how do you make friends
 

When you move to another State and work online and know no one there? :Oh crap

Stop being an asshole. Worked for me.

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You don't need friends. Friends can only disappoint you. Einzelganger FTW

Next you'll say that you don't need women either because they'll only disappoint you. :upsidedow

i figure there isn't much point. you'll never have new friends like the friends you have in high school. once you're older, its totally different.

I smoke weed with the windows open.

The peeps that come by are my new friends.

Be nice to people :)

Craigslist posts. Lots of people are in your situation. Just be honest with what you're looking for.

i fuck them to the anal

Most of my friendships start out as simple opportunities that grow into more.

I guess it's a lot like how biz gets down in adult -- you start off needing or wanting something from one another and it just grows as you realize you have things in common.

I leave fliers on windshields at the mall

with a photo of Goatse on them. I know. You left one on my windshield.

It's been the opposite for me. My best friends and I all came together when I was 18 to 23.

I'm Facebook friends with just about everyone from school, but I find that we have very little in common today.

Do you play golf, tennis, ski, workout? You can find people to do those things with. If you don't take some lessons, join an athletic club or a social club.

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a good little trick for traveling and surfing at aggressively localized surf breaks is to go to church. There's bound to be a couple of the heavy locals there and getting in good with them is your ticket to not catching any grief out in the line up.

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Knock on your hot neighbor's door and ask for a cup of sugar :thumbsup

I sit in the corner of my room in my underwear hissing each time the door is opened and light is let in


works for me :)


spaz

Where do you live? Most places seem to have a "downtown" area. Go walk around by yourself and explore, go to shops, cafes, and bars. Also if you like music, start going to shows. Not just big concerts but check out local bar acts. Tell people you meet that you're new in town and ask for suggestions of where to go and things to do. I'm sure it's a little easier for me as I'm a female, but I'm sure it works for guys too.

Also be cool / relaxed. Even if you only make one friend try to keep communication a 2 way street and don't jump the gun and let things get too one sided. I say this because I have a friend who is in a similar situation and is trying to meet new people. He moved away and his girl of 12 years left him a few months ago for another dude. So he's stuck in a city full of strangers, in his 30's and he's never had to re-socialize before. He works in an office so that works to his advantage but he keeps doing things like coming on too strong, sending too many texts, etc. So just remember to play it cool. Despiration is a stinky cologne.

I don't make friends...

It's not easy, great a part time job so you get out the house... it also helps if you've got a gf or married :2 cents:

my close 'real' friends, i've had for many many years. i don't see any new ones in the future. sure, me and my girl have 'couple' friends we hang out with, but it's not the same thing.

if you just want to meet new people, it's very easy: go traveling. preferably a third world country with lots of 1st world travelers. i've met and hung out with hundreds of people that way, and it all just sort of falls in your lap, no effort required. unless you're a douchebag lol.

first you need to buy a sniper rifle...then sit in your front yard cleaning it and stare at anyone who is watching you through the scope....you should have some friends soon enough

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Money can't buy friends, but you can get a better class of enemy :)

Go to some kind of social club of your interest.

Places such as: library, gym, sports club, business seminars, etc.

You can make friends with people who share your interest in a certain topic.

I've had two periods in my life in which I made a couple of friends in a relatively short time, and in both periods it was because the 'first' friend I got to know knew a lot of people and introduced me to them. Some of them knew other people and I got to know them as well. Before I knew it I got invited to all parties and birthdays and events and so on. I consider only 3 of them as real friends, but who has time for more friends.. Getting to know people through others seems to be more natural because you won't be treated or feel like a complete stranger and there are no expectations in the beginning. Plus, later on you can hang out all together from time to time. My advise to you would be; try to get to know someone who knows many people and that you really connect with and who's in a 'scene' that you feel comfortable with. If you really connect with that one person then chances are that you will also connect with more people from that group.

And what I've also learned is that there are more people looking for friends than you'd think. So even if you feel like you have some strong connection with your hairdresser, then just invite him/her over for a drink or party or whatever. Come to think of it, all the time I spend on the internet looking for friends didn't do me any good. For some reason internet has worked for me to find partners and sex partners, but never to find real friends.

Are you male or female ?

talk to people, neighbours etc.. to start, just be friendly to who ever takes your interest.

I can't help you with this one...

I count my friends on the finger of one hand.

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find some hoes online..rest is history