to put themselves in that position.

All energy carries forth, show her the love and attention she needs, if you really like her and even feel for a minute she is worth the hardship of losing her, the universe will be a better place for it. Your life will be better for it. Give her the attention she deserves right now and show her that her life will not fade unforgotten.

good words. really depends on your mindset of her before you knew and now. is this question a struggle or simply a venue to share an experience?

Did you want to get to know her more than flirting? or even fucking at that point...

If so then thats a big answer there. If you not then dont lead into a pity thing.

Is she looking for a relationship or just some cock n toe sucking?

:thumbsup

Indeed.

You can't live your life in fear of losing someone. You have to enjoy the time you are given, and make the most of it.

:2 cents:

She probably doesn't have cancer, she's just trying to dump you... :winkwink:

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Happy New Year, Bearfeetsez!!!

ADG

Thanks. Back atcha.

It's not that surprising to me. Most people when confronted by death either try to avoid the person at all costs or they patronise the person to the extreme, effectively treating the person like a baby.

What I choose to do is to treat the person the way I would like to be treated, as normal as possible through the end.

You can only do what you can handle. If you think you're strong enough to do that for her I think that would be a very noble thing for you to do.

:2 cents:Great words indeed

Now theres a toe pic i find entertaining :thumbsup

they are nice lil toes too :winkwink:

Happy New Year!

If I wanted to blow a huge wad of green, I'd go to a strip club over a casino.

Only anal.

LOVE your avatar, dude!

Well put.

Yep give her the love she needs.

Ive been with 2 chicks that have claimed they are dying of cancer. One was a big and beautiful and the other was close to 40. I was 22 at the time.

Seemed pretty legitimate so I took one for the team. Twice

No regrets I had a good time :thumbsup

I would fuck her silly for about a week.

Why dont you arrange a gangbang for her.
Seriously, set up a sling where she can just lay there and guys can line up and fuck her.
She'll love it, the guys will love it, and she'll have an incredible fantasy sex experience to remember.

Thats what I would do if I was dying, invite everyone to line up and fuck me.

You can look at it two ways. You can be with her for caring, support, love or whatever that everyone else has failed to be. Or you can be with her for the sake of doing extra kinky shit that a normal person wouldn't do because what difference does it make if she's going to die soon anyways? Both lead to yes. :thumbsup

And yes the 2nd half of that is facetious - it's up to you and what you feel is best to do. If she expects whoever stays with her to be a slave for her until the end, that's not really fair to you, but if it's just to have some caring/compassionate mate while she's in her waning moments, then why not do it?

does she have nice toes?

maybe that should be put into the formula

It would depend on what her feet looked like. I am a "woman worshipper" though, If she was fun and it was a discussed before arrangement, I would do it. Especially if she was a cool chick.

ooooh, what a good way of looking at it :thumbsup

My thoughts also.

That depends, man. Do you like her enough and think you can cope with it? I can't see how I could leave someone I cared for, especially when they needed me most, but in the end it's up to you.

"The harlot's pathways lead straight to hell. Down to the chambers of death" - Proverbs 7

I love the way that women's feet smell. Am I going to hell for that? Please advise

Why not show her the time of her life? She's obviously lonely and has felt rejection before and is only looking for some fun before the end.
If her friends are turning away, then be there for her. Death is unpleasant, but moreso when a person dies a lonely death.

It's only love.

Yikes, that's a tough one!
You are a good person and will make the right decision that is best for you.
I personally would be willing to stay with them until the end if it meant a short lived yet happy experience before hand. Sometimes the smaller things in life teach you how to appreciate the larger ones.

Either which way, best of luck on that and best wishes to her too.

I call lie... watch "Fight Club".

I watched someone die of cancer, my stepfather went from wearing a XL shirt to a med when he died. It was tough to take, but I was there everyday making sure that my folks had anything they needed. I lived near them at the time.
The weird thing I noticed was how everyone changed around him during his sickness and decline. I think if you do this, clear the air with her and see exactly what she expects, then make up your mind if you can live with it
Good Luck

You know, I have actually been reading the anti cancer, tumor effects of certain veggies, and found...
http://www.naturalnews.com/000684.html
http://www.cancer.org/docroot/ETO/co...X_Broccoli.asp
http://bastyrcenter.org/content/view/485/

Wow, just wow - my nan, auntie, uncle and dad died of cancer with all of us around them - I really can't think of anything worse than having no one around you at the end.

This heart felt, intelligent and sincere reply is somewhat a rareity on GFY but such a pleasing change.

Take her hand bf, love her care for her and be there until the end.

Don't give her money...