Fighting for my son...
 

so my gf moves out, she was on anti depressants, and smoking weed, she is now with some other guy no proof but she sleeps on the couch and he sleeps on the mattress so she says...

now she is telling me she is going ot fight for him.. says good luck winning.. i do porn for a living.. i dont even know where to start to fight over him.

that really sucks. good thing adult is more "mainstream" than it used to be. I would say it really depends on where you live. Bible belt will rule differently than a court in L.A.

But I don't do it when he is around so why should it matter?

You're fucking retarded.

look whos talkling

explain to me please.

She does drugs and that's ok but you are in Porn and that is a bad thing? Don't let her scare you stand your grounds.

shes going to fight and take my son from me.. in case the post didnt make sense.

I went through similar issues and in the end prevailed. The judge really had no issue with what I do for a living as long as I had a LOCKED office that my son couldn't get into and everything was kept outside of the "home"...even work calls have to go through my office or cell. Outside of that, there were no issues w/ the work I do.

Just start keeping a journal of her behaviors, things your son reports, etc. Having dates and times and everything documented or logged will be an enormous help to your case.

she says... do you want to do this maturly or take this to court.. while standing in my kitchen and raging at me.. yet again. I was scared to answer the damn question.

and than she says.. fuck this.. bring it on.

thanks I will do all of the above.

I too work in porn and I too have a son.

I have full 100% custody of my son. As advised keep notes on everything she does and says. Don't worry about your job as it is a legit form of LEGAL income. Your job also gives you advantages over those with normal 9 to 5 jobs, and I used those in court as well... I.m home everyday to take my son to school, pick him up and help him with his day to day living, not having to send him through daycare or using any 'state provided funding' to raise him.

She's threatening you and trying to scare you away from doing whats right for the child.

she sold our 1 of our cars when I was away so now I have no car.. and she says Morgan needs to go to daycare and if i can't bring him than he cant stay with me.

fuck I been home for 1month, had all these bills to pay and Ill have a car asap.. so not fair.

thanks for listening.. i need to vent. :(

Excellent advice! :thumbsup

your whole life is one continual shitpile of drama man.

wake the fuck up.

If she do drugs ... no court in any place of the planet will see it with good eyes, keep in mind that YOU don't do anything ilegal SHE does! :2 cents:

I think the fact that you "ran away" to Thailand for a month or whatever it was hurts you more than "being in porn", which you aren't... you do Internet marketing and Web consulting for various companies. Forget the porn part. Make sure you have a stable environment for your son, meaning steady income and the basics required for life.

He is your son, not hers. You'll get him. Don't worry about it and start getting your ducks in row.

she used to before Ive gotten with her and she admitted to doing it behind my back at her friends house all the time.. which i just found out recently.. my only comment was.. on anti-depressants and smoking weed and going out to drink.. and you wonder why its not working.. grrr.

apparently she doesnt do it anymore.. but fuck she lies for a living.

She does drugs, no chance to win so dont worry just be yourself and fight for your son :thumbsup

No you are the retard selling cheap ass domains. :pimp

magnificent avatar :1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh

and awesome quote :thumbsup

Worry about all the people you owe money to

how is going away on vacation for 3weeks to train a bad thing.. she uses that against me as well of coarse.

What I'm saying is she will use it, and so will her lawyer (if she gets one.)

It will look like this:

Fucksakes randomly decided to abandon his son for three weeks on a trip to the prostitute capital of the world. This type of behavior is not evidence of a loving father that will always be available for his son, like he is trying to portray. When will he do this again? What will he do with his son during this time? Will he take his son to Thailand and runaway?

you sound like my ex.

Call child services and the police. Have her take a piss test. Case closed.

You need to focus on her psychosis and the fact that she sleeps on a couch.

These days it comes down to who provides and who is sane. Ive seen multiple fathers get custody from our industry.

Your ex is spitting venom, Stress yourself not and get a lawyer if you can. She has nothing!

Uh, that was the point.

hehe I know.. but yeah thats 100% her, so fucking annoying.

This is a truly fucked up country if building websites featuring naked people would make someone more unfit as a parent than doing drugs and being manic depressive. Seems like if you do porn, you are the fucking devil in this backwoods Victorian age culture we call America.

He probably meant that you should hire a family law attorney and keep your personal business off of GFY.

Thats what I would have meant, when I was thinking the same thing.

wonder what her side sounds like.

Well if I was made of millions, id def do that.. but since I am not.. I am hoping ppl here who do the same business as I and have won cases themselves can give me advice.. before I do anything stupid.. if I got a losing case than looks like I am going to have to play nice with the bitch.

She doesnt sound like someone you can keep it civil with. Do yourself a favor and shop for a good attorney.

If you dont cover your own ass, nobody is going to do it for you. Nice guys lose.

Don't make kids with crazy ass bitches. :winkwink:

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her side..

I wish I could repeat what she says.. really wish I could.

but yeah maybe she sees things different from her pov.

don't worry thou, I lay here for hours and blame myself for tons of stuff.

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I am not emotionally stable Danny. I? having a hard time but things need to change for real. I don?t like myself and didn?t like myself while I was with you. I must of made myself that way. I do miss you and did miss you while you were gone. I have a lot of anger towards a you and I resent you for a lot of things. I cant, we cant continue to have a bad relationship. Honestly Danny, WTF do you miss?? Tell me please,..

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Its really hard for me to take you seriously Dan, honestly, you made sure that I knew how bad of a person I was. Like im mentally disabled and blind like not seing how much you do for me..and stuff.. I made myself believe that I was crazy and that I needed anti depressants to make sure I watch what I do and say so I don?t get you mad, or even upset.. also, we had trust issues big time.. not that I can take away the things that I have done but you need to understand that you, also, have played with me. Several times you have threatened to leave, some other times you left, made me cry, made me beg for your forgiveness.. How?s it that LOVE?




I got thousands of emails.. good and bad ones.

You have e-mails from her admitting that she is mentally unstable? Does she have e-mails from you saying something similar?

sounds fucked up. good luck.

Hit me via email. I've been through custody hell. After three bloody years I did not lose my children...but a ton of money and most of my mind. How relevant the advice I can offer to your case is..well, it is anyone's guess...but I am most happy to talk to you. You should certainly discuss this with folks who have been through it.

Cheyenne

dude. get a mod to ban yourself. never post any shit on any board again. get a stable non-porn job. keep your nose clean and get a good lawyer. straighten the fuck up.

Hopefully you will be able to work out custody without fighting in court. You need an attorney for advice. Get a consultation with one, for a couple hundred bucks. You will need to give them a retainer if you have to fight. Remember, she does not own your kid. Courts now understand the need to have Dad in the picture just as much as mom. If you are an involved Dad it really helps your case.

If she has a new man, she only wants your money. She probably does not want the burden of full custody (this will interfere with her new love and lifestyle), she is probably bluffing. If you can afford to, offer her to pay child support as though you are just a weekend Dad, even though you want 50% custody. If you want custody, you need to buy it. You are going to pay either way. If you fight, you pay and you may lose. If you pay enough, you can get the outcome you want and the money actually goes to your kid (or kids mom) instead of buying a new boat for your attorney.

End of, forget this crap, she is attention seeking. Lots of women do this. She would threaten to do this and do that, if you do not bite, nothing shall come of it.

I have learnt an important lesson in life over the past 4 or 5 years.

Love yourself, love your wife, treat everyone around you fairly. Then let what ever happens around you happen unless you can prevent anything bad happening without controlling any situation.

If she threatens anything to you, either say nothing, or "ok, if thats how you want it"


You shall either lose her and your child for a short period or more probably everything shall be resolved as you are not creating an atmosphere.

If you want her, tell her. Good luck with your troubles..... Always here for advice or to listen man :thumbsup

You do not need to change occupations. Make NO apologies for how you support your family!!!!! Forget completely about being on the defense. You should stop posting here. Seriously. See if you can get this thread deleted. Unless someone has been through this, they do not know a donkey's ass from a hole on their face. Again, contact me privately. [email protected], 401-640-2446.

Cheyenne

how do I get a thread deleted... dont see this making anything worst thou.

invite her over for a drink to discuss the situation. when she finally pisses, scoop some of her piss out of the toilet into a cup. kick her out and laugh in her face while you package up her piss to be sent to a lab.

The best advice I can give is get a good attorney right away. Stand your ground and don't let her bullshit threats intimidate you. Best of luck.

this is exactly what I meant by, "keep your personal business off of GFY"

he's making hardly any money in adult anymore anyway by his own admission. he needs to get a steady income. what looks better to the judge - working full time at home depot or whatever or begging for piecemeal internet porn work off gfy?

anyway good luck.