Do u think it is possible for someone who doesn't have a Sex Drive to work in Adult?
 

I've always wondered about it. I'm not even sure if I work in adult because of my sex drive or not, although I do think that I started working in adult because of my sex drive.

What about women? There are plenty of women working in adult. Women generally have less sex drive than men. Speak up ladies :) What's your opinion on this?

You mean that women are generally more intelligent about how and when they show their sex drive.. And are better able to prioritize it.

you will make more money with ZERO sex drive..

I prefer working with people that look at this like a business and not getting turned on by a gallery.

They're "porn actresses"...

it'd allow you to concentrate better and make more educated decisions

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IYou should always be careful not to drink to much of your own koolaid for the same reason a drug addict doesn't make the best drug dealer. :2 cents:

But yet most of us promote a niche that we like most, isn't it?

i think it is possible

I'm not personally interested in porn in the least, yet I've been designing it for ten years.
Do you have to love the smell of shit to work as a janitor? It's just business.

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I'm always fucking my monitor, had a sex drive installed a few months back... love'in it!

Good point :)

If it doesn't turn me on,I don't promote it :)

So you couldn't work without a sex drive?

the successful people in this business sell the life, they don't live it.

I'm only human,I love beautiful women,but I would fuck a rattlesnake if I could hold it down

i started with bdsm/fetish sites since i was pretty much obsessed with that stuff in the younger days, i keep up with it for the same reason no doubt for over 10years :thumbsup

I think you need a biz head to succede in any bussiness whether its porn or not. Sex drive has nothing to do with it but an intrest in what you are trying to sell does help. :2 cents:

Like anything you are going to sell you have to have knowledge of and interest in your product or your not going to be able to sell it very good.

No sex drive would not be a bad thing being in this business. But being disgusted by sex I think would have a negative impact on your possible success..

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Yes, you can work in adult - there is a eunuch position available for you. However, you have to be castrated first.

Who says I'm not?

But we are selling porn.. Don't we need to have a sex drive to be interested in porn in the first place?

Of course not.
The world is full of people that do all kinds of jobs that they have no interest in. Why should porn be any different.

I was going to compose something like this, but really, yeah that, what MrMaxwell said. There is more pressure on women to be more careful in expressing their sex drives.

Also, if you are a prude, it seems like slanging smut on the internet would be an absurd job choice, but, if you are so worked up by the product that you can't work for an hour straight, then that is also likely to be a problem.

And, uhm, yeah, don't do the product.

probably get more work done without the sex drive. my right arm hurts.

THIS :thumbsup

Good point :)

Most actresses have zero sex drive - fake tits, fake moans, fake orgasms, fake lesbianism... so uninvolved, just sheer pretense, I'm surprised there are still dumb enough surfers to pay for that shit.

quoted for truth... the guys innit who jerk off 3x a day and try to make websites don't have their 'head' in the game... i dont even realize when im looking at porn designs and banners when my wife walks in and asks me wtf i leave that on the screen for when she's in the room... i have to do a double take at my screen to realize i did indeed have some nudity on my screen...

if a widget is a widget to you... you're on the right track to succeeding NOT JUST IN PORN but any industry...

+1 exactly.

We don't sell sex. We sell fantasy. If you don't get that, then there is always room for new baristas at Starbucks.

So true. Thats actually happed to me a couple times and always causes problems. My wife isnt a fan of the industry. :)

I could care less aboutt he porn, I just love the business and making money.

No other industry can you go from zero to hero with basically no startup funds. Just takes hardwork. Although im afraid in the next year or two this will drastically change. I think startup costs will be much higher and many many less new webmasters will come in. Already has happened but nothing compared to what it will be like im afraid.

anyway I got off on a tangent.. lol

I really hope start up costs soar. If you can't afford to pay, you can't afford to play. In the real world, you need a hundred thousand dollars just to open your door. Here, any moron can be a playa for the cost of a domain name. Its pathetic.

I think it's better to promote the niche you understand most. Even with obscure niches, if it's not something you enjoy in your personal life, but you can tap into the emotional thing that makes it appeal to people, you can sell the hell out of that niche.

bingo......

Usually because they are fat turds with zero people skills and zero game. All the money in the world would not allow them to live "the life" even if they wanted to.

What good is working and making money in porn if you can fully enjoy the benefits? You may as well go sell cars.

Of course, that does not apply to everyone. I know some very well paid guys here who do live the life. Props to them. :thumbsup

I agree. If you don't understand it, or even like it, how can you sell it?

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peeps who buy porn are not stupid, they just want to be entertained. supply them with entertainment, and live your life. i will say its a lot more fun to be in front of and behind a camera than to be sitting in front of a screen all day. i think if you're not on the human side of this business you are missing out. then again there are a lot of heads in this industry that absolutely hate what they do, and its purely for the money. i'm in it for that too but i'm liking the lifestyle aspects of adult more than ever now that i'm actively involved with producing stuff hands on

What is that life and why would anyone want to live it? Personally, selling cars, selling porn, selling real estate...is just selling. "The Life" is your choice if you are successful at selling. The Grey Goose, Lambo, Pimp life is not something that I have or ever would aspire to. I think its pure trash with a little cash and no class. Gold plated trailer park.