How can I cure my woman of:
 

Saying "penis" and "vagina"... I've never been with someone who says those words, before..

you're dating a whore

Everyone I've dated says that. Do you date chicks that say dick and pussy?

Yeah, shit like that, cock, pussy, snatch, shit like that
My ex called it her kitty but she was a broken

Instead of asking her not to say those words, tell her the words you would like to hear her say. Like, "It really turns me on when you say ____________". If you work at you can get it turned around.

I'm sure that I can
I already have gotten rid of some inhibitions she had

She cant say anything with your cock in her mouth, now can she?

You clearly arent doing something right.

I like the way you think
And where you live
It is so nice and clean and warm there

Only "girls" like fmltube say stuff like cock and pussy.