Originally Posted by camperjohn64 (Post 18524742)

Well I never spent a dime on her, and when I did bought next time. Soooo....dunno...if I was buying dinner or stuff, then I would agree, but it was 50/50...

I knew from the start I wouldn't spend money on a stripper.

Originally Posted by camperjohn64 (Post 18524746)

I am 100% confident in who I am. Tall, slim, handsome, great person. No issues.

I think that's why it irks me that she choose a coke addicted tattooed fighter. Nothing of value there, just flash in the pan. And probably from all the grease that comes off him.

She is not even in my league, but I offered my affections none the less. She is the one that blew it.

Originally Posted by camperjohn64 (Post 18524746)

I am 100% confident in who I am. Tall, slim, handsome, great person. No issues.

I think that's why it irks me that she choose a coke addicted tattooed fighter. Nothing of value there, just flash in the pan. And probably from all the grease that comes off him.

She is not even in my league, but I offered my affections none the less. She is the one that blew it.

Originally Posted by Trayce (Post 18526463)

Are you being sarcastic? Nevermind. If I had a shred of trust left tonight's "light reading" well and truly killed it.

Originally Posted by L-Pink (Post 18526438)

Maybe the lesson to really be learned is ...... Have a PRIVATE thought every now and then.

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Originally Posted by Trayce (Post 18526417)

So this is the former "girlfriend" of camperjohn in this scenario. I'm allergic to drama but I also cant stand the smell of bullshit so I'm compelled to post. I've been doing some interesting reading tonight on GFY. I forget why I even came over here now. I dont log in often (obviously). Thought I'd be in bed asleep a couple hours ago but wow. It's like a train wreck. I probably couldn't sleep now if I wanted to.

john and I have dated for three years. We've always had an open arrangement and agreed if one of us found a more ideal person we'd let the other know and no hard feelings. Of course that's harder to swallow (so to speak) when it actually happens and feelings have expanded to something you didn't intend (at least for me, and he started the gf/bf stuff), especially when you're on the receiving end of the dumping, but whatever. I play fair and I stuck to our agreement and have been dealing with my own emotions and insecurities. We even spent Saturday night together going to Gaslamp to check out all the drunks in costume and we had fun. Well at least I had fun.

I've worked in this industry for a decade plus. I stay behind the scenes so most people don't know me. I'm openminded. I've been to swingers clubs/parties, I've played at Lair De Sade, and yes, we did watch the porn videos john was in at my request. I even point out girls I think are hot (not into them in general, but I still appreciate what most would consider beautiful), especially the blonde ones in john's case since that's what he likes. Most guys think I'm pretty fucking cool because I'm so openminded and while I dont look like Mindy, I'm not ugly either. (I'm sure the trolls will say different. Whatever.) The only thing I want is the truth, and respect. Isn't that common courtesy in a relationship like this?

The thing that's really ringing in my head is the bragging about me getting there five minutes after Mindy left back in August before I knew anything about this because YOU, john, did not keep our agreement and tell me you had something on the line. That is so low, both the bragging online and not telling me when you should have. Where is the class that I know you possess somewhere down in there? You say I didn't piss you off, but seriously, WTF? Did you forget I'm not "content?"

You know that final exaggerated kick they always give the guy that's getting the beating in the movies? That's exactly what I'm feeling right now. Thanks for the lesson.

Originally Posted by _Richard_ (Post 18526667)

i don't get why this is the 'end' for you. you admitted here that you had an open relationship with caveats to tell the other 'when someone better comes along'. From my and i am assuming gfys understanding, he found no such thing.

men are attracted to manipulative bitches like moths to a flame. don't blame us, it's our nature.

from where i am sitting in my basic gist and understanding, you guys have come to a point in a relationship where it isn't an 'open relationship' any more. rather than 'ending' things over a message board, perhaps it's time for camperjohn to put away the camera and pony up for a real nice dinner

Originally Posted by lazycash (Post 18526698)

According to her post, it appears that their open relationship consisted of each party being honest and forthcoming when they were seeing someone else on the side and it seems John wasn't. I'm sure it hurt her reading about his intense infatuation with this other girl, and I'm sure she got a little laugh out of him getting rejected.

Originally Posted by lazycash (Post 18526698)

According to her post, it appears that their open relationship consisted of each party being honest and forthcoming when they were seeing someone else on the side and it seems John wasn't. I'm sure it hurt her reading about his intense infatuation with this other girl, and I'm sure she got a little laugh out of him getting rejected.

Originally Posted by camperjohn64 (Post 18522703)

Someone needs to post that on her profile...not me. :-)

Originally Posted by _Richard_ (Post 18526712)

that sounds more like a closed relationship. i believe if that is the case, the general situation wasn't clearly clarified and therefore they should discuss new terms.

one assumes an 'open relationship' allows some leeway, and john wasn't even sleeping with this chick, and probably had the idea he never would.

should he hurt this ladys feelings over some slight, and ultimately platonic, infatuation?

does she not do this herself?

Originally Posted by epitome (Post 18526834)

Open relationships are usually based on sex with other people, not emotions for other people and it was pretty clear the guy thought he was in love with the stripper. That violates most rules of most open relationships. Banging her and forgetting her would have been a different thing.

Originally Posted by _Richard_ (Post 18526864)

ahh ok. so an open relationship allows for fucking and forgetting about women, but god forbid he has a friendship?

so you think what Tracy is mad about is simply the fact the dude is somewhat of a nice guy, who doesn't abuse and use women?

Originally Posted by epitome (Post 18526899)

He endless postings about her never gave you the vibe he'd marry the stripper the next day if she asked? Really? That guy was so pressed it was ridiculous.

Originally Posted by _Richard_ (Post 18527142)

i saw you posted three messages in this thread about 11.30pm your time? on a saturday?

Originally Posted by _Richard_ (Post 18527142)

i saw you posted three messages in this thread about 11.30pm your time? on a saturday?

Originally Posted by camperjohn64 (Post 18522754)

Oh, and on a side note, I got video of her climbing in bed with me.

When things were starting to crash and burn, a $28 hidden camera was my friend.

:-)

Originally Posted by epitome (Post 18527154)

Did you happen to see the weather reports in south Florida this weekend because of rina? Your answer may be there ...

Originally Posted by _Richard_ (Post 18527190)

was raining here too :(

Originally Posted by Trayce (Post 18527624)

See that? Your comments in the other threads I was thinking "wow, what an ass," but you actually get it. LOL Jokes on me. Good job :thumbsup Maybe I'm just the suckiest judge of character on the panet.

Originally Posted by Trayce (Post 18527667)

Well, here's the upside to all this too. I'm going to have revenge sex with L-Pink and rumor has it he's hung like a farm animal.

Originally Posted by L-Pink (Post 18527687)

Fixed your quote for you .....

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Originally Posted by camperjohn64 (Post 18527700)

I think she's mad at me.

Originally Posted by Trayce (Post 18527624)

Yes we were open, but he wasn't honest and what made me so upset is that he's BRAGGING about keeping it from me on here. Not that I care what GFY thinks, but man, I feel like an idiot. I'm not blaming him cuz those are my own feelings. I know guys are dogs and it's hard to keep 'em on the porch. That's ok. But how does one misjudge character so completely? Someone like that I wouldn't even want to give the time of day to much less be friends with. And it doesn't matter if he ultimately got laid or not, the intent was there to have a relationship with her, not just bang her and go. If you have the intent for emotional attachment, then let me know dammit so I can deal with mine and we can be friends.



Exactly. I actually feel sorry for him that he DIDNT at least get laid and gods... the insecurity. I knew he had some but holy christ. I never saw that between he and I. She totally played him, but duh, she's a stripper. Apparently she's good at it. Definitely some instant karma going on there.



See that? Your comments in the other threads I was thinking "wow, what an ass," but you actually get it. LOL Jokes on me. Good job :thumbsup Maybe I'm just the suckiest judge of character on the planet.



I have more class than that.



I thought he WAS a nice guy. Certainly it wouldn't have gone on between us for three years if I didnt think that. This is emotional abuse. I'll get over it because I dont subscribe to the victim mentality, but when you get hit, it's still going to hurt for a bit. I commend him for not taking most of y'alls advice about "raisin a pimp hand." LOL But I'm an idiot. I should've known the lying and sneaky shit wouldn't stop with him hiding me from his dance teacher since she's delusional about him just like he was delusional about Mindy. I just had no clue how bad the self esteem was. Geez, I thought I was HELPING him with that too. Guess I suck in more than one way.



Tell me about it. I'm wondering how much footage he has of me. Put that together with the whole "when I'm mad at you I'll put all your photos and videos that I never asked permission to take on a web site under your name." Too bad some photographer in NY beat you to my domain when it became available john. Or is that really YOU Mr. Anderson? Ironic, no?



Yeah, I thought long and hard (::snicker:: - c'mon, you know you have a bazillion jokes for that!) about fueling any fires by posting, but I feel like such an idiot for not figuring it out sooner that I had to post something just for my own satisfaction. Especially when he even SENT ME THE LINK to this post because he was pissed that she dumped him. I never searched for anything else before last night because I TRUSTED that this was the only link. Ran across the other link by accident. Who knew? I guess I know now.

Originally Posted by Trayce (Post 18527624)

LOL But I'm an idiot.

Originally Posted by garce (Post 18528685)

As well, if that is you pictured in your avatar, you also have a stunning pair of legs.

Originally Posted by L-Pink (Post 18527687)

Fixed your quote for you .....

Originally Posted by epitome (Post 18527698)

She doesn't want to be your next avatar! ;)

Originally Posted by _Richard_ (Post 18528263)

best of luck to you

very nice blog btw

Originally Posted by SuckOnThis (Post 18541358)

I hate to be left hanging