Noob w/ toy site in need of direction

[EJackRabbit]

I've looked at quite a few other adult webmaster forums, and gfy is hands down the best on organization and advice.

Now enough knob slobbering, my site has been up and running for about 3 weeks. In trying to find a direction to head toward getting traffic and $, I don't know what to focus on 1st. The advice on this site is quality, but much of it pertains to galleries and tubes.

Should I go blogging, and will blogspot SEO very well? I was thinking: write a few blogs, submit 'em every day or two to Stumbleupon, and finding a social marketer or two doing sex toys in the UK or something that wants a boost but without boosting competition by promoting each others posts.

Now in getting a quicker source of $, what's the deal with Ebay and PayPal? I've been reading that they've started holding seller's money, and complaints favor winy customers over evidence. Look up "Ebay's Got a PayPal Problem," if ya want evidence.

PayPal already rejected a sell on supplements and hampered my account for a day. When I asked why those were banned and others were not, they referred me to their vague, open-ended Terms of Use. In other words, he was telling me it was my responsibility to comply with their policy while he didn't know how I broke the policy.