can anyone help with my site
 

Hi guy's this is my 1st post on gfy i am just wondering if any one can help me get more traffic to my site its a site dedicated to mature women my problem is i dont know the first thing about SEO, getting affeliates, or getting in contact with other website owners to trade links it is a pay site through ccbill and there is an affilate signup on it but i dont think anyone has signed up for it yet i have spent a hell of a lot of money getting the site up and running and it has become my full time job the only prob is im getting nothing from it. I would also like a sponser for the the but dont know how to go about getting one can any 1 help or give me any advise.

how did you get the content to start the site ... how did u even start a paysite when you know nothing lol

Welcome to GFY :thumbsup
Show us url of your site would help :)

What makes your paysite unique? Better than the competition? That is the first thing to look at. Their are so many paysites out there and you have to compete with all of them in the same niche..

PS: a url to your site would help if you want GFY advice

Why haven't you mentioned the paysite on your post. Better still, why isn't it in your sig so prospective affiliates can see it? Affiliates are, certainly, a good way of getting traffic and potential sales but you also need to offer them tools to drive the traffic. Have you created banners, FHGs, RSS Feeds, etc . . for these affiliates? You have to make it an enticing proposition for them to promote your site . . :thumbsup