How do you feel about dating any kind of models?
 

I have been dating models off and on, some photo, some video, some events, ect...

All seem to have the same flaky quality, maybe it's just me but have you noticed models seem to be flaky or forgetful on the phone or for plans? Yet act really into you when your with them.

It's not just models that are like that.

With the busy schedules a model has to work, the odd hours & trying to take all work that comes their way, I dont suspect thats really the drippy side of a woman, more the unlucky lack of commitment they can give.

As a producer, I can say that this kind of behaviour is the same also.

:1orglaugh Dont tell me... All women.... Or maybe even guys when their commitment to work is needed :2 cents:

dating models = your first mistake
asking for dating advice on gfy = your second mistake

Its you. This is only cause she doesnt like you. But when ur there.. shes trapped.

Sorry if that was harsh...


Sabby:)

This is a business; If your fucking a model your fucking someone you've hired. That's just bad business.

Very sound advice.

agree...

So what you're trying to tell us it that -- you date models.

Couldn't agree more.....never mix biz with pleasure :2 cents:

South Park episode 714 (Raisins) has the answers you seek. They act really into you to get money out of you...otherwise they probably don't give a shit about you because you're more than likely just another guy that thinks they're hot.

I feel it's impossible for a large number of reasons...

and if u dont think their hot they stick u in eternal "friend zone"... its a no-win/no-win situation. Find a fat chick and marry her or pay to play....


Sabby:)

No model is going to be into the real you... been there, done that. Seperate your business and find an intelligent girl you can take home to mom :2 cents:

So you date models..



Congrats.

you don't date models, you just take your turn with them...

a smart girl is not going to want to date a webmaster perv lol.


Sabby:)

I have dated 2 models and they were both very insecure.

I find that hard to believe, some are very different then others. You can tell if someone is caring or selfish. I never go on a second date with a selfish person.

I think this taught to us by our parents and never goes away.

I'm actually working on a blog post about this exact subject... when I am done with it I'll link to it. So far I've gotten as far as dating strippers but I'm still not done with that.

:321GFY


So all models are thick?



I wouldnt want to take a minority of GFY home to meet my parents or have as friends! :2 cents:



Love can be found in the strangest places & if someone falls in love with a tog or a model...

Hoping you dont stereotype...

There are some single women, very intelligent but no time to continue their high rise 150k careers in London & so strip in clubs like Spearmint Rhino for 80k a year.

They want to keep it private & not show themselves over the net.

maybe they are on drugs all the time when they talk on the phone...

I say date all the models you can. Have fun. Know that it is what it is. Just don't marry them. If they insist on marriage, then just give them half of everything you own and skip the formality of an actual marriage.

Quoted for truth. And if you take pictures for a living and BOAST about fucking models all the time, then you're sending out the wrong sort of signals.

Can you really generalize like this? That's like one of us asking "Should you date asshole pervert webmasters?" Lol...

My partner Joe is a webmaster/photographer and we've been together 4 years with no bullshit. And yeah, he's an actually photographer -- not just mine, but has spent most of his career in the biz shooting other chicks, usually right here in our home. Again, with no bullshit.

We live together, we work together and we just got him over cancer together. It comes down to who's in the relationship and who isn't.

2% of models have brains and a heart. Try to find that 2%.

Lots of women are basically a lot like that...... especially models because theyre not designed to be organised and efficient. Why should they be when they just sit around for a living?

Nope, I'm long winded and as a result very specific. Also trying not to piss anyone off so I've broken it down into 6 sub-categories. Should be an interesting read.

Make sure you manufacture daily drama if you want to keep them interested. The last thing a model wants to be is "happy". They love the emotional roller coaster:thumbsup

If they are caring then you are selfish... they wont go on a second date with you either.


Sabby:)

So true:winkwink:

The stereotyping here is amazing.

I've dated straight girls who come with a lot of baggage and some who did not. When shooting models you get a chance to evaluate who they are before you date them. Some you know to steer well clear of and some you don't.

I would date u paul...


Sabby:)

Between my first and second marriage I was only doing porn part time and was able to keep it a secret from most of my girl friends. Yes a couple of the girls I shot I did date.

After my second marriage broke up I was a full time pornographer and it was tough to keep it a secret. The opportunity of dating girls outside the industry dropped, did date a few but nothing lasted when they found out.

So as a single guy what was I meant to do, be celibate or date models?

I know many people in this business who dated and married models. Most seem very happy, Eva and I are approaching our 12 wedding anniversary, out friends in a similar situation are trying for their second baby and another friend has been living with his model GF for years. Dating is a mine field. Whether dating a model or secretary. :1orglaugh

I hear my husband upstairs going on a rant to my 19 yr old son about his gf.....

I'll have to undo the damage tommorrow... her dad is a lawyer.

lol.


Sabby:)

didn't you post something a few months ago about your girlfriend wanting you to give up your porn sites? guess that didn't work out and you dumped her ass?

Good memory lol, I moved to Costa Rica and date a Model now. But damn she is so flakey. I can't tell if she likes me or if she is just using me for sex, or more likely a future green card.

Sucks all I have been trying to find is someone that I think is beautiful and real.

Tough combination.

Also the other three models I have dated in the past where kind of flakey too, like forgetful. I would think they just weren't into it. But I see a pattern now with almost all the models and other there where other signs that they do.

I would like to see the graph of how being real fades as the beauty meter goes up. lol