I need my back rubbed.

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I don't know how you can say she was your type, no way is that chick into camping.

I know this has been hard on you John, but why the long face?

Hey I wish my hair looked as good as CamperJohns, and I bet he is better looking than 9 out of 10 of us blobs who post on GFY.:2 cents: Also, I did not mean for this thread to pick on CamperJohn. I really was trying to help him get into this girl's pants not only because it is the right thing to do but also because she reminds me of the girl I lost my virginity to when I was 14. She literally lived in a single-wide trailer and she broke my heart. There is a country song there somewhere......

As a sidenote: My sig is for sale to and all you have to do is make a donation to a certain dog rescue that is located in Los Angeles. http://www.wgsr.org/how-to-help/
The first person to donate gets my sig for an entire month. Any amount is fine and I won't disclose to anyone who much you donated unless you want. This rescue does amazing work and I cannot think of a more deserving organization. Thank you.
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Hate to break it to you but you were never "friends," just another john cruising through her weekly list. Um no pun intended lol

Now harden up and post the video, so others can spread it around and you will redeem yourself here. :1orglaugh :winkwink:

Well I never spent a dime on her, and when I did bought next time. Soooo....dunno...if I was buying dinner or stuff, then I would agree, but it was 50/50...

I knew from the start I wouldn't spend money on a stripper.

I am 100% confident in who I am. Tall, slim, handsome, great person. No issues.

I think that's why it irks me that she choose a coke addicted tattooed fighter. Nothing of value there, just flash in the pan. And probably from all the grease that comes off him.

She is not even in my league, but I offered my affections none the less. She is the one that blew it.

cherrylula is your ICQ working ? I sent you a message several days ago re: some work never got a response.

hey I'm sorry I got the add but for some reason the message thing didn't pop up... I is icq tard. I am on now will msg ya

come on donate anything to that charity and get my sig for a month. You can even just ask me to stop posting for a month like that last guy :)

Sorry but just because she paid for dinner a few times does not mean she wouldn't accept money for sex. :1orglaugh and other things... rent/car payment/nails/tanning.... she was sniffing you out hardcore.

And she is pro. Those girls use men for as long as they can. The best strippers I've known work those old lonely guys and get ALL sorts of free shit. They don't always have sex with them either, I've seen that scenario many times.

You mentioned she was your type though, are you sure? :1orglaugh

You tried to make a sex tape with her! hidden camera and all. :1orglaugh

maybe she made the right choice... sorry but lol

She chose the man. Go get a pedicure and decompress.

So this is the former "girlfriend" of camperjohn in this scenario. I'm allergic to drama but I also cant stand the smell of bullshit so I'm compelled to post. I've been doing some interesting reading tonight on GFY. I forget why I even came over here now. I dont log in often (obviously). Thought I'd be in bed asleep a couple hours ago but wow. It's like a train wreck. I probably couldn't sleep now if I wanted to.

john and I have dated for three years. We've always had an open arrangement and agreed if one of us found a more ideal person we'd let the other know and no hard feelings. Of course that's harder to swallow (so to speak) when it actually happens and feelings have expanded to something you didn't intend (at least for me, and he started the gf/bf stuff), especially when you're on the receiving end of the dumping, but whatever. I play fair and I stuck to our agreement and have been dealing with my own emotions and insecurities. We even spent Saturday night together going to Gaslamp to check out all the drunks in costume and we had fun. Well at least I had fun.

I've worked in this industry for a decade plus. I stay behind the scenes so most people don't know me. I'm openminded. I've been to swingers clubs/parties, I've played at Lair De Sade, and yes, we did watch the porn videos john was in at my request. I even point out girls I think are hot (not into them in general, but I still appreciate what most would consider beautiful), especially the blonde ones in john's case since that's what he likes. Most guys think I'm pretty fucking cool because I'm so openminded and while I dont look like Mindy, I'm not ugly either. (I'm sure the trolls will say different. Whatever.) The only thing I want is the truth, and respect. Isn't that common courtesy in a relationship like this?

The thing that's really ringing in my head is the bragging about me getting there five minutes after Mindy left back in August before I knew anything about this because YOU, john, did not keep our agreement and tell me you had something on the line. That is so low, both the bragging online and not telling me when you should have. Where is the class that I know you possess somewhere down in there? You say I didn't piss you off, but seriously, WTF? Did you forget I'm not "content?"

You know that final exaggerated kick they always give the guy that's getting the beating in the movies? That's exactly what I'm feeling right now. Thanks for the lesson.

Oh boy, I really hurt the one I love. The one that really loves me. Now I really blew it.

Maybe the lesson to really be learned is ...... Have a PRIVATE thought every now and then.

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Don't post stuff to gfy if your girlfriend is on gfy, geez man....she does sound pretty cool though...its too easy to take what you already have for granted.

Are you being sarcastic? Nevermind. If I had a shred of trust left tonight's "light reading" well and truly killed it.

Trayce, you are a very good writer. Loving your blog.:2 cents:

I'm available for revenge sex ......

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trayce how does your relationship with john fit into the law of attraction?

Thank you. :) Apparently I will have plenty of time now to update it.

L-Pink, some of your comments were priceless. Can I be your next ex? :winkwink:

That is PRECISELY what I've been thinking about for about a week now. I'm just not into girls enough to switch teams tho! :1orglaugh

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i don't get why this is the 'end' for you. you admitted here that you had an open relationship with caveats to tell the other 'when someone better comes along'. From my and i am assuming gfys understanding, he found no such thing.

men are attracted to manipulative bitches like moths to a flame. don't blame us, it's our nature.

from where i am sitting in my basic gist and understanding, you guys have come to a point in a relationship where it isn't an 'open relationship' any more. rather than 'ending' things over a message board, perhaps it's time for camperjohn to put away the camera and pony up for a real nice dinner

According to her post, it appears that their open relationship consisted of each party being honest and forthcoming when they were seeing someone else on the side and it seems John wasn't. I'm sure it hurt her reading about his intense infatuation with this other girl, and I'm sure she got a little laugh out of him getting rejected.

that sounds more like a closed relationship. i believe if that is the case, the general situation wasn't clearly clarified and therefore they should discuss new terms.

one assumes an 'open relationship' allows some leeway, and john wasn't even sleeping with this chick, and probably had the idea he never would.

should he hurt this ladys feelings over some slight, and ultimately platonic, infatuation?

does she not do this herself?

I should have said something. I didn't really think it was going anywhere with this girl, but I still should have said something.

Even though I never slept with her, cheating emotionally is just as hurtful as cheating physically.

haha I love GFY!

Ill do it. Show me where.

Open relationships are usually based on sex with other people, not emotions for other people and it was pretty clear the guy thought he was in love with the stripper. That violates most rules of most open relationships. Banging her and forgetting her would have been a different thing.

well since he humiliated you in public spill the dirt on this guy. don't hold back Trayce.

ahh ok. so an open relationship allows for fucking and forgetting about women, but god forbid he has a friendship?

so you think what Tracy is mad about is simply the fact the dude is somewhat of a nice guy, who doesn't abuse and use women?

He endless postings about her never gave you the vibe he'd marry the stripper the next day if she asked? Really? That guy was so pressed it was ridiculous.

i saw you posted three messages in this thread about 11.30pm your time? on a saturday?

Did you happen to see the weather reports in south Florida this weekend because of rina? Your answer may be there ...

I can think of a few million reasons why someone living in Miami would want to stay home on a Saturday night.

this is fucked up :2 cents:

was raining here too :(

Typical GFY relationship success story.